Is there any way to stop being a victim?

[Volatile]

i think it's too ingrained.

 

[typx]

I wish there was, man. Victim hood sucks. It steals your vitality. Leaves you impotent and unable to cope with the world.

 

[CRM]

I think that it's ingrained, too. Some people are inclined to be passive and some are inclined to be aggressive. Guess which one society caters to?

 

[Justanotherconsumer]

Were drugged from birth, fluoride in the water, the Nazis did this to make people docile, its also done in zoos, for the same reason.

 

[typx]

Trolling?

 

[Volatile]

Were drugged from birth, fluoride in the water, the Nazis did this to make people docile, its also done in zoos, for the same reason.

As long as it keeps violent crime down

 

[typx]

Good teeth stop crime.

 

[IWishYouAllGoodLuck]

Good teeth have nothing to do with fluoride. From what is now known from reasearch its a neurotoxin causing iq loss and many cancers like bone or thyorid cancer and probably many more.

Good teeth stop crime.

 

[typx]

Good teeth have nothing to do with fluoride. From what is now known from reasearch its a neurotoxin causing iq loss and many cancers like bone or thyorid cancer and probably many more.

No offence, but that's doesn't sound right. Any legit, peer reviewed, scientific sources? Scientific journals?

 

[IWishYouAllGoodLuck]

There is a lot of studies, I don't know which one would satisfy your view of it being legit or not but harvard did a couple and google does show a lot of results and to be honest i thought that its common knowledge that fluoride is rat poison.

No offence, but that's doesn't sound right. Any legit, peer reviewed, scientific sources? Scientific journals?

 

[typx]

There is a lot of studies, I don't know which would one satisfy your view of it being legit or not but harvard did a couple and google does show a lot of results and to be honest i thought that its common knowledge that fluoride is poison.

Okay, so let's see a Harvard study.
And no, it is not common knowledge. A quick google search brings up a ton of links debunking it as an unfounded conspiracy theory.

 

[IWishYouAllGoodLuck]

Okay, so let's see a Harvard study.
And no, it is not common knowledge. A quick google search brings up a ton of links debunking it as an unfounded conspiracy theory.

well best to not worry about it then :)

 

[typx]

I'm not. I'll just add it to the list of of things I do that probably give me cancer

 

[Rollo]

Well there's really no way here. You just choose to. Choose to never take even a slightest offence no matter how something or someone acts against you. You accept it and you handle it by whatever means necessary but without taking offence.

 

[IWishYouAllGoodLuck]

Sorry? No way for what?

Probably just replying to the thread :)

 

[typx]

Whups stupid me

 

[IWishYouAllGoodLuck]

Whups stupid me

Yeah at first i thought it was about us ^^

 

[Slacker]

maybe u should ask first: "How could I stop seeing myself as a victim?" ?

 

[Volatile]

maybe u should ask first: "How could I stop seeing myself as a victim?" ?

Do you have an answer to that question?

 

[Slacker]

Do you have an answer to that question?

Thats difficult.

Maybe:

write your own heroic story.
Concentrate on your actions. Don't describe what was done to u all the time. Just short.
And then write down what u have done in life.

Like for example:
Klara was born into a poor family with a drug addicted father and an emotionless mother. She was raped many times. ...
When she became 15 years old she just got her revenge [idk] and then she moved out and fought against all men. ...etc.etc.

sorry its difficult with the example because English is not my first language... but do u know what I mean?

 

[KCN]

Thinking about the fact that we're all victims, in one way or another, could help to feel slightly better

 

[Volatile]

Thats difficult.

Maybe:

write your own heroic story.
Concentrate on your actions. Don't describe what was done to u all the time. Just short.
And then write down what u have done in life.

Like for example:
Klara was born into a poor family with a drug addicted father and an emotionless mother. She was raped many times. ...
When she became 15 years old she just got her revenge [idk] and then she moved out and fought against all men. ...etc.etc.

sorry its difficult with the example because English is not my first language... but do u know what I mean?

Yeah sort of. My heroic story would be saving other abused children, but I don't have the strength to even tackle my own problems on a consistent basis, so there's no way to really be the hero, which means I'm stuck being the victim.

 

[thetwilightzone]

Why do you feel its important not to be a victim? Just curious

 

[Volatile]

Why do you feel its important not to be a victim? Just curious

Because as a result I'm weak and broken mentally

 

[Slacker]

..,so there's no way to really be the hero, which means I'm stuck being the victim.

U helped other people with their problems and u survived until today. You are a hero already. Other people gave up everything. You are still breathing.

 

[Volatile]

U helped other people with their problems and u survived until today. You are a hero already. Other people gave up everything. You are still breathing.

Who did I help? How does staying alive make me a hero when I'm just a broken shell of a person?

 

[Slacker]

Who did I help?

My fault. Just see u wrote "would be". I thought u actually helped abused children

 

[Slacker]

How does staying alive make me a hero when I'm just a broken shell of a person?

So u completly gave up yourself? And u just cant kill yourself? So you are a looser? And u would be a winner or hero if u would commit suicide?

 

[Slacker]

If u are a victim, what was done to you?
By whom? And if we all are victims arent we all perpetrators, too?

Dont u think that its just way more important what u have done, then what was done to u???

Because u can take control over your actions but not over the actions of other people...
So if u would concentrate on that u would be the person in the story who changes something and not all the other persons would influence you your well beeing and your life

 

[mattwitt]

Good teeth have nothing to do with fluoride. From what is now known from reasearch its a neurotoxin causing iq loss and many cancers like bone or thyorid cancer and probably many more.

Some people say it does something negative to your pineal gland.