Discussion If we think so little of ourselves...

[Mr2005]

then why don't we think of others more?

 

[Schopenhauer]

Because we're trapped within ourselves. At least I am.

 

[Miss clefable]

I do

 

[worldexploder]

That's a good question. I don't put people on petastols like I use to. I always treated people like gold yet everyone else treated me like shit in return. Not a good way to gain self esteem. Who ever says self esteem comes from "within" is full of shit. Peoples self esteem is usually based on the feedback they get from their peers.

 

[Threads]

I don't think very little of myself at all. I have honest and realistic expectations of who I am and base those off of what I have accomplished and endured. How I view myself took many years of work to develop.

Whenever I meet someone new, I give them the benefit of the doubt. But I don't just think highly of others. My respect is earned. I'm of the mentality that I just don't give a fuck what people think or say. If I don't assign personal value to someone, if I don't like what they say or how they treat me, I tell them to fuck off, and I cut them out of my life.

 

[BaconCheeseburger]

Personally, I think I'm a piece of shit... but logically I know I'm an alright person who has some good qualities/traits.

I'd think of others more if I had the energy to do more than just drag myself through each day.

 

[Trashcan]

I've realized most humans (including yours truly) suck.

 

[Mr2005]

That's a good question. I don't put people on petastols like I use to. I always treated people like gold yet everyone else treated me like shit in return. Not a good way to gain self esteem. Who ever says self esteem comes from "within" is full of shit. Peoples self esteem is usually based on the feedback they get from their peers.

The trick is not to become them but it's hard. Last week pushed me to near breaking point

 

[worldexploder]

The trick is not to become them but it's hard. Last week pushed me to near breaking point

I had no choice but to detach from humanity. I been hurt too many times.

 

[Circles]

then why don't we think of others more?

Why don't those 'others' think of us more?

 

[throwaway777]

The trick is not to become them but it's hard. Last week pushed me to near breaking point

https://ncase.me/trust/ ...play this

 

[AndyCurious]

Many people are just so full of themselves unfortunately, so they are no longer able to see other people...

 

[throwaway777]

Many people are just so full of themselves unfortunately, so they are no longer able to see other people...

so full of suffering that i cant see others

 

[AndyCurious]

so full of suffering that i cant see others

That doesn't make you a bad person, you just deal with things the best you can <3 xxx

 

[throwaway777]

That doesn't make you a bad person, you just deal with things the best you can <3 xxx

i think we fill each other of hate and suffering .. so we cant never truly see the other … andy thank you <3333

 

[AndyCurious]

i think we fill each other of hate and suffering .. so we cant never truly see the other … andy thank you <3333

You are more than welcome <3

 

[Wantingpeace]

so full of suffering that i cant see others

So sorry that you are <3

 

[throwaway777]

So sorry that you are <3

hugs<3 i am sorry that we are all suffering .. love everyone here<3

 

[Wantingpeace]

hugs<3 i am sorry that we are all suffering .. love everyone here<3

Thank you xx