Kore
Lonely in a room full of people…
- Nov 2, 2023
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I've been trying. And failing. I don't see any point in trying to get better, but I've been trying anyway. It doesn't seem to matter how much work you put into it, all it takes is a little reality check to fall right back to where you were.
I accidentally came across an old social media profile of mine, one I haven't used since school days, and while every single post cringed my body to breaking point (lmao) it also reminded me of how care free we were as kids, of how much we didn't know was coming our way. I'd do anything to be a kid again and not have to deal with the real world. But, obviously, we can't go back. We can't even stay still. Time keeps moving forward, bit by bit, slowly but surely.
I keep glancing at the date and noticing it's going up and up, but I'm hardly noticing time passing these days. I'll glance at the calendar and realize a few weeks have passed. I feel like I'm just slowly chipping away at my block of life, patiently waiting until I don't wake up again.
I made the decision to hang around because I can't deal with the guilt and shame of breaking my families hearts, even those of them that have broken mine time and time again. But… how do you stay motivated in this shitty world? It's a constant struggle, a constant fight with myself.
I hate the days when my brain decides it's time for all out assault. I'll see a pretty girl and instantly be met with all the reasons she'll never look twice at me. I'll see something fun and my brain reminds me there's no point in trying because I'll be sad again right after anyway. I'll be trying to do better at work when I remind myself it's all utterly pointless. "You're pathetic. You're worthless. Why are you even trying? They'll laugh at you. You're ugly. You're not good enough, never will be." It's relentless sometimes.
Sometimes I wonder if I even want to 'get better'. I don't even know what that means tbh. I barely remember what it was like before all this, now adays when I feel happy it feels… wrong. I feel guilty when I smile. And yet, I wear my fake smile as much as I can. Can't let others see how weak I really am. Depression is fuckin lonely man.
Days turned into weeks turned into months turned into years. Turns into decades. Time may be my greatest fear. We're all just slowly heading towards oblivion, and some days I scream inside for it to slow down - other days I wish it would just hurry up already.
I still dream often of the good times, and wake up crying. I hate waking up. The dreams are 'nightmares', but not ones that scare you. They're of old friends and past relationships, of smiling and laughter. They're the ones that remind you of all you've lost, of the person you used to be, of a past you can never be part of again. I wish I could just dream of blackness each night, would rather no dream than a "happy" one. Haven't been getting much sleep lately.
I just… don't know.
This is just a vent. Doubt many will read this far, if you did, maybe let me know how you cope. Or confirm my suspicion that it's all pointless anyway.
Time to put my mask back on and conform to society's expectations for another day. Cya round.
~Kore
I accidentally came across an old social media profile of mine, one I haven't used since school days, and while every single post cringed my body to breaking point (lmao) it also reminded me of how care free we were as kids, of how much we didn't know was coming our way. I'd do anything to be a kid again and not have to deal with the real world. But, obviously, we can't go back. We can't even stay still. Time keeps moving forward, bit by bit, slowly but surely.
I keep glancing at the date and noticing it's going up and up, but I'm hardly noticing time passing these days. I'll glance at the calendar and realize a few weeks have passed. I feel like I'm just slowly chipping away at my block of life, patiently waiting until I don't wake up again.
I made the decision to hang around because I can't deal with the guilt and shame of breaking my families hearts, even those of them that have broken mine time and time again. But… how do you stay motivated in this shitty world? It's a constant struggle, a constant fight with myself.
I hate the days when my brain decides it's time for all out assault. I'll see a pretty girl and instantly be met with all the reasons she'll never look twice at me. I'll see something fun and my brain reminds me there's no point in trying because I'll be sad again right after anyway. I'll be trying to do better at work when I remind myself it's all utterly pointless. "You're pathetic. You're worthless. Why are you even trying? They'll laugh at you. You're ugly. You're not good enough, never will be." It's relentless sometimes.
Sometimes I wonder if I even want to 'get better'. I don't even know what that means tbh. I barely remember what it was like before all this, now adays when I feel happy it feels… wrong. I feel guilty when I smile. And yet, I wear my fake smile as much as I can. Can't let others see how weak I really am. Depression is fuckin lonely man.
Days turned into weeks turned into months turned into years. Turns into decades. Time may be my greatest fear. We're all just slowly heading towards oblivion, and some days I scream inside for it to slow down - other days I wish it would just hurry up already.
I still dream often of the good times, and wake up crying. I hate waking up. The dreams are 'nightmares', but not ones that scare you. They're of old friends and past relationships, of smiling and laughter. They're the ones that remind you of all you've lost, of the person you used to be, of a past you can never be part of again. I wish I could just dream of blackness each night, would rather no dream than a "happy" one. Haven't been getting much sleep lately.
I just… don't know.
This is just a vent. Doubt many will read this far, if you did, maybe let me know how you cope. Or confirm my suspicion that it's all pointless anyway.
Time to put my mask back on and conform to society's expectations for another day. Cya round.
~Kore