Discussion Sex drive

[Morning Angel]

Just wondering where people are at with this one thing. I would figure as you get closer to attempting, sex is the last thing on your mind but I can't assume.

 

[Brokenanddeadinside]

I would say high or really high depending if im hypomanic.

 

[BlackDragonof1989]

Not as high lately, though it's partly because I'm getting older I think, going through a stressful falling out, and realizing I get off most with dominant, even mentally abusive types who make it a challenge. I don't know why, I mean that gets stressful and non-rewarding past a point too, and currently I'm very much the dominant one in my current relationship, but it's more of a love than lust thing for a change I think? I don't know, very confusing for me.

 

[Deleted_9cKnXB34QG]

I'm asexual.

 

[Tiburcio]

It's so high and annoying that sometimes I want to cut my dick because it can be even stressful.



Through years I lost interest in almost everything but sex drive... doesn't seem very affected... I think it even grew.

 

[Morning Angel]

It's so high and annoying that sometimes I want to cut my dick because it can be even stressful.



Through years I lost interest in almost everything but sex drive... doesn't seem very affected... I think it even grew.

I honestly wish my sex drive would just go away.

 

[Tomasnil]

Highest possible

 

[mwu14]

Asexual with unwanted sex drive that makes me feel like I'm possessed.

One of many reasons for ending my life, knowing there's no treatment for it other than having doctors tell you to masturbate. Well, yeah, I'm looking to eliminate the drive so I don't have to masturbate.

I also notice my body's need to orgasm increases after suicide attempts.

 

[Snee]

https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/

 

[Soon4me]

I'll never be able to have sexual intercourse again complication of a surgery.
I can still have an Orgasm.My sex drive is crazy high.I masturbate every day.
Sometimes twice a day.

 

[Brokenanddeadinside]

Sometimes though it drives me crazy when my sex drive is really high. I usually have a very high sex drive but when I am hypomanic I become hypersexual and its an excessive amount one time it was 8 times in one day which only happened once thankfully.

 

[ninaevol]

Very high, and it's really annoying

 

[Midnight]

In between high and really high but i have no issue's with it.

 

[agreement]

It changes a lot, because of my fluctuations from hypomania to catatonic depression.
I've submitted "high" as an average, also because porn is one of the last pleasure that I still enjoy.

 

[skyofAuroras]

It's funny, durring most of my teen years I had a super low sex drive (masturbated like twice a month). Lately it's been pretty high. Luckily not to the point where it's annoying.

 

[I want to end it]

I voted neutral and I'm male. I learned over the years to "lower" my drive because no girl has ever liked me, so what's the point of wanting sex? It's just an unnecessary burden to have if you can never have it with anyone. It's also low due to my general mood.

Very high, and it's really annoying

It's funny, durring most of my teen years I had a super low sex drive (masturbated like twice a month). Lately it's been pretty high. Luckily not to the point where it's annoying.

When girls say their drive is very high, how does that compare to a typical male drive? Presumably you would be quite picky with who you have sex with, even though your drive is very high?

 

[here4now]

I flick the bean multiple times a day but I'm not interested in having sex. Being intimate with someone makes me very uncomfortable.

 

[strained03]

Seeing the poll... I think you could dissociate self pleasure from intercourse. People can masturbate a few times a day but not feel ready to do it with someone, or just be introvert, or have some trauma etc.

Kind regards and no offense at all,
S.

 

[thetwilightzone]

Believe it or not, I only successfuly masturbated (orgasmed and ejaculated) two years ago when I was 18. Up until then, I simply didn't know how to.

What changed was that I had access to female boots and high heels and I have an incredible fetish for these. I got so aroused that I just took them silently from the floor, rubbed my penis on them and ejaculated.

 

[mwu14]

"Seeing the poll... I think you could dissociate self pleasure from intercourse."

Have already done that.

"People can masturbate a few times a day"

Would rather not have to at all.

"but not feel ready to do it with someone"

Have experience, so know it isn't for me.

"or just be introvert"

This, along with genuinely being asexual. Not attracted to most women, don't look at porn or think about women, etc.

As men, our sex drives are generally out of control. I like being a guy. I just don't like having any sex drive.

The only available treatments to significantly reduce sex drive have way too many potential side-effects to make it worth trying.

 

[Tiburcio]

My sex drive is the only thing who gives me an escape. After a shitty day, I aliviate myself. That's the only reason why I'm not mad and locked in some dark madhouse yet.

 

[VX1]

I only successfuly masturbated (orgasmed and ejaculated) two years ago.

Try some bubblewrap and shower gel.

 

[Empty Smile]

I pretty much have no interest in sex. I can't even get excited enough to polish the ol poodle.....

 

[hopeis5427]

Id say its almost high,but my sex drive has lowered the past couple of months which is good.My sex drive is more of a impulsion then it is a turn on,its like i have to masturbate even when i dont feel turned on,but i have noticed that i feel less lonely everytime i masturbate so i guess thats why

 

[SexualChocolate]

Really High (Annoyingly So) - daily urges for sex/masturbation

 

[I want to end it]

Really High (Annoyingly So) - daily urges for sex/masturbation

Maybe this is stupid question, but how can your sex drive be really high if you also want to ctb? Wanting to ctb surely puts you in a low, depressed mood which suppresses most of your sex drive.

 

[strained03]

Maybe this is stupid question, but how can your sex drive be really high if you also want to ctb? Wanting to ctb surely puts you in a low, depressed mood which suppresses most of your sex drive.

Some people masturbate to release a pressure.

 

[lastsummer]

I want to die and my feeling just empty. My sex drive is very low. It also because of me taking ativan.