Venting Goodbye Letter?

[shediedatsea]

I will catch my bus in 13 days. There is only one thing that I'm unsure about. I was getting to know a guy, after he had to deal with his exams we started talking less and less. The anxious person I am, kept asking if everything is alright between us and if we are still on the same page. After a few times i guess he just snapped and said I crossed a line and he doesnt want to deal with it anymore, as it was getting too much. Okay, I understand. He also mentioned that hes at this point unsure if he even wants to see me. Okay, I get it. After that I kept saying good morning/goodnight, to which i got no reply. So we basically stopped talking, I don't know either if we are still going to see eachother. I have planned my bus departure for a few months thorougly now. I specifically want to mention that I'm not doing it because of the failed romance, I have other reasons but he could have postponed it, if things were going well i guess? So now we haven't talked yet I obviously care about him deeply. Do I have a final goodbye? A small message? Or just leave it as is? I don't want to scare him or make him feel guilty, as it has nothing to do with him, while we were getting to know eachother I got out of the psychward due to a failed attempt so he is well aware of how I feel. I could just also not bother and leave things the way they are, I'm not sure. I would feel bad leaving him hanging, as he promised me we would see eachother again but at the same time I'm the one being cut off, I don't know what to do now...

 

[ObsidianEnigma]

Can you wait for a few weeks if he himself sends a message?

 

[thaelyana]

I will catch my bus in 13 days. There is only one thing that I'm unsure about. I was getting to know a guy, after he had to deal with his exams we started talking less and less. The anxious person I am, kept asking if everything is alright between us and if we are still on the same page. After a few times i guess he just snapped and said I crossed a line and he doesnt want to deal with it anymore, as it was getting too much. Okay, I understand. He also mentioned that hes at this point unsure if he even wants to see me. Okay, I get it. After that I kept saying good morning/goodnight, to which i got no reply. So we basically stopped talking, I don't know either if we are still going to see eachother. I have planned my bus departure for a few months thorougly now. I specifically want to mention that I'm not doing it because of the failed romance, I have other reasons but he could have postponed it, if things were going well i guess? So now we haven't talked yet I obviously care about him deeply. Do I have a final goodbye? A small message? Or just leave it as is? I don't want to scare him or make him feel guilty, as it has nothing to do with him, while we were getting to know eachother I got out of the psychward due to a failed attempt so he is well aware of how I feel. I could just also not bother and leave things the way they are, I'm not sure. I would feel bad leaving him hanging, as he promised me we would see eachother again but at the same time I'm the one being cut off, I don't know what to do now...

I wouldn't have done it honestly, too bad for him.. he doesn't want to talk to you don't waste your time saying a word to him.. Do you have something interesting to say to him? Do you know him well enough to say words to him?

Courage, if you change your mind it doesn't matter, everything is fine.