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Valhala

Valhala

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Jul 30, 2024
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" One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt.

In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new to fill the void. But there comes a moment, often when it's too late, that you realize certain people are irreplaceable. The unique essence they bring to your life, the way they understand your soul, and the connection you share cannot be duplicated. No matter how many new faces you meet, the bond you had with that one special person—be it a friend, a partner, or even a mentor—was singular. And losing that connection leaves an imprint that no one else can fill. It's only when they're gone that the weight of their absence truly sinks in, and the harsh truth hits: the same person does not come twice in a lifetime.

We often hurt those closest to us without fully realizing the magnitude of the damage. In moments of frustration, anger, or pride, we say things, do things, or fail to do things that cut deeply into the hearts of those who care about us. And we assume that apologies, time, or distance will heal everything, that life will go on, and there will always be another chance to make things right. But what if there isn't? What if the person you hurt is the one whose presence you'll never be able to replace? The one whose laughter, whose love, whose companionship was meant to walk with you through life's trials and joys? The truth is, not everyone is replaceable. Some souls touch ours in ways that forever change us, and to lose them is to lose a piece of ourselves.

Be careful who you hurt.

There's a reason this warning feels so profound. Hurting someone isn't just about breaking trust or causing momentary pain; it's about altering the course of a relationship that may never recover. And while we often think we have time to mend what's broken, the reality is that sometimes, we don't. Time doesn't always heal; sometimes, it only widens the gap between two hearts that once beat in sync. The wounds we inflict in moments of carelessness or neglect can run deeper than we imagine. Words said in haste or actions taken in selfishness have a way of echoing in the minds of those we hurt, long after the moment has passed.

Not everyone will give you another chance. Not everyone will be there waiting for you to come to your senses, to apologize, to grow. Some people, once they've been hurt, once they feel betrayed or unloved, will quietly walk away. And when you realize what you've lost, it will be too late. The space they occupied in your life will remain, but their presence, their light, their love, will be gone. You'll search for them in others, but you'll never find the same soul, the same connection, the same magic.

So, be mindful of your words. Be intentional with your actions. Recognize the people who truly matter in your life and treat them with the care they deserve. Love them fully while they're still within your reach, because one day, you may realize just how rare they are—and by then, they might be gone. Life is fleeting, and relationships are fragile. Don't let pride, ego, or carelessness ruin something beautiful."
 
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Learned this lesson to late
 
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And when I think about everything, maybe it's a little easier for me to know that I never consciously wanted to hurt her, that we never said a single ugly word to each other, that I loved her sincerely at every moment, even when I broke up with her due to mistakes in communication, when I thought, paradoxically, that this interruption would "reset" us and later bring us even closer to each other. I did not act frivolously but impulsively and impatiently solely because I wanted to resolve our togetherness as soon as possible and because I loved her endlessly as I love her now..:-(
 
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