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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
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Today I had my fourth appointment. It was the first time I was fully honest....and well it does not look that good. My friends urged me to try it again. I also thought I don't want to do suicide for the sake of my parents. So I looked for a new therapist. She is an older therapist with a lot of experience.

So far we only talked about love issues. And well knowing my love delusions and how utterly hopeless that is....

I told her how fucked my life really is. And that I am contemplating suicide again. Last month I was in a clinic for acute suicidal people. I wanted to explain her my logic why my life is likely to fail. I wanted that she gives me counterpoints. In the end she rather re-enforced my hopelessness.

Tbh I think this therapy could even increase the chance that I commit suicide soon. I already was dropped from a therapist 2019.
It hurt like hell. I started therapy again 2022 where I played a charade with him. Now even closer to suicide I am again trying it.

I feel so desperate. I think to kill myself in April. Tbh I was that depressed because her love advice rather backfired. I am pretty pissed at her. Well..and I had the feeling she does not really care about my case.

I told her I consider to go to an escort woman before I kill myself. And there was this ambivalence in the word before. In my language it could have meant before in the sense that it will prevent my suicide. Or temporal so before I kill myself I want to know that feeling.

I am not sure why I am even doing this. What will I achieve with that? I think this woman cannot help me. Only a miracle could save me. But people say shit like try hard enough and you will get what you need. I think if she drops me this might be the final nail in my coffin. It will re-enforce my consideration that it everything is totally fucked. I hope my family can blame my therapists when I am dead. And my psychiatrist and psychologist can blame each other.
 
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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
5,426
It is just another thing that I hoped it would save me and the exact opposite happened. I wasn't that suicidal for a long time like today. It completely ruined me. If she rejects me it proves me it is utterly hopeless and suicide is the right thing to do. I was given up 2019 and she gives me exactly these vibes. It traumatizing to live through this again.
 
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painIess

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Jul 30, 2023
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Most therapists are garbage tbh
 
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pulleditnearlyoff

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Apr 26, 2024
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don't seek help with them of you don't want to die, they'll push you towards suicide even more and more.
 
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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
5,426
My friends wanted me to play with open cards towards my therapists. I think they have a wrong notion of psychotherapy. If you are that desperate, serious suicidal with objectively barely any prospects of improving they rather drop you. 2019 a therapist dropped me exactly because of that. I wonder how I survived these 5 years.
 
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areyousafe??

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Nov 27, 2024
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How did she reinforce your hopelessness, what did she say?

Sometimes I find that therapists are trained to agree with you to show that they emphasise with you, and male you feel less alone. Is it possible she was trying to emphasise with you instead?
 
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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
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How did she reinforce your hopelessness, what did she say?

Sometimes I find that therapists are trained to agree with you to show that they emphasise with you, and male you feel less alone. Is it possible she was trying to emphasise with you instead?
We talked about future prospects and she sort of agreed when I explained my hopelessness that there is some logic in my reasoning
 
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dontwakemeup

Experienced
Nov 11, 2024
297
If you think about it really hard, how is she really helping you? All they do in reinforce what you say and find helpful ways to try to help you deal with it and simply pick from a list of medications that your insurance will approve. People become so dependent on these people because they listen! They feel a since of comfort and openly discuss their thoughts and most people hide their true thoughts and intentions. I'm not saying don't go to her anymore but don't put so much value in a person. She probably is in this site and drinking from a bottle! We are all human and suffer from our own issues. I'm simply saying, if she drops you then it's ok, find someone else. I would also share your concern with her about how it feels to be dropped as a patient. They also have to ensure you're safe and if they don't believe you are then I would drop you too, it's nothing personal. She worked heard for those license and try looking at it from her view.
I have tried therapy and all that crap, even took meds. I will not do it anymore because it's triggering to keep discussing my past and current issues. I know them and don't need medicine for it. I'm functioning the best I can.
 
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