Venting Autism is ALL that matters

[ALonelyFreak]

Basically is there is any conflict in a group that I'm in it's my fault. Whatever the real cause. My autism isn't actually that bad. I understand more social norms that a regular autistic person and I'm way less rigid. If I make a very slight mistake it's always exaggerated but when somebody doesn't give a fuck at all about my boundaries I should just forgive them.

Example - I'm studying at a uni with low entry requirements. Last year I ended in a new group. Some people are fine but some just want to stir chaos for fun. You know, narcissists. They aren't even good students. So they started kinda bullying me and it escalated. They weren't allowing me to be able to study. I'm not a saint but I wasn't a bitch to them. It escalated. Obviously it was all their fault. So the uni workers reacted and made them stop bullying me. Problem solved? No. Because I'm autistic they sent me to a uni counsellor. Just because I'm autistic. From what I know the bullies weren't forced to go. Yes because my behaviour is problematic. Well at least they didn't control what I talked about with that guy. We didn't talk about uni much. He was allegedly a psychologist and he made fun of my eating problems.


People say autism isn't the end of the world but it is.

 

[Edu Ardanuy]

Not really, dear. Bullies are the end of the world and they will try and take advantage of every single one that crosses them paths.

 

[ALonelyFreak]

Yeah that's what I mean. Bullies don't havve "bad" labels such as "autistic" or "poor" so they are automatically considered to be good guys.

 

[Edu Ardanuy]

Yeah that's what I mean. Bullies don't havve "bad" labels such as "autistic" or "poor" so they are automatically considered to be good guys.

Well observed. While a fat, short, autistic, poor or naive person is automatically labeled by showing/having any of those characteristics(or even others I didn't mention there for the sake of brevity), bullies are just considered bullies if caught right at the moment of bullying someone else. Aside of that circunstance, they are seem as good guys, regular guys at least, not bullies.

 

[Simba]

I'm sorry to hear what you've been thru. Those humans sound disgusting. They should get counselling ,too ,in my opinion. It's sad that just because someones autistic or whatever and people can be either super nice ,mean or like this talking to you as if you're dumb and don't understand shit. Also ,you said that autism is the end of the world ,i am curious as to what makes you think that. I'm also autistic and it's one of my main reasons why i dont wanna be here.