Venting Anyone else fed up with the tribalism going on in the world?

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

It feels wrong and I especially hate that I am supposed to go: "Well I shouldn't judge a whole community for one persons behaviour" while they infantilize the mentally ill or suicidal people and we end up being stereotyped and stigmatized by them.

Like my problems sometimes actually feel bigger than "insert here" and I kinda just wanna say it to everyone's faces and then tell them that they don't matter and not care about the consequences, it's like I want to bait them into swinging so I can swing back harder.

Fuck everyone, especially the notion that just because someone is part of some ethnicity, group or gender they are automatically a little angel, want to smack them all in their face for enabling rats to be in their little tribe then and for using anonymity to act like assholes themselves , how about that.

I sometimes wonder why I even bothered to try to be good in this shithole of a world, it would have helped had I been raised as a psychopath or sociopath, I would have led a better life climbing on others instead of helping people up only for them to meet me with a brick to the face while I'm halfway doing the climb alone

 

[Ligottian]

It may be a sad fact, but tribalism, often the very violent kind, has been going on since before we came down from the trees. Thanks to our big primate brains, humans can even sometimes use pretending to be ant-tribal to secretly advance the interests of their own "tribe".

 

[Jdieiejdjaow]

It feels wrong and I especially hate that I am supposed to go: "Well I shouldn't judge a whole community for one persons behaviour" while they infantilize the mentally ill or suicidal people and we end up being stereotyped and stigmatized by them.

Like my problems sometimes actually feel bigger than "insert here" and I kinda just wanna say it to everyone's faces and then tell them that they don't matter and not care about the consequences, it's like I want to bait them into swinging so I can swing back harder.

Fuck everyone, especially the notion that just because someone is part of some ethnicity, group or gender they are automatically a little angel, want to smack them all in their face for enabling rats to be in their little tribe then and for using anonymity to act like assholes themselves , how about that.

I sometimes wonder why I even bothered to try to be good in this shithole of a world, it would have helped had I been raised as a psychopath or sociopath, I would have led a better life climbing on others instead of helping people up only for them to meet me with a brick to the face while I'm halfway doing the climb alone

As a sociopath, trust me, it's not fun. You depend on other people's empathy and when you don't get any (like in the times we live in now), you resort to harmful behaviors. If you think you'd have belonging with other sociopaths, then that's wishful thinking as they use you and treat you badly. While pro-social people isolate and discriminate you. You may be successful (most politicians are HCPs) - which is the system we live in -, but not happy (which, again, if you're in the West, is the system we live in).

 

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

As a sociopath, trust me, it's not fun. You depend on other people's empathy and when you don't get any (like in the times we live in now), you resort to harmful behaviors. If you think you'd have belonging with other sociopaths, then that's wishful thinking as they use you and treat you badly. While pro-social people isolate and discriminate you. You may be successful (most politicians are HCPs) - which is the system we live in -, but not happy (which, again, if you're in the West, is the system we live in).

Pro-Social people isolate and discriminate me already, anyways I shouldn't have said that about psychopaths and sociopaths, it was something in the spur of the moment, I know it isn't a gift, I just wished I could have been raised to be more cold and self-centered instead of empathetic , it didn't do me good at all and now that I ended up being cold and self-centered it doesn't do me good because I have absolutely no base since I didn't do anything to better myself as a kid I just survived through abuse by people pleasing and bootlicking and I have drilled that into my head.

 

[ringo99]

Being highly introverted, I find tribalism easy to ignore. I simply don't care about the world and what goes on in it anymore because caring isn't going to improve my situation in the slightest

 

[Jdieiejdjaow]

Pro-Social people isolate and discriminate me already, anyways I shouldn't have said that about psychopaths and sociopaths, it was something in the spur of the moment, I know it isn't a gift, I just wished I could have been raised to be more cold and self-centered instead of empathetic , it didn't do me good at all and now that I ended up being cold and self-centered it doesn't do me good because I have absolutely no base since I didn't do anything to better myself as a kid I just survived through abuse by people pleasing and bootlicking and I have drilled that into my head.

There are MH professionals that will not isolate and/or discriminate. It's hard to get ahold of them, though they are out there.