nomoredolor
Student
- Sep 7, 2024
- 162
I am deepening a friendship and will be exploring friends with benefits for the first time. I'm excited to spend time with this person.
I also am planning to ctb within the next year or so due to several reasons.
On the one hand: It feels rude of me to encourage amorous feelings with someone new when I know I'm likely to ctb.
On the other hand: Deepening or starting new relationships may help with keeping me alive longer.
Like. I'm walking this weird tightrope where I'm simultaneously preparing for ctb AND I'm participating in life and therapy and making future plans. In the hopes that I can die of a different cause than ctb and spare my loved ones that extra layer of pain and trauma.
Have you avoided connecting with people so that fewer people grieve for you? I know there is natural isolation that occurs when one is planning the end. I'm wondering if I should spare this person and break things off. I thought about being straight up and letting them know I'm a suicide risk, increase interaction at your own risk! But that kinda dampens the mood and is high risk for getting crisis called on you.
Thanks for reading. All my love to all of you.
Anna
I also am planning to ctb within the next year or so due to several reasons.
On the one hand: It feels rude of me to encourage amorous feelings with someone new when I know I'm likely to ctb.
On the other hand: Deepening or starting new relationships may help with keeping me alive longer.
Like. I'm walking this weird tightrope where I'm simultaneously preparing for ctb AND I'm participating in life and therapy and making future plans. In the hopes that I can die of a different cause than ctb and spare my loved ones that extra layer of pain and trauma.
Have you avoided connecting with people so that fewer people grieve for you? I know there is natural isolation that occurs when one is planning the end. I'm wondering if I should spare this person and break things off. I thought about being straight up and letting them know I'm a suicide risk, increase interaction at your own risk! But that kinda dampens the mood and is high risk for getting crisis called on you.
Thanks for reading. All my love to all of you.
Anna