Are you a kind person?

[moshimoshi]

I have no clue. I can't really view myself well, I kind of hate everything about myself so I don't know how anyone could ever see anything good about me I'm literally scum of the earth. Just a disgusting waste of space that shouldn't take any breath that others deserve breathing more

 

[derpyderpins]

I have no clue. I can't really view myself well, I kind of hate everything about myself so I don't know how anyone could ever see anything good about me I'm literally scum of the earth. Just a disgusting waste of space that shouldn't take any breath that others deserve breathing more

I know this is just online and we don't get a full view of other people, but you're one of the top users on here I would associate with the word 'kind.' I don't think I've seen you say a single unsupportive word. I've gotten frustrated at times and probably said things I shouldn't, but I haven't seen you do that even once.

 

[moshimoshi]

I know this is just online and we don't get a full view of other people, but you're one of the top users on here I would associate with the word 'kind.' I don't think I've seen you say a single unsupportive word. I've gotten frustrated at times and probably said things I shouldn't, but I haven't seen you do that even once.

Haha thanks :') that means a lot. You're very kind please don't forget that! i would put you in top users I would associate with the word kind as well ☆⌒

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Why yes I am kind, kind of a piece of shit. Kind of a terrible person. Kind of funny how that works out for me.

 

[Red Moon]

I don't know, I've helped people out in the past ,donated and I'm polite with everyone.

I have no clue. I can't really view myself well, I kind of hate everything about myself so I don't know how anyone could ever see anything good about me I'm literally scum of the earth. Just a disgusting waste of space that shouldn't take any breath that others deserve breathing more

What, I think you're kind person.

 

[mitchmidder]

I tried my best to be kind to every person that I knew. Today I know that was my biggest mistake.

 

[Zoloft Muncher]

I believe I am, though others may not agree...

The fundamental problem in the society is that there is no respect between people. Humans think that they can get away with whatever rudenesses they want. Perhaps laws should be introduced making it illegal to be mean. Physical abuse is illegal so why can´t mental abuse be equally illegal.

Making it Illegal to be mean would be a disastrous proposal on so many levels, not to mention the costs of enforcing it.

 

[uselessbum]

Sometimes, I think about all the decisions I have personally made in life. I know how I truly feel about myself and what characteristics I would see myself as. I know I can learn from my mistakes, avoid the negative, but make just one bad mistake then it could define you forever in another's eyes. They will forever see you as something negative. This is what I struggle with.

 

[Pluto]

 

[itsneverbeenmoreove]

No fucking clue. I have really "big" emotions, and I love animals and my friends and family and my (ex)-partner. But I'm also very unappreciative to many of those close to me, and can be quite mean. By ex claims I was abusive, and I don't know if that's true. I hate myself a lot, so that's something. But I'm not sure if I'm a "good person" or even what a good person is tbh.

 

[red24]

No

 

[executioner1983]

I try to be, but I'm still human. I have opinions, I have opinions about opinions. I don't see eye to eye with everyone, and at first I used to let that frustrate me, that people could feel differently from me about matters/affairs when I felt so confident in my positions on them, but I'm getting much better at accepting people as they come. The way I view it, everything is relative anyways. Who's to say my opinion is any more right than there's? I am insanely biased in everything I do, think, or say. I don't want to hate people over something as subjective as perspective. So in that sense, I think yes. I am a kind person. When I love someone I try to love them fully, not just the parts I agree with or tolerate. Even if I may internally hold a negative opinion(whether by choice or not) about something or someone, I would never externally voice it to cause someone else pain. I just don't see the point in that, with the world already filled with so much of it. I'm also Buddhist so my beliefs help me maintain this attitude. Buddhists believe there is no real 'self', and that we are all one. Your thoughts and feelings are not yours, but instead reflections of your environment and genetic makeup. So I am you, and you are me, and to hate you is to hate me and everyone else, and that is simply too much hate for anybody to hold.

 

[Rd2nowhere]

I pretend to be kind.

 

[astrichaoz]

I don't know. I try to be, I guess. I listen to people when they need it and provide my support, I really try my best to be a nice person. At the same time though, I can be really mean, bitter and selfish.

 

[Mirrory Me]

I may not be that warm, but I usually think about kind things about myself and others.

 

[DeathOfKane]

I am kind. Nice? 50/50. I honestly prefer being an ass. Being kind gives you nothing.

 

[sserafim]

Being kind gets you nowhere

 

[ijustwishtodie]

Being kind gets you nowhere

I fully agree. Being kind in this world only leads to people exploiting an easy target

 

[derpyderpins]

Being kind gets you nowhere

I fully agree. Being kind in this world only leads to people exploiting an easy target

Unkind people will exploit the easy target, and you can learn to avoid them.

Kindness might not bring you riches, but it can bring you the company of other kind people, and being kind is good for your personal mental health.

I'm sorry you two feel this way.

 

[DeIetedUser4739]

Yes

 

[pyx]

relative to the situation

 

[etherealspring]

i dont think of myself as a kind person, though people often tell me that im "too nice"

 

[Edpal247]

Generally. Have done some mean and terrible things too.

 

[Buffy]

I'm not a very nice person; people think I am only because I can't say no ૮ ◞ ﻌ ◟ ა

 

[-nobodyknows-]

I don't think I am, but some people say otherwise.

 

[broth0100]

i try to pretend to b kind

 

[lazyspoiledfailure3]

I thought so, also did voluntary work and the like to justify that opinion, but in the end it was just to make me feel better. I'm so egotistical I'm thinking about ending it all although several people love me earnestly. I'm a piece of shit

 

[derpyderpins]

I thought so, also did voluntary work and the like to justify that opinion, but in the end it was just to make me feel better. I'm so egotistical I'm thinking about ending it all although several people love me earnestly. I'm a piece of shit

Nothing wrong with doing good things to feel good about yourself.

What's the catch?

You do something nice: other person benefits.

Other person feels better because of you: you feel good.

Everyone who is nice or kind or patient does it because it makes them feel better than being mean or rude or short-tempered does.

If I have to live in this world and in my society, I'd rather be surrounded by people who do really good generous things for the selfish motive of making themself feel better than people who selflessly do nothing to contribute based on some self-important moral code.

 

[NotOurFriend]

I would say I am a nice and kind Person in general.
However if people are not friendly to me, I am not friendly aswell. I can be very rude and unfriendly and most of the time I actually am, because the people behave like shit to me for no reason.
I dont care about others, but I wont give them rude comments for no reason. I am friendly and polite to everyone until they start being a piece of shit. I really can hurt people with the things I say, because I always listen to their conversations, but I wont use it until they start being an idiot for no reason at all.
I dont want anyone to feel bad, but if they try to make me feel bad, then fuck them, because I always win in these situations.
I am a nice person, if you are aswell...
The others can go fuck themselves...

 

[Blackoutchange]

When I think about my past and present, I often wonder why people are so mean. I have only known one person who was good and kind. But she is dead now. To me it seems that many people enjoy saying rude things to others. Often, people will utter hurtful words to others with no motive. Or their motive could be simply to relieve their own pain. Children are bullied at school and adults are bullied at work. People get bullied on the Internet. People are abused both physically and psychologically. Maybe it is best to be alone. It is hard to be kind in a world made up of mean people. We do not even have the right to die to escape this suffering.

Most times, others are mean because of what is occuring in their own life and less often does it have to do with you. Common reasons people are mean include they have a need to gain power, they are jealous, they feel threatened, they struggle to regulate their emotions, they have been bullied in the past, they are experiencing chaos at home, they are prejudiced, they are projecting insecurities, they lack self-awareness, they feel pressured by social dynamics, your habits hurt them or there is a misunderstanding. However, people have different behaviors due to heredity. Futhermore, the one who has everything does not have to be nice and the beggar on the street must be kind to get money.

Reasons why people are mean

I am a kind person, because I know that there are cruel people on this world. Everyone always left me so I always stay, I don't see why would people be mean in this awful world. We are all in this painful existence, why make it worse?