Why am I so worthless?

[sakakap]

It's like no matter where I go I'll inevitably get mistreated. Classmates practically go out of their way to ignore me which I guess is preferable to how things were before uni, though only barely. I don't want to die --I've never actually wanted to die-- but the way others choose to interact with me makes me feel like I don't have another choice. Life is unbearable like this, I feel like a social freak. Even those who claim to be different will lie, cheat and/or leave. Why does everyone get to have friends except me? Why do I have to be so unlikable? Why am I not allowed to come to the conclusion that life doesn't have enough ups to compensate for its oh so many downs? I genuinely thought things were getting better but they weren't, they never will. If things could change they would've by now. Why can't people just be nice :(

 

[EmptyBottle]

hi, welcome to SaSu.. I agree, many people should be nicer to each other... at least here people usually seem to understand or at least show concern for each other.

 

[fiber-limb]

I can tell you that this is not a unique experience. There is nothing uniquely unlikable or unworthy about you. We are living in incredibly atomised and isolated environments. We are apes that are maladaptive. We've been trapped by those much more powerful than us in spirals of misery that they directly profit from.

I'm starting to ramble a bit. My point is, it's not you my friend. All of us are living through this. I have no advice on feeling better as I am in the exact same boat as you, but i can commiserate. It is not your fault. you are not a bad person , and even though you may not find it, you are deserving of companionship.

hi, welcome to SaSu.. I agree, many people should be nicer to each other... at least here people usually seem to understand or at least show concern for each other.

sasu is a bit of a silly name. i'm also new here, is that the official terminology? sasu sasu.. lole .

 

[Redacted24]

Completely agree!
I have never experienced the feeling of acceptance and genuine empathy until finding this site.

Honestly, the community here has kept me going these past few years - I came here actively looking to expedite my departure, but am now looking for ways to end my bad life and get a better life going.

I think that nice, genuine people are around. Finding them... that's a different challenge.

 

[EmptyBottle]

sasu is a bit of a silly name. i'm also new here, is that the official terminology? sasu sasu.. lole .

It's an acronym... some call it ss... and I sometimes even called it "the purple forum" coz it has a purple theme.

 

[fiber-limb]

It's an acronym... some call it ss... and I sometimes even called it "the purple forum" coz it has a purple theme.

purple sasu purple sasu purple sasu .

 

[Irisse]

It's like no matter where I go I'll inevitably get mistreated. Classmates practically go out of their way to ignore me which I guess is preferable to how things were before uni, though only barely. I don't want to die --I've never actually wanted to die-- but the way others choose to interact with me makes me feel like I don't have another choice. Life is unbearable like this, I feel like a social freak. Even those who claim to be different will lie, cheat and/or leave. Why does everyone get to have friends except me? Why do I have to be so unlikable? Why am I not allowed to come to the conclusion that life doesn't have enough ups to compensate for its oh so many downs? I genuinely thought things were getting better but they weren't, they never will. If things could change they would've by now. Why can't people just be nice :(

When did the ignoring start? How were things before Uni? I understand your isolation as I went through something similar in primary school and high school. Are there any clubs or groups related to hobbies? These can be a good way to make friends. How many more years do you have with those classmates? I know this is a lot of questions but if you don't really want to die you should grab any opportunity to improve your circumstances before you decide on death.