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Darkover

Darkover

Angelic
Jul 29, 2021
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It means if you learn not to expect things from others, and just do for yourself then you will not be disappointed when the other person does not follow through
if there's anything i've learned it's to expect to be disappointed
i'm not a great believer in this place
this place has always been shit and always will be shit
everything you ever wanted is nothing but a dream away
 
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MeltingBrain

MeltingBrain

Wizard
May 29, 2023
603
It means if you learn not to expect things from others, and just do for yourself then you will not be disappointed when the other person does not follow through
if there's anything i've learned it's to expect to be disappointed
Very true.

"Expectation is the root cause of all heartache" - William Shakespeare
Even the most basic expectations like having a healthy mind and body can be taken away at a moments notice with no fault of yours. It happened to you and it happened to me .
 
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sserafim

sserafim

brighter than the sun, that’s just me
Sep 13, 2023
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It means if you learn not to expect things from others, and just do for yourself then you will not be disappointed when the other person does not follow through
if there's anything i've learned it's to expect to be disappointed
i'm not a great believer in this place
this place has always been shit and always will be shit
everything you ever wanted is nothing but a dream away
Honestly I feel like life is just a bad dream and that our real life happens after we wake up from this one
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
10,380
Yeah- that's so true. It's difficult though- how do you form friendships when there is no trust? I don't really form friendships now but it's kind of sad really. I try to be grateful for what time people give me but as you say- it's better not to expect it.
 
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peace_van

peace_van

My time stops now.
Sep 9, 2023
69
Yeah- that's so true. It's difficult though- how do you form friendships when there is no trust? I don't really form friendships now but it's kind of sad really. I try to be grateful for what time people give me but as you say- it's better not to expect it.
Friendship is also your expectation, you can just give it up as long as you have a strong and independent mindset.
Sadly that mental state is difficult to reach for most of us, we need others' acknowledgement and companionship.
 
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WAITING TO DIE

WAITING TO DIE

TORMENTED
Sep 30, 2023
1,539
It means if you learn not to expect things from others, and just do for yourself then you will not be disappointed when the other person does not follow through
if there's anything i've learned it's to expect to be disappointed
i'm not a great believer in this place
this place has always been shit and always will be shit
everything you ever wanted is nothing but a dream away
Yes, I like this way of thinking.
It reminds me of stoicism.
 
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Unattainable666

Unattainable666

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2023
1,346
I wish someone would have told me this earlier in my life. I wouldn't have wasted my time on suffering in this shit show
 
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