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CogitoMori
Student
- Oct 21, 2024
- 172
I'm undiagnosed autistic because my parents didn't believe in mental health care even when I said I wanted to die when I was 8. There have been so many scenarios in my life where I think people are being friendly to me or including me when they're doing the opposite. I've always been told I was sensitive, and I can be, so I always doubt malicious intentions and tell myself that I shouldn't react badly, because they didn't mean it badly. Because of that it takes me literal years to finally notice (or get enough evidence I guess) that I'm being treated badly and singled out. One of the earliest examples in my life would be when girls in middle school asked if they could play with my long hair in music class. I let them for a while because I liked it, then they asked if they could put vaseline chapstick in my hair to "moisturize it." I was hesitant and thought it might be a trick, but they were black girls and I thought maybe that's just what they did to their hair, so I let them do it. My hair was greasy with it, and I didn't realize what they were actually doing until they started putting liquid paper in my hair too without saying anything about it. People that I liked would reach out to me a few years after I moved, and tell me that they did like me too, but they rejected and avoided me and went along with the bullies because anyone I liked was automatically a target I guess. It took years to realize I was being bullied via social isolation and it was only because I was told. I feel fucking stupid for ever believing there are good people in this world. Every single time I heal enough to trust someone they just fuck me over or leave me to fend on my own. They all just pretend and leave you behind no matter how much you've helped them or how well you've treated them.