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been__ready

Member
Nov 25, 2024
98
Dear SS friends,

I want to start by saying how thankful I am for this forum and community. When I feel I have lost everyone and everything - it is the only thing that has kept me going for months.

Even though I only recently "officially" joined I have been silently participating by observing, empathizing, and taking guidance from the forum.

How I wish we could meet in person.

So many of us share common pain and suffering.

I often wonder what it would've been like to have been born into a family/circle that understands/holds me the way I feel understood/held by the shared experiences of this community.

I wanted to share my experience in the hopes that it may help someone else make an informed choice…and also because I haven't seen much listed about the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge in Taos, New Mexico on the site.. so I wanted to provide some insight…

I am a 38 year old female from the Southeast US. I have bipolar and BPD, and after my first impulsive attempt (suffocation) failed and resulted in a hospital stay - I vowed I would thoroughly research my next attempt.

I chose the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge in New Mexico because I felt it was a viable option for various reasons:

1) No tall fencing - fencing is about 4 feet and pedestrians ARE allowed on the bridge openly.. it is one of the few bridges in the US where I found this to be the case - accessible fencing, right height, and pedestrian accessible!

It is quite easy to scale the fence if you are able to do so quickly AND get over SI

(which I ultimately wasn't 😔 for a number of reasons..)

Although it is a pedestrian bridge and I spent a lot of time looking over the rail calculating my fall.. it also means you are sharing space with a lot of other people/tourists, couples and families also on the bridge.. and the bridge is still pretty active to vehicular traffic. a least one car per minute crossing over if not more.

It was a lot more active than I anticipated unfortunately.

Also - there is also a nearby rest area that is quite busy with sightseers and vendors.
That being said, despite numerous attempt visits at different times of day - I found it hard to scale the fence for fear of getting caught and detained, traumatizing others, having enough time to get over SI.. etc

I also tried going at night with no one around but my SI wouldn't even let me get out of the car to get on the bridge. 🫣 fml.. it was the darkest pitch of black I have ever seen.. with cars still crossing over. I felt for sure that someone would stop and try to capture me before I could scale the fence.. why else would someone be on that bridge at night. Too obvious.

2) Limited patrolling

They have a sad excuse for a security guard (who doesn't leave his car for his entire shift) at the nearby gorge rest station. Every time I passed him his head was down in his phone not paying attention to anything or anyone at all.

So basically no patrolling.. and even if they did see you trying to scale the fence, assuming you were quick enough - they wouldn't be able to get to you in time either on foot or by car.

Unless you hesitated of course… and got stuck half way through..

I visited the site no less than 7 times over a course of a week and no one - not the vendors selling items or the guard seemed to notice my coming and going, oftentimes multiple times a day wearing the same clothes..

3) Approved height (600 feet)..it's definitely high enough to CTB and there have been numerous fatalities over the years. I did a lot of research and although they have hidden some names I was able to find the names of some women around my age who I identified with.. I researched them, felt for them, left flowers at their memorials in understanding of our shared pain. One was a young mother of three…

- Taos is far from my family and everyone I know… I thought being far away would make it easier… I also love the stark beauty of New Mexico..

I did a lot of research on this option before choosing to fly half way across the country and yet I still couldn't bring myself to do it.

A note on SI while jumping - I wanted to share the absolutely horrific coming and goings of the mind.

This was the first time I experienced SI to this extent - it was wild.

I have read here that SI is the strongest when jumping and now I understand why.

Especially from a height of 600 feet, your brain and body KNOWS it's guaranteed to CTB.

For the entire day while at the airbnb, and even driving up to the bridge I would feel SO sure, SO committed that today was the day I would CTB!

For months before, I also looked up the bridge to familiarize myself with every aspect of it.. so that there wouldn't be any surprises.

I would remind myself over and over - for hours on end - of all of the failings in my life and how there is no hope for me except for a life of loneliness and pain..

OF course this was the time to CTB. I just had to find the short window to do it in! Get a grip damnit.

But then, as soon as I got on the bridge and looked over - my body would just FREEZE.. I kept thinking this would go away, the more I visited the site and desensitized myself to it.. or if I waited until just before sunset when it was relatively empty.. but that wasn't the case. In some cases it got worse..

The thoughts going through my head would range from -

- this is such a beautiful site, how could I possibly do this here? God is showing me how beautiful life is, can't you see? You want to live!

- this is absolutely terrifying what were you thinking flying half way across the country you fool.

- how can you be so selfish and do this and traumatize others..especially families
with young children..

- think about the first responders and others that will be impacted by this.

- you are going to experience absolute terror every second on the way down which may feel like an eternity (from what I've read)

- you will never be released from your earthly suffering and will be damned to hell and repeated experience of falling to death for the rest of eternity (fear of judgement from God)

And then as soon as I would leave the bridge I would be determined to return the next day and try again… after day 7, I decided it was time to regroup and go home.

I am now looking into SN as a more humane way to CTB, I wish I had looked into it earlier but it seemed to be quite difficult to locate and requiring a lot of moving parts to get right. And I was running out of time - so jumping did seem like the right option at the time.

If I attempt jumping again, it will have to be at a much quieter location (Navajo Bridge in the US is another consideration), or from the balcony of a very tall hotel room.. where I have privacy if I hesitate and won't be detained..

I am now flying back home to regroup and figure out what my next attempt will be.

This was long, I know. I hope it helps someone contemplating the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge..and jumping in general.
 
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TheHolySword

empty heart
Nov 22, 2024
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Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that you have been suffering so much. I hope that you are able to find your peace, wherever and whatever that may be. Wishing you the best ❤️
 
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been__ready

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Nov 25, 2024
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Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that you have been suffering so much. I hope that you are able to find your peace, wherever and whatever that may be. Wishing you the best ❤️
Thank you for the acknowledgment 🤕 —it's been rough. I hope that in the near future there is an easier and more humane way to go about this..
 
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lebrodude

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Jul 18, 2022
524
Yup.

Jumping from height seems a guaranteed quick death. One you can sit at home and post about on this site and think yeah, that's my ticket.

The reality is very different once you get to that cliff edge though. There must be a mental state beyond those just in ideation where the SI Is just overcome.

Or you know. A shit load of alcohol and sedatives might work….
 
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been__ready

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Nov 25, 2024
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Yup.

Jumping from height seems a guaranteed quick death. One you can sit at home and post about on this site and think yeah, that's my ticket.

The reality is very different once you get to that cliff edge though. There must be a mental state beyond those just in ideation where the SI Is just overcome.

Or you know. A shit load of alcohol and sedatives might work….

Isn't that the truth! If there ends up being another bridge run, I will definitely have to look into some sedatives - in this case, logistically it was complicated as I had to drive there.. (and back when I failed) and at bridges like this they do "well checks" on cars that are there at odd hours of the night. So - too much to consider! I wanted to stay out of the hospital/jail at all costs..

Thankful to this website and to have other options to look into. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 SN it is..
 
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Animaniax

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Nov 25, 2024
20
I was looking at the bridge by Vegas but your description describes that too. When reading what you wrote, I realized I wouldn't be able to jump there either. Fuck 😣
 
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been__ready

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Nov 25, 2024
98
I was looking at the bridge by Vegas but your description describes that too. When reading what you wrote, I realized I wouldn't be able to jump there either. Fuck 😣

I think the Vegas option may be quieter from what I've read.. and seen online.

And it doesn't have the reputation that the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge has at all.. RGGB is really known for jumpers with suicide hotlines on every post, and rosaries and memorials nearby for the fallen..

but yeah for the moment I'm regrouping and looking into some other options…. BUT push comes to shove — maybe we can meet there and jump together 😝

I did think to myself, this would be so much easier with a friend 🫣

I almost wish I went with the Vegas option but I was obsessed with the height of the RGGB and didn't think it would be so busy!
 
Pryras

Pryras

Last hope
Feb 11, 2020
550
I always figured taking SN would be the easiest way to overcome si since the real work happens when your unconscious, all you have to do is take the drink. Some stomach pain that isn't unbearable and then lights out.
 
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true-ending

true-ending

had we met under better circumstances...
Mar 27, 2023
31
man, yeah. bridges are hard and the SI with them sucks; especially with that flight its probably cheaper to SN or inert gas
 
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skylight7

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Aug 16, 2024
68
Dear SS friends,

I want to start by saying how thankful I am for this forum and community. When I feel I have lost everyone and everything - it is the only thing that has kept me going for months.

Even though I only recently "officially" joined I have been silently participating by observing, empathizing, and taking guidance from the forum.

How I wish we could meet in person.

So many of us share common pain and suffering.

I often wonder what it would've been like to have been born into a family/circle that understands/holds me the way I feel understood/held by the shared experiences of this community.

I wanted to share my experience in the hopes that it may help someone else make an informed choice…and also because I haven't seen much listed about the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge in Taos, New Mexico on the site.. so I wanted to provide some insight…

I am a 38 year old female from the Southeast US. I have bipolar and BPD, and after my first impulsive attempt (suffocation) failed and resulted in a hospital stay - I vowed I would thoroughly research my next attempt.

I chose the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge in New Mexico because I felt it was a viable option for various reasons:

1) No tall fencing - fencing is about 4 feet and pedestrians ARE allowed on the bridge openly.. it is one of the few bridges in the US where I found this to be the case - accessible fencing, right height, and pedestrian accessible!

It is quite easy to scale the fence if you are able to do so quickly AND get over SI

(which I ultimately wasn't 😔 for a number of reasons..)

Although it is a pedestrian bridge and I spent a lot of time looking over the rail calculating my fall.. it also means you are sharing space with a lot of other people/tourists, couples and families also on the bridge.. and the bridge is still pretty active to vehicular traffic. a least one car per minute crossing over if not more.

It was a lot more active than I anticipated unfortunately.

Also - there is also a nearby rest area that is quite busy with sightseers and vendors.
That being said, despite numerous attempt visits at different times of day - I found it hard to scale the fence for fear of getting caught and detained, traumatizing others, having enough time to get over SI.. etc

I also tried going at night with no one around but my SI wouldn't even let me get out of the car to get on the bridge. 🫣 fml.. it was the darkest pitch of black I have ever seen.. with cars still crossing over. I felt for sure that someone would stop and try to capture me before I could scale the fence.. why else would someone be on that bridge at night. Too obvious.

2) Limited patrolling

They have a sad excuse for a security guard (who doesn't leave his car for his entire shift) at the nearby gorge rest station. Every time I passed him his head was down in his phone not paying attention to anything or anyone at all.

So basically no patrolling.. and even if they did see you trying to scale the fence, assuming you were quick enough - they wouldn't be able to get to you in time either on foot or by car.

Unless you hesitated of course… and got stuck half way through..

I visited the site no less than 7 times over a course of a week and no one - not the vendors selling items or the guard seemed to notice my coming and going, oftentimes multiple times a day wearing the same clothes..

3) Approved height (600 feet)..it's definitely high enough to CTB and there have been numerous fatalities over the years. I did a lot of research and although they have hidden some names I was able to find the names of some women around my age who I identified with.. I researched them, felt for them, left flowers at their memorials in understanding of our shared pain. One was a young mother of three…

- Taos is far from my family and everyone I know… I thought being far away would make it easier… I also love the stark beauty of New Mexico..

I did a lot of research on this option before choosing to fly half way across the country and yet I still couldn't bring myself to do it.

A note on SI while jumping - I wanted to share the absolutely horrific coming and goings of the mind.

This was the first time I experienced SI to this extent - it was wild.

I have read here that SI is the strongest when jumping and now I understand why.

Especially from a height of 600 feet, your brain and body KNOWS it's guaranteed to CTB.

For the entire day while at the airbnb, and even driving up to the bridge I would feel SO sure, SO committed that today was the day I would CTB!

For months before, I also looked up the bridge to familiarize myself with every aspect of it.. so that there wouldn't be any surprises.

I would remind myself over and over - for hours on end - of all of the failings in my life and how there is no hope for me except for a life of loneliness and pain..

OF course this was the time to CTB. I just had to find the short window to do it in! Get a grip damnit.

But then, as soon as I got on the bridge and looked over - my body would just FREEZE.. I kept thinking this would go away, the more I visited the site and desensitized myself to it.. or if I waited until just before sunset when it was relatively empty.. but that wasn't the case. In some cases it got worse..

The thoughts going through my head would range from -

- this is such a beautiful site, how could I possibly do this here? God is showing me how beautiful life is, can't you see? You want to live!

- this is absolutely terrifying what were you thinking flying half way across the country you fool.

- how can you be so selfish and do this and traumatize others..especially families
with young children..

- think about the first responders and others that will be impacted by this.

- you are going to experience absolute terror every second on the way down which may feel like an eternity (from what I've read)

- you will never be released from your earthly suffering and will be damned to hell and repeated experience of falling to death for the rest of eternity (fear of judgement from God)

And then as soon as I would leave the bridge I would be determined to return the next day and try again… after day 7, I decided it was time to regroup and go home.

I am now looking into SN as a more humane way to CTB, I wish I had looked into it earlier but it seemed to be quite difficult to locate and requiring a lot of moving parts to get right. And I was running out of time - so jumping did seem like the right option at the time.

If I attempt jumping again, it will have to be at a much quieter location (Navajo Bridge in the US is another consideration), or from the balcony of a very tall hotel room.. where I have privacy if I hesitate and won't be detained..

I am now flying back home to regroup and figure out what my next attempt will be.

This was long, I know. I hope it helps someone contemplating the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge..and jumping in general.

Thank you for sharing.
 
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NegevChina

Experienced
Sep 5, 2024
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Thanks for sharing. I will have to jump because i have no other option. and its a very short fall for me, 9th floor, about 85 ft, landing on rocks. Got to land head first. SI will be bad so ill be taking lots of benzos. i guess my condition will be so bad even prior to taking benzos, my thinking would be foggy.
 
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waistcoat

wow, i have a lot of people to disappoint :o
Aug 10, 2024
189
thank you for sharing. i relate to a lot of what you wrote, especially being unable to even leave the car. there was a period a few months ago where i tried to go off a bridge (albeit, it was not of an approved height), and i found myself unable to even walk on to it due to SI... i hope you are able to find your peace ~ whatever that may be.
 
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AtLast

Member
Jul 16, 2018
32
Dear SS friends,

I want to start by saying how thankful I am for this forum and community. When I feel I have lost everyone and everything - it is the only thing that has kept me going for months.

Even though I only recently "officially" joined I have been silently participating by observing, empathizing, and taking guidance from the forum.

How I wish we could meet in person.

So many of us share common pain and suffering.

I often wonder what it would've been like to have been born into a family/circle that understands/holds me the way I feel understood/held by the shared experiences of this community.

I wanted to share my experience in the hopes that it may help someone else make an informed choice…and also because I haven't seen much listed about the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge in Taos, New Mexico on the site.. so I wanted to provide some insight…

I am a 38 year old female from the Southeast US. I have bipolar and BPD, and after my first impulsive attempt (suffocation) failed and resulted in a hospital stay - I vowed I would thoroughly research my next attempt.

I chose the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge in New Mexico because I felt it was a viable option for various reasons:

1) No tall fencing - fencing is about 4 feet and pedestrians ARE allowed on the bridge openly.. it is one of the few bridges in the US where I found this to be the case - accessible fencing, right height, and pedestrian accessible!

It is quite easy to scale the fence if you are able to do so quickly AND get over SI

(which I ultimately wasn't 😔 for a number of reasons..)

Although it is a pedestrian bridge and I spent a lot of time looking over the rail calculating my fall.. it also means you are sharing space with a lot of other people/tourists, couples and families also on the bridge.. and the bridge is still pretty active to vehicular traffic. a least one car per minute crossing over if not more.

It was a lot more active than I anticipated unfortunately.

Also - there is also a nearby rest area that is quite busy with sightseers and vendors.
That being said, despite numerous attempt visits at different times of day - I found it hard to scale the fence for fear of getting caught and detained, traumatizing others, having enough time to get over SI.. etc

I also tried going at night with no one around but my SI wouldn't even let me get out of the car to get on the bridge. 🫣 fml.. it was the darkest pitch of black I have ever seen.. with cars still crossing over. I felt for sure that someone would stop and try to capture me before I could scale the fence.. why else would someone be on that bridge at night. Too obvious.

2) Limited patrolling

They have a sad excuse for a security guard (who doesn't leave his car for his entire shift) at the nearby gorge rest station. Every time I passed him his head was down in his phone not paying attention to anything or anyone at all.

So basically no patrolling.. and even if they did see you trying to scale the fence, assuming you were quick enough - they wouldn't be able to get to you in time either on foot or by car.

Unless you hesitated of course… and got stuck half way through..

I visited the site no less than 7 times over a course of a week and no one - not the vendors selling items or the guard seemed to notice my coming and going, oftentimes multiple times a day wearing the same clothes..

3) Approved height (600 feet)..it's definitely high enough to CTB and there have been numerous fatalities over the years. I did a lot of research and although they have hidden some names I was able to find the names of some women around my age who I identified with.. I researched them, felt for them, left flowers at their memorials in understanding of our shared pain. One was a young mother of three…

- Taos is far from my family and everyone I know… I thought being far away would make it easier… I also love the stark beauty of New Mexico..

I did a lot of research on this option before choosing to fly half way across the country and yet I still couldn't bring myself to do it.

A note on SI while jumping - I wanted to share the absolutely horrific coming and goings of the mind.

This was the first time I experienced SI to this extent - it was wild.

I have read here that SI is the strongest when jumping and now I understand why.

Especially from a height of 600 feet, your brain and body KNOWS it's guaranteed to CTB.

For the entire day while at the airbnb, and even driving up to the bridge I would feel SO sure, SO committed that today was the day I would CTB!

For months before, I also looked up the bridge to familiarize myself with every aspect of it.. so that there wouldn't be any surprises.

I would remind myself over and over - for hours on end - of all of the failings in my life and how there is no hope for me except for a life of loneliness and pain..

OF course this was the time to CTB. I just had to find the short window to do it in! Get a grip damnit.

But then, as soon as I got on the bridge and looked over - my body would just FREEZE.. I kept thinking this would go away, the more I visited the site and desensitized myself to it.. or if I waited until just before sunset when it was relatively empty.. but that wasn't the case. In some cases it got worse..

The thoughts going through my head would range from -

- this is such a beautiful site, how could I possibly do this here? God is showing me how beautiful life is, can't you see? You want to live!

- this is absolutely terrifying what were you thinking flying half way across the country you fool.

- how can you be so selfish and do this and traumatize others..especially families
with young children..

- think about the first responders and others that will be impacted by this.

- you are going to experience absolute terror every second on the way down which may feel like an eternity (from what I've read)

- you will never be released from your earthly suffering and will be damned to hell and repeated experience of falling to death for the rest of eternity (fear of judgement from God)

And then as soon as I would leave the bridge I would be determined to return the next day and try again… after day 7, I decided it was time to regroup and go home.

I am now looking into SN as a more humane way to CTB, I wish I had looked into it earlier but it seemed to be quite difficult to locate and requiring a lot of moving parts to get right. And I was running out of time - so jumping did seem like the right option at the time.

If I attempt jumping again, it will have to be at a much quieter location (Navajo Bridge in the US is another consideration), or from the balcony of a very tall hotel room.. where I have privacy if I hesitate and won't be detained..

I am now flying back home to regroup and figure out what my next attempt will be.

This was long, I know. I hope it helps someone contemplating the Rio Grande Gorge Bridge..and jumping in general.
Thank you for your experience. I have lived in the south east for a few years and will be back soon, God willing. I'm now in the north east getting ready for the cold, depressing winter. It's not easy to CTB. If it were, I'm afraid this site would have a lot less members. My 1st attempt was 20 years ago and it has been mentally exhausting just trying to begin to think of doing it again. I've gotten up to the point of action many times and just didn't have the strength to follow through. The fear is just way too much to overcome. Falling is not an option for me. It scares me in so many ways and I don't want to suffer even for a second. I've done enough of that in this world and it wouldn't be fair. I see your very considerate, empathetic and caring in your approach. That speaks volumes. It seems mostly good people are the ones who suffer the most in this world. If you would like to chat…..
 
OnMyLast Legs

OnMyLast Legs

Too many regrets
Oct 29, 2024
203
I was looking at the bridge by Vegas but your description describes that too. When reading what you wrote, I realized I wouldn't be able to jump there either. Fuck 😣
Same. I was looking at the one by the Grand Canyon but there's no way. Too scary. I got terrified walking across high bridges before I ever thought of jumping.
 
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Raindancer

Raindancer

Specialist
Nov 4, 2023
323
I am sorry you went through all that. I can only imagine how hard it would be. Jumping is on my list, but I would like to be able to sit a bit, reflect, take my time. Like you mentioned, the last thing you want is to have someone try and interfere, or to traumatize anyone there. In all honesty, unless I was severely medicated I am highly doubtful I would be able to actually jump, although it would really be my first choice if I was alone and at peace.

Safe travels and take care of yourself when you get home.
 
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been__ready

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Nov 25, 2024
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I am sorry you went through all that. I can only imagine how hard it would be. Jumping is on my list, but I would like to be able to sit a bit, reflect, take my time. Like you mentioned, the last thing you want is to have someone try and interfere, or to traumatize anyone there. In all honesty, unless I was severely medicated I am highly doubtful I would be able to actually jump, although it would really be my first choice if I was alone and at peace.

Safe travels and take care of yourself when you get home.

Yes precisely - all the externals made it really difficult to execute.. but now that I'm back - waiting a month for SN seems like an unbearably long time so I may attempt from somewhere else.

I'm desperate to put an end to the suffering. Wishing you peace. Thank you for your reply.
Same. I was looking at the one by the Grand Canyon but there's no way. Too scary. I got terrified walking across high bridges before I ever thought of jumping.

Yes if that's the case then jumping would be very problematic, as it is quite terrifying… and that's from someone who doesn't have a fear of heights.

The bridge near the Grand Canyon does seem like it's quieter though…
I always figured taking SN would be the easiest way to overcome si since the real work happens when your unconscious, all you have to do is take the drink. Some stomach pain that isn't unbearable and then lights out.

Yes - it's crazy the self-preservation tactics of the mind. Wild in fact.

You can be so sure about something and yet when it comes time to act, nothing!

SN on the way now.. waiting is the hardest part when you've been so ready..

Thank you for your response.
thank you for sharing. i relate to a lot of what you wrote, especially being unable to even leave the car. there was a period a few months ago where i tried to go off a bridge (albeit, it was not of an approved height), and i found myself unable to even walk on to it due to SI... i hope you are able to find your peace ~ whatever that may be.

Thank you - I appreciate you and wish the same for you friend….
Thanks for sharing. I will have to jump because i have no other option. and its a very short fall for me, 9th floor, about 85 ft, landing on rocks. Got to land head first. SI will be bad so ill be taking lots of benzos. i guess my condition will be so bad even prior to taking benzos, my thinking would be foggy.

Wishing you peace but also be careful!! I did a lot research on height which is why I traveled so far… and chose this bridge in particular…

I know you say no other option but please just be cautious.. 🙏🏻 and take care
 
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stopwizard

stopwizard

again & again & again & again
Dec 7, 2024
11
I was looking at the bridge by Vegas but your description describes that too. When reading what you wrote, I realized I wouldn't be able to jump there either. Fuck 😣
Are you talking about Pat Tillman? I live in Vegas and it's about 45mins from me. If I can't get the money together for SN I plan on getting heavily sedated in my car and just doing it so SI doesn't take over.
 
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Zaphkiel

IDK
May 13, 2023
202
That was very nice of you to share your expérience with us.
I have fear of height so I cant imagine Si on top of it.

It only means it wasnt your time yet. Nothing wrong about it.
 
Opera

Opera

Member
Nov 16, 2024
64
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry, I have a terrible fear of heights so I can imagine your body was screaming to live, but it's ironic when you want to CTB but SI won't let you. I hope you can find peace 🙏
 
Crash_Bash_Dash

Crash_Bash_Dash

Nothing what I used to be
Apr 23, 2024
76
Yeah, I had my fear of jumping even in about 150 feet height in a very peaceful location without much of an obstacle to vault over so imagining your fear would be a macrodose from my fear. Sad, that the SI/fear of interference/fear of traumatizing others was in your way. Hope you find other means to fulfill your desired destiny!
 

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