Venting I hate therapy

[SapoMotoqueiro]

Oh my god i am paying you to solve my problems, not to watch me figuring out how to solve them. People always say seek help but its so frustrating, i have no idea what i want for my life (besides die) and psycologists cant give you a direction? WHAT IS THE POINT THEN????

Mostly when i feel bad i try to talk to them and it makes me angry, they just describe how the situation is (which i know, i am not that dumb) and "you should do what makes you feel calm". Then i come here to read about methods and feel better, i feel here people are real, are human, are direct, thats what i want. And guess what? i have it for free.

I WANT TO PASS THE REST OF MY LIFE LOCKED IN MY ROOM but nooo, society dont work like that, i am adult who should work until he dies, need money to pay for everything. And noooo, you cant be a vagabond, you need to be useful, mostly for others.

Its hard not to be an ignorant but gosh, for me it seems the only purpose is to have a diagnose and nothing more. Maybe i should throw away all my morals and be a psycologist, fool everyone and take as much money as i can.

Could have an easy, painless and unbureaucratic way to die but god forbid you want life be easy. nothing is. i should run away from my home, stop being a pussy and kill myself but noooooooooo, i am so scawed

Funny thing is i am from brazil and have 0 idea how to get a gun (in a non legal way).

I am new here and i like it, i recognize nobody but still :)

 

[euthanizeddog]

cheers from

i understand where you're coming from. i wish someone could just take control of my life and fix everything for me. but i'm an adult so i should know better, even though i cannot drive, i don't have my own place, i'm single, i cannot do basic adult things, etc. just a damn loser

after years of therapy, psychologists, psychiatrists and more. i'm very anti-therapy. of course some people could benefit from therapy, but i'm not one of them and that's fine. i don't want someone to belittle me like that, just pointless and useless to me.

i hope you can find a solution to this, regardless of what it may be, but it seems to me that dying isn't the only way.

anyways, i'm always open to talk

 

[SapoMotoqueiro]

I am struggling to send you a message lol, thanks for offering

 

[DontCryForChimp]

Then i come here to read about methods and feel better, i feel here people are real, are human, are direct, thats what i want. And guess what? i have it for free

I feel this too. I like that people here aren't too pressured to present a certain way, or lie, or stall. I am questioning if I should go out and seek help, I am scared it is just gonna be "only you can help yourself" or some empty platitudes. Stories like this have me worried but I am trying to keep an open mind.

 

[SapoMotoqueiro]

Even i am not making progress is good to talk about anything with no filters with someone, give it a shot, it didnt work for me but maybe for you it will!

 

[MyShadow]

Mental health professionals are not there to solve your problems. I wish it was that easy. Nope, they are there to give you a platform to help you work through the problems that are holding you back. The problem is that not all of them are good at the job and make the process more frustrating. My current therapist falls into this category.

The good news is that when you find a good one, they will help you get back on track with finding solutions.

I wish you luck.

 

[euthanizeddog]

I am struggling to send you a message lol, thanks for offering

i think it's because you're a new member and aren't allowed to PM people yet
and i can't either, since i'm also new here
but i'll let you know when i can !