I do the symbiosis thing with her ;)

[noname223]

Actually, I cannot believe that dating apps seem to have worked for me. I have made some changes in my profile gladly. This increased my almost non existentent success. I am so thankful.

I had a match with her on 2nd January. She texted me first. I am not good at that. There are 3 issues. She smokes from time to time, there is some distance between us and she wants children. On the other things we match pretty well.

We text so so fucking much and I love it. The last woman I dated before was overwhelmed by 4-5 text messages per day. I think it was the reason why she dropped me for the first time.

I have the feeling our lives merge. And I really like that. I feel way less lonely. But actually I would also like to meet her in real life but this will have to wait.
I can only describe it as symbiosis. After the last woman I thought every woman would consider that dependent and unattractive. With the chemistry master student I always had to worry and wait till I respond to her messages. It was horrible for my overthinking.

We have not talked about getting into a relationship though. But only 7 days have passed since we started texting.

I think it is one reason why I am less active on Sanctioned Suicide now. She is unbelievable how much she can text while she is at work. She is teacher and still always texts me. I have close to zero responsibilites and barely can give the same output back. I am scared to tell her how much I struggle at collge. And that college might be a hopeless nightmare with no happy end. But I think also this can wait.

 

[GoSan1]

Congrats! I hope you found the perfect match and it ends well!

What app did you use? I only have terrible experiences with such apps lol.

 

[noname223]

Congrats! I hope you found the perfect match and it ends well!

What app did you use? I only have terrible experiences with such apps lol.

I also had horrendous experiences with these apps. A friend and his sister gave me good advices how to improve my profile. I have created my accounts in April and this is the second longer conversation that started since.

I had 3 dates with the same woman last year. But it did not fit at all.

I use bumble and hinge. I met her on bumble and I also think this is the best dating app on the market. It is actually possible. I gave up some months ago until recently where I improved my profile.

 

[GoSan1]

I also had horrendous experiences with these apps. A friend and his sister gave me good advices how to improve my profile. I have created my accounts in April and this is the second longer conversation that started since.

I had 3 dates with the same woman last year. But it did not fit at all.

I use bumble and hinge. I met her on bumble and I also think this is the best dating app on the market. It is actually possible. I gave up some months ago until recently where I improved my profile.

I see, I used Bumble before but only received silence, at best a 10-minute conversation. Probably because I'm too shy and not really attractive, so I have given up on that. Also wouldn't know what to change, unless I maybe start lying on the profile which would be useless.

Either way, I wish you the best and hope she is the one. Anyone finding true love makes me really happy since that can even keep someone alive in the cruelty of this existence...!

 

[noname223]

I see, I used Bumble before but only received silence, at best a 10-minute conversation. Probably because I'm too shy and not really attractive, so I have given up on that. Also wouldn't know what to change, unless I maybe start lying on the profile which would be useless.

Either way, I wish you the best and hope she is the one. Anyone finding true love makes me really happy since that can even keep someone alive in the cruelty of this existence...!

I think pictures from the outside. showing some interest for going into the nature (I think going for a walk is enough), and taking as good pictures as possible. I inserted some funny jokes. But it was such a mental pain to improve my account. Because all the rejection I received thus far hit me like a train while doing it. I think authenticity is also important. Maybe you know a woman that can check your profile. The best would be if she is also active on a dating app.

Good luck and thank you a lot.

By the way she told me later she did not expect I would text her back after her first message. Lol. I was so happy when we matched.

 

[Pluto]

 

[noname223]

What if she is not interested in a relationship with me? When is it the right time to ask her about her Intentions? And when should there be the first Date?

My producivity is close to Zero and she manages her household, a full time Job, watching TV Series and texting with me All the time All all at once.

Shall I continue swiping and trying to Date other women? Probably yes. I am not sure whether I can swallow/survive another major disappointment.

The only good Thing if we Split would be I would not take such a massive hit at my SanctionedSuicide reputation. I barely have a real output on here anymore. SaSu is my safe have if I get another brutal rejection.

 

[derpyderpins]

What if she is not interested in a relationship with me? When is it the right time to ask her about her Intentions? And when should there be the first Date?

Well she wants kids. For many that is a non-negotiable. I don't think there's anything wrong with asking intentions up-front. First date whenever possible.

You don't want to pressure her, obviously, into having to do it right now, but it is both productive and an indication of confidence to say "hey, here's what I'm looking for, just so you know, cards on the table, if it doesn't work out that's cool."

My producivity is close to Zero and she manages her household, a full time Job, watching TV Series and texting with me All the time All all at once.

Shall I continue swiping and trying to Date other women? Probably yes. I am not sure whether I can swallow/survive another major disappointment.

You have no commitment from her so I see no problem with continuing to swipe.

The thing is there should be no major disappointment here. It's a nice thing that is happening, but there's no reason to have huge expectations. Be happy with the interaction.