Help I've got a chance to start a relationship with my classmate, but the consequences of my mental health could be a problem

[deadstillwalking]

For context, I'm about to turn 19. She approached me after our chemistry class yesterday and asked me out on a date (which we had a few hours ago). She's a very pretty cheerful girl, I'd thought that the conversation could have died pretty easily but to my surprise it didn't, she had so much to talk about. We shared quite a few common opinions and I turned out to be so much less nervous than expected. In the end the meeting turned out very well. The thing is though that I have a feeling that I could have talked more, share more things about myself, but I didn't. There was nothing to talk about. My life? is pretty much non-existent. I wish I could say that I play video games 24/7 but that would be a lie. I have spent the last few years in my own head, due to social withdrawal, from social anxiety and whatnot. I don't remember what I did 3 days ago until someone brings the details up, I'm afraid that I will forget this day too. I'm not suicidal but I'm severely anhedonic and derealized which makes me feel dead - is this not the case? How is it any different from being dead? Either way, could someone please give me tips on this? Should I consult a psychologist?

 

[Chuuya-Chan ⋆. 𐙚˚]

I'd say don't let this slip out of your fingers. It went well! And if you think you need to get professional help I'd say give it a go, just remember at the end of the day you need try for yourself to get better because a pill or therapy won't fix the problem, they're just to aid you out of the toughest times to be able to help yourself

 

[deadstillwalking]

I'd say don't let this slip out of your fingers. It went well! And if you think you need to get professional help I'd say give it a go, just remember at the end of the day you need try for yourself to get better because a pill or therapy won't fix the problem, they're just to aid you out of the toughest times to be able to help yourself

thank you very much, I needed to hear this. I will try my best

 

[-Link-]

Yes, ideally you would consult a psychologist (or whoever) and explore treatment options -- high priority on this.

If you're concerned about your ability to navigate a relationship right now, what about just keeping it casual? (read: friends with benefits) Focusing on having a good time when you're together, without the emotional investment? My gut tells me this is your best option here, but I might be wrong!

Whatever you choose, I feel happy for you that this happened and wish you good luck!

 

[dontwakemeup]

Congratulations, you took a big step today and I'm proud of you It sounds like you had a wonderful as she did too. I suggest you seek therapy, if they offer meds, take them.
You may find this new woman can make you happier and help you open up more. I'm excited for you! I wish you the best!