How to get SN without anyone knowing?

[clementinethoughts]

Hi everyone,
I was wondering how I would get SN without my parents knowing as my bank account is linked to theirs. I'm in the US so am fairly certain I can obtain it, but if they see the purchase it would all go wrong. I have traumatic experiences with psychiatric hospitals I am not going back lol! I attempted via partial hanging at the beginning of the month and while I got up after only a second it left a small bruise so I know I can do that if I have to, but it was super unpleasant. I would prefer SN if I could get my hands on it. Does anyone know how I would get it without their knowledge?
I appreciate having this space to talk freely. I've tried so hard to get better but simply feel my time has come. I would appreciate any help.

 

[betternever2havbeen]

Hmm with your bank account being linked to your parents it kinda sounds like you might be vulnerable in some way (if not underage) so I'm not sure anyone should really be telling you how you can circumvent that. I'd try and get a bank account of your own so as not to risk it. I'm genuinely shocked how many users on here have parents who open their post and see their bank accounts...

 

[denpa girl]

I'm genuinely shocked how many users on here have parents who open their post and see their bank accounts...

Real. I got mine delivered no problem. As a matter of fact, my mom was the one who handed me the package when it came. Not sure why so many ppl's parents r so overprotective ab packages like they're not adults. Wait...

 

[betternever2havbeen]

@denpa girl I guess it's different if you've been in a psych ward and/or had attempts before, probably makes parents very overprotective. My heart goes out to OP, I just think trying to get round the situation isn't the best way, especially since none of us know if they could potentially be underage etc.

I see their name is crossed out so either closed account or was banned...

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Hmm with your bank account being linked to your parents it kinda sounds like you might be vulnerable in some way (if not underage) so I'm not sure anyone should really be telling you how you can circumvent that. I'd try and get a bank account of your own so as not to risk it. I'm genuinely shocked how many users on here have parents who open their post and see their bank accounts...

You know, children of majority age can have bank accounts linked to their parents when the parents are appointed by a court as conservators to look after the best interests of their child when the child is incapable of managing their own affairs. Guess the point is kinda mute since the OP seems to have been banned, probably because someone reported them as a perceived underage person.

 

[betternever2havbeen]

@locked*n*loaded even if that was the situation it's not good to try and help OP around that imo. I would probably do the same if I was in their shoes so I get it but they just have to maybe wait a bit until they can be in full control of their affairs. Still I hope they didn't get banned if they weren't a minor.

 

[locked*n*loaded]

@locked*n*loaded even if that was the situation it's not good to try and help OP around that imo. I would probably do the same if I was in their shoes so I get it but they just have to maybe wait a bit until they can be in full control of their affairs. Still I hope they didn't get banned if they weren't a minor.

It's a necessary evil sometimes. My sister came into some money when she was around 18 via an inheritance from her aunt. At the time she had ran away from home numerous times, had been in a couple car accidents, one super serious, with her boyfriend, who was driving high on coke and drove the car into a telephone pole. She almost died and was left with numerous scars on her face. She was getting high all the time and failing school. She did some time in the psyche ward of the local hospital. She was in no shape to take care of herself, let alone manage her affairs, especially money. This was in the 1970s. She would have easily squandered away all the money on drugs and would have given it away to her no good "friends". Our father took her to court and was granted conservatorship over her. When she finally got her act together some years later, she still had her money and was able to purchase herself and car.