Venting hate looking at myself

[thebiggestduck17]

its so unfortunate that in my short life I will never be loved by any girl because of the way I look. my nose is fucking massive and my eyes look so lifeless. my life is over
the same people who make fun of me are the same people who say "just do this bro it'll make u more attractive" like no it wont nothing will ever make me more attractive

 

[Alice563]

You know, the ugliest guys get the most beautiful girls. That might not be the case for high school but for later in life it is. That is what I have observed. It is often not about look but confidence-and this sometimes requires years and therapy to develop. Check the boyfried of Ariana Grande Ethan or Pete Davidson. And men age like wine. Check Pedro Pascal. Who would thought. Btw. In asia big noses are on demand!

 

[monetpompo]

the ugliest guys get the most beautiful girls. That might not be the case for high school but for later in life it is.

????????? where have you seen this. i think ugliness is still a big factor in who wants to date you. i wouldn't use celebrities as an example.

 

[NonEssential]

Same. Even if you knew my real name you wouldn't be able to see what I look like because I've never posted a picture of myself on the internet as I hate the way I look that much.

 

[graysme]

Honestly I do believe that having an impactful personality, emotional intelligence, style, and a good attitude can get you into a relationship pretty easily. Work on those characteristics as hard as you can, expose yourself in social contexts, and you'll find a girl who likes you, I'm 100% sure of this. The victim mindset should be the first thing to remove from yourself, it's an obstacle.

 

[botanormal]

I know it's incredibly hard when you feel so low about your own appearance, and other people seem to "confirm" it in the way that they treat you. And I'm so sure you're right in that, for some people, appearance is super important. But there are also cases of certain men who are not stereotypically attractive at all, who still get girlfriends. Things like charisma go a really long way! I know you've probably heard that a lot, and I don't want to chime in with stereotypical things you may have already heard a thousand times, but I truly do believe in it. When talking to my other friends who are girls, we compare interests all the time, and some of the guys they like I personally would never go near & vice versa. I think it's a really complex thing. Not that any of this takes away from the fact you feel this way, and please don't feel bad about feeling bad! Just to say looks are not everything, and one person's hideous is another person's stunning

 

[thebiggestduck17]

Honestly I do believe that having an impactful personality, emotional intelligence, style, and a good attitude can get you into a relationship pretty easily. Work on those characteristics as hard as you can, expose yourself in social contexts, and you'll find a girl who likes you, I'm 100% sure of this. The victim mindset should be the first thing to remove from yourself, it's an obstacle.

maybe it's just the people i've been around but when i tried to be in social circles and such i was not respected at all so i don't see the point of trying to put myself out there. i've tried numerous times to put myself in a social context

You know, the ugliest guys get the most beautiful girls. That might not be the case for high school but for later in life it is. That is what I have observed. It is often not about look but confidence-and this sometimes requires years and therapy to develop. Check the boyfried of Ariana Grande Ethan or Pete Davidson. And men age like wine. Check Pedro Pascal. Who would thought. Btw. In asia big noses are on demand!

i'm sorry but i just don't agree with a lot of this, maybe the last part is true about asia but then i shouldn't have to move to a whole different continent just to not be lonely