I don't see why porn would have anything to do with it. If you're talking about non-consentual porn, which thankfully I've never seen any... that's a different story. But when adults consent to whatever goes on in a porn shoot, then any women involved in it are there and willing participants. Women in porn typically get paid more than men do too. My point isn't to defend porn per se, but to say that I don't think porn should make a woman feel like "meat."
Now, the behavior of actual men in real life and how most men are practically trained to seek out women primarily for sex first... that probably will make a woman feel like "meat." I think real-world actions of most average men as well as sexual predators are way more of a problem than the porn industry.