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shelaysdown
sleeping in, for today
- Dec 4, 2023
- 18
I'm really trying hard to get out of this negative place but I've been in pain for so long, it feels natural, like breathing. It's hard for me to understand why. From a distance everything in my life looks pretty great, but I feel so fucking empty and sad all the time.
I'm always mourning some love that let me down, some person who betrayed me. I've never held anyone's hand romantically, or been on a nice date, yet somehow I've been abused, cheated on and assaulted. How is that possible?
I'm trying really hard to be gentle on myself. I've been down the path of hopelessness so many times before, I've almost given up on giving up, haha. But I just can't fathom getting through the rest of my life feeling this way.
Every night is a battle. Every night I am swallowed up by a grief that I do not feel entitled to. My pain feels unearned and pathetic, but godlike at the same time. I know when I'm dead, it will carry on. I want to be strong. I am not strong.
God, I just want somebody to hug me. To sit down and listen to me and tell me everything will be okay, that they'll hold me while I'm here in this low, dark place until I'm ready to come out. I thought I had people like that, but they always turned out to be bad people. They always recognized me for my vulnerability, and exploited it. And now the thought of being loved feels like an impossibility, a futile wish.
I have tried to focus on gratitude, on small improvements. Sometimes this works, but then the sun sets and everything closes in on me and I have to writhe my way to morning again.
I have so much good in my life, I can't leave. But this feeling is rotting me away inside. I'm just surviving through each day, this is not life. I don't know. Just rambling, I guess.
I'm always mourning some love that let me down, some person who betrayed me. I've never held anyone's hand romantically, or been on a nice date, yet somehow I've been abused, cheated on and assaulted. How is that possible?
I'm trying really hard to be gentle on myself. I've been down the path of hopelessness so many times before, I've almost given up on giving up, haha. But I just can't fathom getting through the rest of my life feeling this way.
Every night is a battle. Every night I am swallowed up by a grief that I do not feel entitled to. My pain feels unearned and pathetic, but godlike at the same time. I know when I'm dead, it will carry on. I want to be strong. I am not strong.
God, I just want somebody to hug me. To sit down and listen to me and tell me everything will be okay, that they'll hold me while I'm here in this low, dark place until I'm ready to come out. I thought I had people like that, but they always turned out to be bad people. They always recognized me for my vulnerability, and exploited it. And now the thought of being loved feels like an impossibility, a futile wish.
I have tried to focus on gratitude, on small improvements. Sometimes this works, but then the sun sets and everything closes in on me and I have to writhe my way to morning again.
I have so much good in my life, I can't leave. But this feeling is rotting me away inside. I'm just surviving through each day, this is not life. I don't know. Just rambling, I guess.