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YukiFox

YukiFox

Pastel demon
Dec 8, 2018
320
Yes, I'm looking for recovery. But every time that something triggers me, I feel dizzy and nervous about my future.
Now, at the house that I lived, the landlady told me that she owes 500 dollars of energy bills. The cut date is to August, 1 if she doesn't pay at all. To resume, I was the only person that I paid the rent and two guys didn't paid in two months. So the landlady has problems to keep the bills and used her retirement check only for her food and needs.
Here's the worst part: since she has a low rated score in the credit system, she put the energy bill in the name of another person, who RAN AWAY and owed her two months of rent. Well, the thing is that there's a small possibility to break the contract of the previous tenant, transfer the $500 energy debt to that guy and the energy company contact the guy to invoice him. After then, create a new lean contract in my name, ask for the energy company to put my name as responsible and start from zero.
Sounds complicated, and risky. I felt pressured to that idea and I have fear to proceed with that tactics. It's legal, right, but I feel guilty since I'm easily convinced of things and kind hearted. But seriously, I feel angry because I was the only one who worked (As freelancer) in all the pandemics and the landlady asked for that.
I was thinking to search another place, but I'm broke and the majority of landlords ask for two or three payments, that I don't have.
I feel trapped here, both for the pandemic and the poverty. But I discovered the manipulative personality of the landlady. Yes, she's elder, but she's not my grandmother to have compassion of her. I only want a bed, a bathroom and the basic services. I don't need another grandma. I feel dumb to this. I'm still in doubt to do that procedure and some part of me wants to $&#&#& up the landlady and she resolve that bill problem alone and I pay my rent again at july 20.
Another thing: Why she didn't kick out the other guys? Why she's condescending with them?
I feel trapped here. I really want to recover, but my housing problems has triggered me a lot.
 
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Deleted member 1465

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Jul 31, 2018
6,914
Sounds like finding another place might be best for you, it sounds complicated and like you might get trapped into something. Though, yes, ofc I feel sorry for your land lady too. Ideally, for your own conscience, it would be good to help her past this crisis somehow and then look for somewhere new, but I don't know how you'd do that. :hug:
 
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JustLosingMyself

Mage
Sep 4, 2018
544
Refuse the transfer to your name. You'll be on the liable for all usage on it..; yours, hers and any other deadbeat tenant
She's the owner, it should be on her. At best agree to pay the bill to the utility instead of rent. Do not have any utility account in your name!!!
 
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noaccount

Enlightened
Oct 26, 2019
1,099
Yeah that has scam written all over it!