Discussion Ctb in relationship

[Unseelie]

I have a girlfriend, and while I do love her, I still feel the urge to just... end all this. Does anybody else feel this way? What should I do? What can I do?

 

[niki wonoto]

I have a girlfriend, and while I do love her, I still feel the urge to just... end all this. Does anybody else feel this way? What should I do? What can I do?

you have a girlfriend.. why you are still not happy?..

i don't have a girlfriend.. that's why i want to ctb.. because i feel so alone..

 

[Ch4in3dcr0w]

During my relationship either her want to end her own life didnt end nor did mine and it didnt affect our love towards together. It will be hard for her to move on because i remember when my EX attempted many times and how much of a mental toll it took on me even as someone who was suicidal but u should make the most important decision about life and death only looking at what u want and your feelings.
On what u can do is up to you and what u feel u want to leave her or if u even want to leave her something. If u want to leave something letter could work about your feelings, good times and bad ones and generally how much she meant to you but its entirely up to you to decide once again it doesnt define how much u love your girlfriend.
Much love

 

[Unseelie]

you have a girlfriend.. why you are still not happy?..

i don't have a girlfriend.. that's why i want to ctb.. because i feel so alone..

Because relationships don't fix what we're going through, as much as you'd like it to.

 

[Scythe]

Talk about it with her, but do expect the worst if you do. You can breakup before you attempt or leave a note. But to me it's best to talk about it, presenting it as passive suicide idealation first is for the best. Usually nobody tries to send you to the ward for passive suicide idealation. And it's easier to accept than something like "I want to die, and you can't save me."
If they react badly to you opening up because it's too much of a burden or whatever, I'd say she's not a good option to be in a relationship with since she's unwilling to support you even once.
I'm not sure what exactly causes you to be on this site so I don't know if it can be worked out and if you want to.

Also I don't have a lot to work on so I'm just assuming she doesn't know of ur mental problems at all.

 

[Unseelie]

Talk about it with her, but do expect the worst if you do. You can breakup before you attempt or leave a note. But to me it's best to talk about it, presenting it as passive suicide idealation first is for the best. Usually nobody tries to send you to the ward for passive suicide idealation. And it's easier to accept than something like "I want to die, and you can't save me."
If they react badly to you opening up because it's too much of a burden or whatever, I'd say she's not a good option to be in a relationship with since she's unwilling to support you even once.
I'm not sure what exactly causes you to be on this site so I don't know if it can be worked out and if you want to.

Also I don't have a lot to work on so I'm just assuming she doesn't know of ur mental problems at all.

She knows a lot of them. And of my ideation. I don't talk to her about it much, because she lacks the emotional tools to gracefully deal with these topics. I still love her though.

 

[Scythe]

She knows a lot of them. And of my ideation. I don't talk to her about it much, because she lacks the emotional tools to gracefully deal with these topics. I still love her though.

I've got nothing then, I only really interact with people who knows I'm suicidal, that I cannot and don't want help and accept that.
I'd still leave a note and stuff though. Or weigh the risk and tell you with the worst result being warded.

 

[bankai]

you have a girlfriend.. why you are still not happy?..

i don't have a girlfriend.. that's why i want to ctb.. because i feel so alone..

There are other people whose partners are the reason they want to catch the bus. So the situations are pretty different.