i don't want to be a parent because i'm afraid my kid would turn out to be a piece of shit lol

[SufferingInDenmark]

sadly, i come across a lot of true crime shit that i have no interest in watching, but it pops up in my recommended on youtube.
and it often includes stories of little piece of shit kids who did some vile crimes.
it's not that i particularly think MY genes would create bad offspring, it's just the culture i live in.

all the wrong shit is being promoted...
and with my luck lol, i bet my kid would turn out to be some vile little piece of shit.

and even if that's not the case... i wouldn't wish this world upon my worst enemy.

 

[DivineSpark]

I have so many mental health problems, I dont think having children is for me....

 

[SufferingInDenmark]

I have so many mental health problems, I dont think having children is for me....

yeah same here

 

[S like Siren]

sadly, i come across a lot of true crime shit that i have no interest in watching, but it pops up in my recommended on youtube.
and it often includes stories of little piece of shit kids who did some vile crimes.
it's not that i particularly think MY genes would create bad offspring, it's just the culture i live in.

all the wrong shit is being promoted...
and with my luck lol, i bet my kid would turn out to be some vile little piece of shit.

and even if that's not the case... i wouldn't wish this world upon my worst enemy.

Just think about being a good loving parent and everything will go well...usually we don't know all the story of how kids and people turn out to be pieces of shit,but I bet they didn't had great parents in first place.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

In most cases, children who end up committing crimes do so due to a mixture of nature and nurture. Usually, they might already be somewhat predisposed to behaving in an antisocial manner and then that is only worsened by certain environmental factors, such as maltreatment, socioeconomic status, how their parents raise them, and so on. Referring to children who commit these sorts of crimes as "little pieces of shit" kind of makes me feel like you are being too quick to judge the children themselves without taking into consideration the shit that causes this behaviour to begin with. Anyone is capable of doing heinous things, it's just that most of us haven't been pushed enough to the edge to do so. For a child to do something so awful there is likely a lot of shit going on that we might not be aware of. This is to say that we should look at shit like this from a more nuanced lens and not be quick to just slap a label on these kids and dehumanize them.

Also, what do you mean by "all the wrong shit is being promoted"? What kind of shit do you mean?

 

[bleeding_heart_show]

In most cases, children who end up committing crimes do so due to a mixture of nature and nurture. Usually, they might already be somewhat predisposed to behaving in an antisocial manner and then that is only worsened by certain environmental factors, such as maltreatment, socioeconomic status, how their parents raise them, and so on. Referring to children who commit these sorts of crimes as "little pieces of shit" kind of makes me feel like you are being too quick to judge the children themselves without taking into consideration the shit that causes this behaviour to begin with. Anyone is capable of doing heinous things, it's just that most of us haven't been pushed enough to the edge to do so. For a child to do something so awful there is likely a lot of shit going on that we might not be aware of. This is to say that we should look at shit like this from a more nuanced lens and not be quick to just slap a label on these kids and dehumanize them.

Also, what do you mean by "all the wrong shit is being promoted"? What kind of shit do you mean?

I am glad you said this. Op's simplistic view of criminal behaviour irked me.

Nature loads the gun, nurture pulls the trigger.

Just think about being a good loving parent and everything will go well...usually we don't know all the story of how kids and people turn out to be pieces of shit,but I bet they didn't had great parents in first place.

This is the best approach is you feel it absolutely necessary to bring children into the world.

Of course they will be harmed while outside of your supervision, but that is the risk you take by bringing children into the world.

Having someone to trust when harm does come to them will lessen the blow greatly.