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I really need some kind words these days.

I haven't been so active here lately. But now I feel terrible, so I have to turn to you guys. Just got a mail from my surgent, telling me I need further operations in my arm. I have had so many operations in both my arms after an accident 4 years ago, and I honestly don't know if I can handle one more, knowing I'll have to start another long rehabilitation time. Both my parents are old/sick, and I'm single.

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Smokey

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Do you struggle with movement or pain? If you have been managing ok you could choose to decline the surgery, take some time and consider the options it could help improve things for you. Try to talk to the surgeon and discuss the pros and cons of surgery and make a informed decision based on how you feel and manage against the risks.
 
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sorry for the pain you're feeling.

words probably don't mean much these days and especially words over the internet. i hope you find the strength for the operation and rehabilitation, both mentally and physically, if you want to go down that route. hope you feel better and find a peace of mind.
 
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Tenor I know it ain't much, but here's a hug
 
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Do you struggle with movement or pain? If you have been managing ok you could choose to decline the surgery, take some time and consider the options it could help improve things for you. Try to talk to the surgeon and discuss the pros and cons of surgery and make a informed decision based on how you feel and manage against the risks.
Some pain, but movement is ok. It's like having a "noisy" robot- arm:). I actually don't know if it's a "must- operation" or a "try to improve operation", but thanks so much for reminding me the fact that it's my arm and my choice to make. I will definately discuss pros and cons with my surgent.....
 
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