Story Did they ditch me?

[samishii]

Short back story- i am a guy with not a lot of friends, came to Germany for studies, made about 4 friends (although I knew only one was a real one).

Imma sound like a attention seeking whore-
I recently was going to Amsterdam with the 4 "friends", but at the last moment, plans got cancelled as one of us (the one I considered a real one) had some urgent work for which his uncle also came to Germany and he went to meet him in Hamburg.
I understood that it was important for him, so I didn't mind the plans getting cancelled. And then all others cancelled too.

Now all of a sudden, the night before him leaving, the other three also went to meet their families. At the same time, same excuse/reason? I feel like they ditched me and are in Amsterdam together. I am thinking like this coz they have done that some time ago as well.

They said they were going to sleep, but since I stay awake most of the time, a few hours later I heard them, drunk/high and shouting. I gave them a call, and they were like- let us fucking sleep. I saw them and that broke my heart.

There have been many instances and I hate to accept that my intuitions are always right. Not a single one has been proven wrong.

Sorry for any holes in the story, i am kinda too drunk

 

[Well-Edited Chaos]

Sorry that happened to you. That's a really shitty experience.

 

[AloneInCollege]

I know what it feels like to have friends go off and have fun without you. In this case I'm not exactly sure since I don't have a lot of details. Check their social media if they have any to see if they post things. If this hasn't happend before they might actually have had to cancel for real and its just unfortunate timing. If this is a repeating thing then that is concerning.

 

[FuneralCry]

I think that people can often be very disappointing and unreliable. This is why I see it as best to not trust people too much. I'm sorry that you went through this. This life is just so unfair.