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Beautiful_Disgrace

Beautiful_Disgrace

Invisible shadow
Mar 8, 2020
134
Like it's so hard for me to actually commit to getting good at anything. I don't ever have fun unless I'm being good at what I'm doing. I hate drawing ugly art but I know I won't get any better if I don't practice. But damn it's so hard for me to find the motivation to practice.

It's not just art. It's writing, gaming...I just don't want to be bothered doing anything when I'm shit at it.
 
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the box is empty

the box is empty

Sometimes the fall kills you. Sometimes you fly.
Mar 8, 2020
356
I used to play violin and piano.

Used to write letters, like the old fashioned way snail mail.

Hiking was a lot of fun. Hiking is really hard to be "bad" at.

I used to like to game as well. Video games, board games, card games etc..

Botany? Even if it's just a potted a plant it can be fulfilling.

Wow, just reading my own list made me realize how boring I am lol
 
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Beautiful_Disgrace

Beautiful_Disgrace

Invisible shadow
Mar 8, 2020
134
I used to play violin and piano.

Used to write letters, like the old fashioned way snail mail.

Hiking was a lot of fun. Hiking is really hard to be "bad" at.

I used to like to game as well. Video games, board games, card games etc..

Botany? Even if it's just a potted a plant it can be fulfilling.

Wow, just reading my own list made me realize how boring I am lol
That doesn't sound boring at all. But then again all I ever do is clean up after a bunch of people, play Sims and rewatch shows from the early 2000's on Hulu. So my opinion shouldn't be taken too seriously lol
 
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It'llNeverEnd

Member
Mar 1, 2020
99
I crocheted for a while, but gender stuff made me want to put it down and depression stops me from picking it up again.

I love going hiking and feel so great after, I just don't have a way to get to a place to go hiking anymore short of a $50 Uber one way.

I've been growing bonsai trees from seeds since Christmas. 3 had even sprouted even though my cat ate one, the first one to start too.

I would count taking care of my animals is a hobby in itself.
 
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Beautiful_Disgrace

Beautiful_Disgrace

Invisible shadow
Mar 8, 2020
134
I crocheted for a while, but gender stuff made me want to put it down and depression stops me from picking it up again.

I love going hiking and feel so great after, I just don't have a way to get to a place to go hiking anymore short of a $50 Uber one way.

I've been growing bonsai trees from seeds since Christmas. 3 had even sprouted even though my cat ate one, the first one to start too.

I would count taking care of my animals is a hobby in itself.
Taking care of animals and plants sounds like really good hobbies to me. :)
 
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It'llNeverEnd

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Mar 1, 2020
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Taking care of animals and plants sounds like really good hobbies to me. :)
at least if you start out as shit with plants you just get more seeds or animals will love you still even if you forget to feed them.
 
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Beautiful_Disgrace

Invisible shadow
Mar 8, 2020
134
at least if you start out as shit with plants you just get more seeds or animals will love you still even if you forget to feed them.
Taking care of animals and plants isn't that hard for me. Caring for things is just about the only thing I'm good at. I just don't have the money.
 
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the box is empty

the box is empty

Sometimes the fall kills you. Sometimes you fly.
Mar 8, 2020
356
Taking care of animals and plants isn't that hard for me. Caring for things is just about the only thing I'm good at. I just don't have the money.

Some pets can be inexpensive if you're not too picky. Plus, you'll be repaid a hundred fold in return from the affection you receive from them. As for plants, cacti are simple and inexpensive. African violets are satisfying too and can bloom continually if you care for them right.
 
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MartyByrde

MartyByrde

Experienced
Mar 15, 2020
286
Mine are all "Used to like/enjoy/love to..." I'm not able to enjoy anything anymore.
 
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terry_a_davis

terry_a_davis

Warlock
Dec 28, 2019
707
Mine are all "Used to like/enjoy/love to..." I'm not able to enjoy anything anymore.
I've lost interest in several things i used to enjoy too.

OP keep practising it's the only way to get good but i know it's easier said than done.
 
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Beautiful_Disgrace

Beautiful_Disgrace

Invisible shadow
Mar 8, 2020
134
Mine are all "Used to like/enjoy/love to..." I'm not able to enjoy anything anymore.
It's getting harder and harder for me to enjoy things as well. I miss writing.
 
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BlackPoppet

BlackPoppet

Wise woman and Celtic sky person
Mar 7, 2020
991
My hobbies include photography and keeping Tarantulas, Praying mantises, Scorpions and other big bugs. I like walking and reading crime fiction too.
my family don't like my Tarantulas! But I love them! These animals saved my life in 2011 and I adore them. I have a stripey one , a purple one, a green ( olive) one, an orange one. They come with lots of pattern and colours.
I like writing poetry as well.
 
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Oyoy

Oyoy

Spatula
Feb 2, 2020
741
My hobbies include photography and keeping Tarantulas, Praying mantises, Scorpions and other big bugs. I like walking and reading crime fiction too.
my family don't like my Tarantulas! But I love them! These animals saved my life in 2011 and I adore them. I have a stripey one , a purple one, a green ( olive) one, an orange one. They come with lots of pattern and colours.
I heard there one that is illegal from Brazil.
 
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the box is empty

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Mar 8, 2020
356
My hobbies include photography and keeping Tarantulas, Praying mantises, Scorpions and other big bugs. I like walking and reading crime fiction too.
my family don't like my Tarantulas! But I love them! These animals saved my life in 2011 and I adore them. I have a stripey one , a purple one, a green ( olive) one, an orange one. They come with lots of pattern and colours.
When I was in high school I wanted a frog but I couldn't afford a terrarium. I always wanted birds but my mother insisted that it was cruel to keep them.

i read a lot of science fiction and mythology.The only crime fiction I read was the Millenium series (the girl with the dragon tattoo)
 
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Oyoy

Oyoy

Spatula
Feb 2, 2020
741
When I was in high school I wanted a frog but I couldn't afford a terrarium. I always wanted birds but my mother insisted that it was cruel to keep them.

i read a lot of science fiction and mythology.The only crime fiction I read was the Millenium series (the girl with the dragon tattoo)
My mom said the same about birds.
 
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BlackPoppet

BlackPoppet

Wise woman and Celtic sky person
Mar 7, 2020
991
I heard there one that is illegal from Brazil.
what one is that? All the Tarantula I own are captive breed in Europe and UK. Even my Mexican red knee ( Brachypelma hamorii) is captive breed because it is CITES regulated in the wild. So it's illegal to take it out of its natural habitat. So they captive breed them over here in UK and Europe. I have a Brazilian red and white striped bird eater, but they are not endangered. I had a Brazilian salmon pink birdeater as well but she passed away. R IP Padme.
my Brazilian red and white striped bird eater is a complete diva! Her name is Chaka. She is semi defensive ( aggressive) and she is very highly strung and unpredictable. I still love her!
I have one old world species the King baboon Tarantula. Most of my Tarantulas are from the Americas ( New world) and the Caribbean. But are all captive bred over here
When I was in high school I wanted a frog but I couldn't afford a terrarium. I always wanted birds but my mother insisted that it was cruel to keep them.

i read a lot of science fiction and mythology.The only crime fiction I read was the Millenium series (the girl with the dragon tattoo)
I've got all of Steig Larssons books! I love the Millennium series! I buy my exo terra terrarium and vivariums online at around £50! Faunariums I get in a pet shop.
 
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I_love_to_bake

I_love_to_bake

Student
Feb 27, 2020
167
I can definitely relate. I feel like I've been so shit at everything I've ever tried to do in life. You're right about hiking, I love hiking because usually there isn't much competitive passion. I also like baking because it's easy enough. Sweet things taste sweet, people like sugar, I add lots of sugar and people become happy. People usually love my baked goods.

I've always been so anti-competetive. Like I just don't care if I'm winning, ever. I just want everyone to be happy. And I feel like this has really set me back in society. Not being able to conform to the games we have to play. Does anyone else feel that way?
 
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Cashewmilk

Cashewmilk

Specialist
Mar 10, 2020
352
I used to play violin and piano.

Used to write letters, like the old fashioned way snail mail.

Hiking was a lot of fun. Hiking is really hard to be "bad" at.

I used to like to game as well. Video games, board games, card games etc..

Botany? Even if it's just a potted a plant it can be fulfilling.

Wow, just reading my own list made me realize how boring I am lol

No you're not boring! Those things sound fun. I'm 31 now and I'm asexual and totally an introvert hermit, things like that make me happy.

When I was 12 our 7th grade class went hiking, I was the last one behind... I was dying. I never made it to the top, everyone else did even the weak sickly kids. I will never forget that failure, I never saw the top of the mountain but everyone else did. It's funny because all those kids (a few have died since) made it to the proverbial mountain top in life and I didn't.
I have lots of hobbies. I've always been into art but could never afford it before Michael's art stores came about. After my worst bout of depression, I became "hypomanic", and I sat one day at the window having a smoke, and I said to myself "fuck the whole world I'm just going to live in my own little bubble and make art". I got into polymer clay, first I cleaned my disgusting pig stye room, I set up an art table and collected many tools and supplies. Also got into traditional painting. For the last 15 years I only did digital art because I couldn't afford anything else. I still like digital art. I use photoshop and SAI, I can't figure out illustrator. Now 3 years later my collection is finished but I got busy with something else.

Not long after my clay obsession I was longing for animal companionship since my cat passed away. I started keeping garden snails, watching insects and keeping and breeding them. Then I rescued a hedgehog and joined online care groups, then a dwarf hamster. Sadly my pets kept having devestating health issues and vet bills kept piling up, and I went back into a deep depression again. It just didn't matter what I did no matter how hard I tried - I was considered one of the best hamster keepers my set up was enviable (it's still there he just died last month he was old age but I think he had an infection), but somehow life still found a way to bite me.

Oh and my art studio? It's blocked. My sister's boyfriend started hoarding power tools and stacked them up right infront of my art table, he said he'll move it if I clean the garage, again. I know it's abusive but I am too exhausted to fight. Plus I'm too tired to even do art, I mean it would be nice if I could at least paint something. My whole life I've done art (never really finished much) but lately I haven't. I'm still taking care of my hedgehog. I also like gardening... and creating enchanted little spaces for the snails and insects. I grew tall beautiful sunflowers last year first time. I also like baking but only to eat whatever I'm making lol.

I've always been creative and a creator. I always had this urge to create my own art things. Been that way since I was a kid. I'm not a prodigy or very talented though, I had a budding talent when I was 8 but my parents didn't want to nurture it they thought it was a waste of time, so I just did digital art for the longest time. It also takes me a long time to finish something so I'm definitely not that good at it. It's why I've never tried to do commissions or anything for other people, I always turned them down or made up some excuse.

I'll look for photos of my sunflowers later my head hurts and the scrolling of photos is making me nauseous.
 
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Nem

Nem

Drs suck mega ass!
Sep 3, 2018
1,489
I've only been interested in death as a hobby, previous hobbies mean nothing to me anymore unfortunately
Peace/hugs
 
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the box is empty

the box is empty

Sometimes the fall kills you. Sometimes you fly.
Mar 8, 2020
356
I've only been interested in death as a hobby, previous hobbies mean nothing to me anymore unfortunately
Peace/hugs

Have you ever watched AskAMortician? I was obsessed with that channel for a long time
 
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gnomeboy17

gnomeboy17

Specialist
Feb 11, 2020
355
I used to have so many hobbies, maths, science, art, sport, music. But now I don't really have anything that I'm passionate about in the same way.
 
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Underwhelming

Underwhelming

Before I Disappear
Mar 10, 2020
63
I can't say i find much motivation to do much of my hobbies anymore, even though i do enjoy them. I just feel like i don't have the energy. I do motorcycle track days in the summer when the weather is nice, and go to the gym (when they aren't closed for the coronavirus). Other than that i just lie around, play videogames, skateboard, listen to music, and disassociate.
 
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BlackPoppet

BlackPoppet

Wise woman and Celtic sky person
Mar 7, 2020
991
I can't say i find much motivation to do much of my hobbies anymore, even though i do enjoy them. I just feel like i don't have the energy. I do motorcycle track days in the summer when the weather is nice, and go to the gym (when they aren't closed for the coronavirus). Other than that i just lie around, play videogames, skateboard, listen to music, and disassociate.
it's hard to feel motivated a lot of the time for me as well. You are not alone. What music do you like?
I used to have so many hobbies, maths, science, art, sport, music. But now I don't really have anything that I'm passionate about in the same way.
I love science and art too! I used to be obsessed with music, especially Drum and bass, oldskool hardcore, garage, techno ECT. The last gig I went to was Marina and the diamonds gig at the Eventim Apollo a few months ago. Me and my boyfriend both love Marina!
 
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Huntfish34

Huntfish34

Enlightened
Mar 13, 2020
1,622
Hunting and fishing mostly, ( wrangling rattlesnakes also ) but lately I haven't because of my lack of motivation and drive.
 
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JustLosingMyself

Mage
Sep 4, 2018
544
I build model kits...
It's quite the meditation at times.
 

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TheGoodGuy

TheGoodGuy

Visionary
Aug 27, 2018
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I like going for hour long walks when there is sunny weather I am drawn to nature but that is about it
 
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faust

lost among the stars
Jan 26, 2020
3,138
I used to have many hobbies like: playing the guitar; composing music; writing novels, poems; calisthenics; long-distance running; reading books.
Guess what has left? Exactly, none.
 
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UpandDownPrincess

UpandDownPrincess

Elementalist
Dec 31, 2019
833
Like it's so hard for me to actually commit to getting good at anything. I don't ever have fun unless I'm being good at what I'm doing. I hate drawing ugly art but I know I won't get any better if I don't practice. But damn it's so hard for me to find the motivation to practice.

It's not just art. It's writing, gaming...I just don't want to be bothered doing anything when I'm shit at it.

You can always think of it as practicing bad art. There's even a museum for it: http://museumofbadart.org/

And based on my etsy and eBay searches, there are plenty of definitions of art out there, many of them seem to be able to provide an income for someone. My personal taste ranges from Impressionist to Pop, so I'd really enjoy a cage match of, say, Monet v. Warhol.

Oops! Forgot to answer the original question! I knit sometimes, but mostly I collect yarn and pattern ideas and then never complete them. :happy:
I watch documentaries, particularly true crime and social sciences.
I run a small business, but not for profit, really. It's just a very expensive hobby that sometimes pays for itself.
I do jigsaw puzzles.
I have three cats, ranging from senior and sedate to rambunctious and ridiculous. They keep me plenty busy.
I also have a husband. He's a bit more than a hobby, but sure keeps me occupied!
 
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