The Internet is full of porn. A lot of porn is probably uploaded without consent. And some of it might be even revenge porn.
Would women Do something like that? I think in the most cases no. I am not sure why. I think nudes of women get more sanctioned and judged by the society. A woman has more to lose maybe because she can be called a slut for it. There is the trend of sextortion. And young males are the primary target. Men who are desperate when dating apps frustrate them.
I think women can also be manipulative and out for revenge after a breakup. But they just choose different weapons.
I met a woman from a Dating App at the start of the year. It did not last long. We became intimate one time. She was pretty crazy when it came to sexual stuff. She sent me a ton of nudes. We had webcam sex. Most of the nudes where only visible one time. There is a Feature in WhatsApp for that. I promised her not to take photos. I think Screenshots would also not be possible. She noticed I would prefer to store them permanently because I liked to look at them. And she asked me whether I want them permanently. I told her no. I can fully understand why she does not want to send them permanently. And I did not send her any pics of me. Not even without face. Eventually, she send me two Pictures of her permanently without asking for it. I also asked her why and she just said she wanted to. There Was a time I considered to send her hot Pictures of me. And she sort of talked me out of it. I think she anticipated that she will ghost me and how hurt I would be. Honestly, this could have fucked me up seriously.
Soon after our first and last date. She started to ghost me in a very weird way. She manipulated me, lied to me and gaslighted me. It was all pretty unpleasant. But it was part of her illness. She had Borderline.
Despite the fact it hurt like hell. I never considered to post them online or show my friends as form of revenge. I don't want to be this kind of man/person. I would feel disgusted by myself. But I also did not delete them. She never asked for that. It was a crazy time for me and have good memories with me.
I cannot think of circumstance where I would upload revenge porn. Maybe if someone would Do the same with me?
Do you think people are aware how much damage they cause when they upload revenge porn? Is it something emotional to feel better or shall the other person suffer as much as possible?
I read in Germany 25% of all men have payed at least once for sex. How many have uploaded revenge porn I don't know.
Would women Do something like that? I think in the most cases no. I am not sure why. I think nudes of women get more sanctioned and judged by the society. A woman has more to lose maybe because she can be called a slut for it. There is the trend of sextortion. And young males are the primary target. Men who are desperate when dating apps frustrate them.
I think women can also be manipulative and out for revenge after a breakup. But they just choose different weapons.
I met a woman from a Dating App at the start of the year. It did not last long. We became intimate one time. She was pretty crazy when it came to sexual stuff. She sent me a ton of nudes. We had webcam sex. Most of the nudes where only visible one time. There is a Feature in WhatsApp for that. I promised her not to take photos. I think Screenshots would also not be possible. She noticed I would prefer to store them permanently because I liked to look at them. And she asked me whether I want them permanently. I told her no. I can fully understand why she does not want to send them permanently. And I did not send her any pics of me. Not even without face. Eventually, she send me two Pictures of her permanently without asking for it. I also asked her why and she just said she wanted to. There Was a time I considered to send her hot Pictures of me. And she sort of talked me out of it. I think she anticipated that she will ghost me and how hurt I would be. Honestly, this could have fucked me up seriously.
Soon after our first and last date. She started to ghost me in a very weird way. She manipulated me, lied to me and gaslighted me. It was all pretty unpleasant. But it was part of her illness. She had Borderline.
Despite the fact it hurt like hell. I never considered to post them online or show my friends as form of revenge. I don't want to be this kind of man/person. I would feel disgusted by myself. But I also did not delete them. She never asked for that. It was a crazy time for me and have good memories with me.
I cannot think of circumstance where I would upload revenge porn. Maybe if someone would Do the same with me?
Do you think people are aware how much damage they cause when they upload revenge porn? Is it something emotional to feel better or shall the other person suffer as much as possible?
I read in Germany 25% of all men have payed at least once for sex. How many have uploaded revenge porn I don't know.
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