• ⚠️ UK Access Block Notice: Beginning July 1, 2025, this site will no longer be accessible from the United Kingdom. This is a voluntary decision made by the site's administrators. We were not forced or ordered to implement this block. If you're located in the UK, we recommend using a VPN to maintain access.

sserafim

sserafim

they say it's darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
9,012
What things should I learn to upskill?
 
derpyderpins

derpyderpins

I'd like to leave the world as a better place
Sep 19, 2023
2,107
How and what is the wrong order. "How" might be different based on the skill you are targeting.

First, answer "what" you want to upskill. Identify a weakness and/or an end goal you have that is currently hindered by lacking a skill. If you are actually asking for recommendations for you I would say interpersonal communication.

Onto "how": talent borrows, genius steals. Find how other people have trained that skill or look for someone with that skill to help teach you or to emulate. Some skills are just a matter of practice and repetition. Some require more finesse and identifying what specific hurdles you are facing and making sure your technique is good.
 
Last edited:
  • Informative
  • Like
Reactions: sserafim and damyon

Similar threads

countdowntoecstasy
Replies
1
Views
147
Suicide Discussion
avalokitesvara
avalokitesvara
thebiggestduck17
Replies
1
Views
250
Suicide Discussion
JesiBel
JesiBel
CatAstro.Fee
Replies
6
Views
251
Recovery
looking4partner
L
lunar02102009
Replies
1
Views
130
Suicide Discussion
tormentedhusk
tormentedhusk
Houzor
Replies
8
Views
387
Offtopic
DBD Trapper
DBD Trapper