Venting I was I was just asexual man I hate this so much

[TekkenPlayer]

I swear I'm trying not to be suicidal but sometimes my horniness kickstarts some really intense suicidal thoughts like I'm just so sad and frustrated and just pissed off that I don't have a girl like ffs man I just want a girl to be with or some nice experience with a woman anything pls I beg. If I could take some magical pill that turns me into an asexual I would take it within a heartbeat and my life would be sooooo much better but no my brain says I must have sex or else I'm going to kill myself. Like no brain that's neither fun nor helpful in any way just leave me alone stop sabotaging my life plzzzzzzzzz

 

[Hollowman]

Plenty of psych meds will kill your libido.

 

[TekkenPlayer]

Plenty of psych meds will kill your libido.

Idk if I wanna mess with meds and get random unwanted side effects

 

[flightless bird]

can i ask what exactly is stopping you from going out and talking to girls? just trying to understand.

 

[TekkenPlayer]

can i ask what exactly is stopping you from going out and talking to girls? just trying to understand.

I think it mostly boils down to self confidence issues and not going out places that much. I don't tend to go to places like cafes, bars and clubs very much and my uni is overwhelmingly male dominated so there's not much that can happen there naturally either. To touch a bit on the confidence issue I don't think I'm unlovable or anything of that nature I just can't find myself cold approaching tbqh so that hinders me I suppose. Another thing that has been bugging me is there's been one girl we've been flirty with for a while and we've been trying to start a ldr but we've never been able to actually meet up close since our schedules never matched so that is also a mood killer

 

[EvisceratedJester]

People who are asexual can still have a high libido and can still desire to be in a relationship. Asexual just refers to a lack of sexual attraction, not a lack of romantic attraction (that would make them aromantic) nor a low sex drive.

 

[sleepy_redcar]

I swear I'm trying not to be suicidal but sometimes my horniness kickstarts some really intense suicidal thoughts like I'm just so sad and frustrated and just pissed off that I don't have a girl like ffs man I just want a girl to be with or some nice experience with a woman anything pls I beg. If I could take some magical pill that turns me into an asexual I would take it within a heartbeat and my life would be sooooo much better but no my brain says I must have sex or else I'm going to kill myself. Like no brain that's neither fun nor helpful in any way just leave me alone stop sabotaging my life plzzzzzzzzz

I feel you on that part, i'm on the other side of the spectrum where i've dated people so much I don't think i've been single for longer than a month, and I wish to be single again because I miss it since i've never experienced it, I personally think smoking friends help if that's your kind of gig, just don't get addicted

 

[milkteacrown]

Medication and talking to women will not fix these problems you have. You are experiencing hypersexuality, and to resolve it, you must get to the root cause of your need for sex. I experienced hypersexuality because I was severely abused by men who felt similarly. Be careful, and make sure you have your issues in check when you start to get into relationships, or you will leave them dissatisfied.

 

[Diceroller90]

Medication and talking to women will not fix these problems you have. You are experiencing hypersexuality, and to resolve it, you must get to the root cause of your need for sex. I experienced hypersexuality because I was severely abused by men who felt similarly. Be careful, and make sure you have your issues in check when you start to get into relationships, or you will leave them dissatisfied.

I second this from first hand experience. My wanting a relationship is just a symptom of greater needs: I want to feel attractive, I want to feel accepted, I want people to help and take care of (which itself may be a symptom of a greater need), and I want people to stop asking me "Oh, when are you going to get married?" like I can just drive up the road to Brides-R-Us and get hitched by next Tuesday! [/rant]