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Water-Lily

Water-Lily

Enlightened
Dec 26, 2020
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Let's say hypothetically, Person A was abused. Person A was abused by person B. Person B is part of Person A's friend group as is well liked. Person A tells her friends about what person B did and they chose to remain close to person B regardless. How does person A cope?
 
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BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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Lets say hypothetically, Person A was raped. Person A was raped by person B. Person B is part of Person A's friend group as is well liked. Person A tells her friends about what person B did and they chose to remain close to person B regardless. How does person A cope?
Maybe by sending the rapist to prison and getting better friends, idk.
 
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Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

Do what's best for you 🕯️ I'm de-stressing
Jul 1, 2020
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I second @GenesAndEnvironment

If your friends don't care about your mental state then they don't care about you and if they don't care about you then you need better friends.
 
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signifying nothing

signifying nothing

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Sep 13, 2020
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I'd say it depends on the abuse and whether person A can be okay without those friends - ie find other friends and/or social connections.
 
Bat 17

Bat 17

Bat 17
Mar 30, 2021
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Let's say hypothetically, Person A was abused. Person A was abused by person B. Person B is part of Person A's friend group as is well liked. Person A tells her friends about what person B did and they chose to remain close to person B regardless. How does person A cope?
So is person A just not believed or the friends know it's true but just carry on regardless ?