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[Poll] Do you find yourself saying "sorry" a lot?

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UninformedLover

UninformedLover

If you see me active on here...its gotten worse...
Nov 12, 2019
274
I do it all the time. I even apologize for things that are not my fault or I have no control over. It's a bad habit and I don't like it.
 
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BooGirl

BooGirl

Warlock
Jan 10, 2020
754
Sorry, I do
 
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TheDevilsAngel

TheDevilsAngel

LetMeFree
Apr 22, 2019
768
Yes always and it has been driving me crazy, it's almost like a first reaction if I say something wrong or get something wrong.... I just want to be liked, I feel I am seeking aprovel.... And yes I'm going to apologise for ranting on abit.. I am sorry!

#shootmenow
 
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arainynight

arainynight

Member
Feb 2, 2020
14
Never unless I've done something that requires it.
 
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NonsenseTrash

NonsenseTrash

Student
Jan 19, 2020
158
Kind of. I dont explicitly say "sorry" a lot. But, i do feel guilty most of the time for everything.
 
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cosmicpixiedust

cosmicpixiedust

Pixie
Jun 5, 2019
972
I constantly say that I'm sorry. It drives everyone around me insane, they're always like "STOP SAYING YOU'RE SORRY!" OR "It's not your fault!" I apologize for anything and everything.
 
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Broken Chimera

Broken Chimera

The abyss also gazes into you
May 27, 2019
972
I used to, but I'm done apologizing for things I haven't done or because someone is offended by my beliefs.
 
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GoodPersonEffed

GoodPersonEffed

Brevity is my middle name, but my name was TL
Jan 11, 2020
6,726
I wonder if Canadians notice when one of them doesn't say "sorry"?

Do they get angry about it, and then quickly follow it up with "sorry"?
 
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TheEndof

TheEndof

It's getting dark and it's getting cold
Dec 31, 2019
146
I used to, especially when I was in my teens. I don't really bother anymore because it never mattered. People are going to be upset no matter what I say or don't say. I don't have the energy to apologize anymore.
 
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TAW122

TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
6,959
I do, and partially by habit. Sometimes I hate myself for it because it makes me appear meek, weak, and passive, easily pushed around and people get away with mistreating me easier. Growing up, I was never the really assertive type, the type that would automatically command respect and dignity with my presence alone. I guess you could consider it as some internal vibe that I give off and I don't know if it's just my appearance or the way I talk, or what not, if so, well then I can't help it much sadly. I just don't have a "don't mess with me" look or a "respect me or else" kind of energy, I wished I did though. This makes me feel like I want to CTB, but I digress.
 
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Life sucks

Visionary
Apr 18, 2018
2,134
I do because of habits and probably remnants of past abuse and submissiveness. Unfortunately, it looks like it made whoever I talk to a monster against me because they don't appreciate being kind and pure and think its weakness that should be exploited.

But honestly I don't like others to feel bad or be hurt so I say sorry but nobody understands and instead they hurt me.

Sorry but I'll say this, fuck life and humans.
 
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Kikoo Loool

Kikoo Loool

Enlightened
Feb 25, 2019
1,128
Yes and no: I say it a lot to my SS friend but scarcely to other people.
 
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Backwood_tilt

UnEnlightened
Dec 27, 2019
889
Yes, but I live in Canada.
 
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Midnight-rain

Student
Jan 1, 2020
191
Used to say it a fuck ton, nowadays I've toned it down.
 
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moshimoshi

Apr 6, 2024
749
I say sorry way too much to the point I annoy people lol, I really can't help it TwT I say sorry for saying sorry for saying sorry. I think I've gotten better about it though
 
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sammiechzxv

sammiechzxv

just a girl who's kinda sad
Aug 7, 2023
286
Always have. People get annoyed with how apologetic I am
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
4,473
Yeah, it's a bad habit.
 
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untothedepths

untothedepths

death wont return my calls
Mar 20, 2023
642
I do, and I usually mean it or its because I'm being polite. It's been 'beaten' into me. It startles me and makes me uncomfortable when people suddenly get snippy and tell me to stop it. I get where they are coming from but it always sounds harsh. AKA, I'm a pussy.
 
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Meteora

Ignorance is bliss
Jun 27, 2023
2,007
Yes, I basically appologize for being alive, for breathing other peoples air.
 
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rozeske

Maybe I am the problem
Dec 2, 2023
3,975
Yes, all the time. Someone mentioned "I apologise so much I say sorry to a chair when I bump in to it" I never related to anything more.
 
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ConfusedClouds

Arcanist
Mar 9, 2024
444
Too much. And I've also been called out on it by others telling me not to.

In some ways I feel guilty as an apology should be an acknowledgement of a mistake you'll aim not to repeat (or something along those lines). Yet I keep messing people around. So it all becomes even more meaningless 🤦‍♀️
 
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sserafim

sserafim

brighter than the sun, that’s just me
Sep 13, 2023
9,024
Yeah because people always find fault with me. My mom always criticizes and nags me. I don't really mean my apologies though. I think I've just been conditioned to say them. I want to avoid conflict because I don't like people getting mad at me. I just find it annoying tbh
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,310
I apologize all the time but I do not believe doing so makes me any less of a burden or an evil person. No amount of being sorry can fix what I've broken.
 
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WoNkEy_DoNkEy

WoNkEy_DoNkEy

As Useful As A Chocolate Teapot 🫖
Apr 6, 2024
187
I say sorry way too much to the point I annoy people lol, I really can't help it TwT I say sorry for saying sorry for saying sorry. I think I've gotten better about it though
@soulkitty how about being sorry for dragging a 4yr old thread out of the cobwebs 😁🕸️
Yes, all the time. Someone mentioned "I apologise so much I say sorry to a chair when I bump in to it" I never related to anything more.
@rozeske damn right you should. What did the chair ever do to you?
 
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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

Pollyanna, loon, believer in love, believer in you
Sep 19, 2023
2,032
Always have, never really stopped. Same reason as all my issues.
 
SexyIncél

SexyIncél

🍭my lollipop brings the feminists to my candyshop
Aug 16, 2022
1,482
Sucks in martial arts training when I punch someone in the head, my instinct is to say "Sorry!" Because I hate the idea of brain damage. That's the thing you think with!

Had to think in terms of being in a wood shop, and I'm just breaking apart objects

(Rant: I really hate how many don't teach punching mechanics on punching bags & such. They're blasting each other with nerf guns, instead of building a whip-like kinetic chain)
 

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