hyacinths
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- Sep 25, 2021
- 72
i don't know if ive ever possibly been so disgusted with someone before. a few years ago my stepdad had been cheating on my mom with someone else, got caught and apologized. my mom gave him the benefit of the doubt and tried taking him back. i moved out around that time bc i just could not stand to be around him anymore. he moved out about a year later, saying he needed space, and then i moved back in to keep my mom company (im her only child) and because i had lost my full time job. he basically used to come once a week and have dinner with us, but would never talk and acted really weird. he'd occasionally bring gifts but he'd always seem mad about having to do it. i basically told him that he needed to stop playing with her feelings and leave us alone if he wasn't serious- because he was lovebombing her to the point where she'd feel like he cared but wouldn't actually put in any effort besides from the times he showered her in care. turns out he's still been cheating on her with the same person. apparently she had been texting my mom their nudes for months and my stepdad never told her to stop. now that its been figured out he's telling her that she should've known and that its her fault. i tried to talk to him to let him know how I feel but he refuses to answer my calls, instead he nows just posts pictures of him hanging out with his other kids (my step siblings) and telling my mom how much they hate her. but she was literally the only person who was actually there and fed those kids, spent the gas money to pick them up from their biological mom. i just told him to stay the fuck out of my life. i have never felt such betrayal from someone I cared about and i can't begin to imagine how my mom feels. I just hope this man has a horrible fucking life.
