Do you have wishes and hopes for 2025? Share if you like!

[Praestat_Mori]

I hope that I can find a way out of the hole I'm trapped in and that nothing bad is gonna happen that will push me to CTB. A real recovery would be nice but probably that remains a dream.

I hope everyone can achieve their dreams in 2025. Peace.

 

[falling_snow]

I wish for a peaceful death, or at least a peaceful life and recovery. May 2025 bring peace and happiness to everyone!

 

[PhDone]

Definitely a peaceful death asap and being greeted with love and healing in the afterlife. And as little hurt for my mum and family, and onward love, safety and security for my cats.

Peace and love to everyone.

 

[HappiestAngel]

I hope I can get better, maybe regain passions somehow. I wish I could study again because my family really wants me too. I used to be a decent student but after I stopped feeling positive emotions studying became impossible. It was just the frustration without any sense of accomplishment when I finally understood or learned something. So I hope that gets better.

 

[yowai]

I wish I can get the ADD diagnosis and try out new meds so I can function somehow without abusing street stimulants and then maybe get a drivers license.

 

[uselessflesh]

friends that won't betray me

 

[Forever Sleep]

I have certain things I hope won't happen but, not that many hopes or wishes for nice things. It's mainly that I hope I continue to hang on while things get no worse!

A fair bit of it isn't blind hope though. A fair bit is simple cause and effect. So- I've let my exercising slip and I feel like shit as a result. It can't exactly be a hope that I make myself exercise. Either I do it or I don't. If I don't, it won't be bad luck, it will be because I'm lazy! So, I suppose I see this kind of thing more as new years resolutions or best intentions rather than hoping to be blessed with things magically. I don't think that happens very often!

 

[FuneralCry]

All I personally wish and hope for is to cease existing, I just want peace from all terrible unnecessary suffering in this existence I always saw as the most cruel mistake, I'd never wish for existence and I see existence as an abomination that just causes endless amounts of cruelty and suffering until death takes away all anyway, to me human existence truly is the most futile, torturous burden. I just wish to be permanently free from it but of course I'm enslaved in this existence that was so tragically imposed without the option to just painlessly die in peace and never suffer ever again, nothing would make me wish to suffer in this existence and I only hope for death as only in non-existence will I be unable to suffer, only non-existence can solve what I see as the ultimate problem that is existence itself, I'd always prefer to painlessly cease existing than suffer in this existence where I'm just waiting to die anyway.

 

[KillingPain267]

Death

 

[Thisisnotaname]

My daughter turn 11 in 2025.
Even if I'm not "here" I would she's growing up nicely and loved by her mother's family.
Mine doesn't really matter about her.

 

[iloveloving]

I hope I am better than now.

 

[Alexei_Kirillov]

I hope I die painlessly and peacefully and unexpectedly in my sleep.

Apart from that, I hope I can replenish the savings I burned through during my months of self-imposed unemployment, and to do so as quickly as possible. I also hope that I can read some good books -- I read 15 this year, but they were all kind of meh. Hoping for a better reading year.

 

[Cavalcade]

I find that hope is a very difficult emotion to hold. I can get cagey about anything that involves an element of change, or unreliability, by way of introducing reliance on others.

To that end, I'm looking forward to honouring my private tradition of bringing in the new year by listening to The Mountain Goats' This Year, which I have for many years now.

When I'm more mentally well, I enjoy working on a passion project- a novel. Assuming I could keep up a reasonable pace, it's not outlandish to think it might be finished sometime in the Spring. So, I am looking forward to accomplishing that.

I'd also like to play more solo journalling and solo TTRPG games, because there isn't the heartbreak of involving other people and issues with scheduling mishaps. Safer prospect.

Those are all things I can do for and by myself, so it's much more comfortable to indulge in hoping for.

For a slightly riskier prospect, I would like to talk to my brother more in the coming year. 2024 was devastating for both of us. I hope the coming year is kinder.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I wish to die in 2025

 

[HappiestAngel]

I find that hope is a very difficult emotion to hold. I can get cagey about anything that involves an element of change, or unreliability, by way of introducing reliance on others.

To that end, I'm looking forward to honouring my private tradition of bringing in the new year by listening to The Mountain Goats' This Year, which I have for many years now.

When I'm more mentally well, I enjoy working on a passion project- a novel. Assuming I could keep up a reasonable pace, it's not outlandish to think it might be finished sometime in the Spring. So, I am looking forward to accomplishing that.

I'd also like to play more solo journalling and solo TTRPG games, because there isn't the heartbreak of involving other people and issues with scheduling mishaps. Safer prospect.

Those are all things I can do for and by myself, so it's much more comfortable to indulge in hoping for.

For a slightly riskier prospect, I would like to talk to my brother more in the coming year. 2024 was devastating for both of us. I hope the coming year is kinder.

have you thought of playing in a play by post thing/ It's like text based ttrpg's or just roleplay without a schedule, the only thing that groups often have is like amount of posts that are expected per day, most are 1 per day from what i've seen but the group im in can be really active sometimes. I highly recommend trying it if you like writing and escapism. I think escapism is easier with others involved because then all the scenarios are not from your own mind.

 

[Cavalcade]

have you thought of playing in a play by post thing/ It's like text based ttrpg's or just roleplay without a schedule, the only thing that groups often have is like amount of posts that are expected per day, most are 1 per day from what i've seen but the group im in can be really active sometimes. I highly recommend trying it if you like writing and escapism. I think escapism is easier with others involved because then all the scenarios are not from your own mind.

Yes, this is usually my preferred method. I've been meaning to branch out to a new group- the last longstanding one I was in sort of blew up after a few years together, and it's been disheartening. I think once I've dredged up the courage and wherewithal to try reaching out, it might be easier on my mental health to join a pre established group, rather than being the main orchestrator behind them as I have been for the last decade or so.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the matter though, it was genuinely very heartwarming to see someone reach out with a helpful suggestion.

 

[3/4Dead]

Top surgery and a gun are my two wishes

 

[Tired_of_myself]

i wish to travel more, to have a better job (or better payment) and a healthy peaceful body/mind. I wish I exercise more and top surgery, my dysphoria is getting pretty nowadays…

 

[-nobodyknows-]

I do not know. I would like for things to be better, though it is difficult picturing how they could

 

[FearOfMachines]

I wish for medication that will help me. I don't know for sure if I want medication or not but for now it would benefit me a lot.

 

[hoppybunny]

To graduate and have a nice job. (plus be consistent with my art)

 

[ShatteredSerenity]

No, hope is dead to me now and I'm too jaded for any more wishes in this life.

 

[owano]

I wish I can study effectively and be able to retain the information. I hope I can feel comfortable around people, that I genuinely belong and that they care for me to be there. I hope to find my footing in life and see a trajectory to being able to obtain bigger goals / pursue passions. I hope I can get the mental help I need and the medications as necessary (THAT WORK!!! ive seen a lot of people say their meds make them feel numb and/or more unmotivated to do things which is like..)