how badly you get along with your sibling(s)

[lv-nii]

my only older brother is a narcissist/manipulator

 

[ForeverLonely82]

LOL. they barely acknowledge I exist. if at all.

 

[J&L383]

Cordial. Sometimes we have good memories together.

 

[darksouls]

my only older brother is a narcissist/manipulator

I only have one sister who is 12 years older than me
my sister said to me that I am mentally ill because I am against animal testing
I moved far away from my family

 

[bankai]

One older sister, much older than me by 8 years.Never really had much of A connection because of the age difference.

 

[tryme]

I don't talk to them since 10 years. One wants to kill me and I hate them both. And I live here. I have no family and no home. Ignore.

 

[SchizoGymnast]

If she died, the world would be a slightly better place

 

[bananaolympus]

Pretty good there isn't a family member i have a bad relationship

 

[22yearsbroken]

Not seen or spoken to my sister for about 15 years .. she apoke with my partner a few years back when i was seriously ill.. but not me .. and i couldnt really give two shits ...

 

[Apathy79]

I get along well with both my younger siblings when we see each other, although it is pretty rare these days (once every few years). They've built me up as this mysterious hermit to their kids so chatting with them can be fun - they're very curious.

 

[NonEssential]

I get along with my siblings pretty well. They're usually too busy or tired to hang out with me though.

 

[Alexandra0]

My half-sister is almost 18 years old and we hardly communicate, although she lives in the neighboring area. I hardly communicate with anyone at all, because I just want to die and I am tormented by a physical illness. How can there be communication? I live alone and can barely cope even with ordinary everyday affairs. My body has betrayed me. I don't communicate with my mother and father often either. Mostly only with my mother, but it's not that easy to communicate with her

 

[LostLily]

Brother is has mental issues and has the mind of toddler who makes messes and will throw tantrum. Occasionally he will throw things at you.

 

[Ashu]

Curiously, I'm seeing your question immediately after messaging my sister for the first time in more than a year. She hates me for good reasons that are actually not my fault, and this has come fully out in the open since my father died three years ago. I live on the other side of the planet, in India, and will be revisiting my native ground in northern Canada in a couple if weeks, and I thought enough time might have passed that we might be ready to initiate a reconciliation. We are the sole survivors of our small family.

 

[quins]

I haven't spoken to my siblings in years. Perhaps because of fractured identity, seeing a brother completely amputated from the rest of their twaddle might convince them that I'd "disappear" soon enough. I called my brother's wife a "whore" one time, and my sisters have been "whores" to me for some time longer. I've no interest in "patchwork" as of now.

 

[ChrisFromEarth]

two older brothers, they don't care about me and depression is not a real disease for them. I couldn't care less if they died

 

[yxmux]

younger sister (17). we get along fine, but we do our own thing. also I don't really care about her (or any of my family) that much

 

[areyousafe??]

I have one older sister who is two years older than me. She has a superiority complex which makes her unbearable to be around. I try to keep contact to a bare minimum because she is disrespectful towards family members, and is used to throwing tantrums when things don't go her way.

 

[CatLvr]

I get along with them just fine. Haven't spoken to any of them since my grandson's funeral 25 years ago. And I didn't want to talk to any of them then but they just couldn't help themselves and just HAD to try and start shit. I gathered up my husband and my kids and left.

 

[not-real]

Got a little sister 5 years younger than me. Im 20 and shes 15. We both live with our parents. I don't feel close to her. We barely talk and don't really have nothing in common. This family never spends time together, everyone stays in their own rooms. Dont really know if its too late to try to build a connection with her, the age gap makes it hard to relate or have much in common with her.

 

[qwert3948]

my brother has too much energy for me and i get overwhelmed easily. i'm very awkward around kids and sometimes i feel bad for him. i wish i could play with him more but i just don't have enough energy to do it everyday. he's like a complete oposite of me, super talkative and energetic.

 

[iwashere]

For a long time my sister and I didn't get along. The way we were raised plus the temperaments we both inherited from our parents kinda made for a shit storm. I definitely came out more like my mom, very emotional and take things personally. Passive aggressive, need things to go my way or I freak out. I've grown out of this…err, rather I've worked on it and it's not as much an issue for me as it was when I was, say 15 or 16. My sister took more after my dad, however, stubborn, hard headed and hot headed, kinda just mean. Manipulative, can be narcissistic and for a long time I thought she was narcissistic.

We got in a huge fight in 2020 over WASHING THE DISHES!! To condense the story I washed the dishes for her the night before in exchange for her to buy me doordash, she took a pic of me cleaning the kitchen and posted it on her story calling me autistic. The next day i find out I missed a pan and my sister tells me to wash it, and I just ask her to wash it because I washed all the dishes plus the kitchen and she didn't do anything yet used all the dishes. She started talking really…passive aggressively so I removed myself from the situation because I could feel the tension rising. That's when she taunted me from upstairs, "Lol she can't even control herself she has to walk away," "look at how she gets after you ask her to wash a dish haha it's crazy actually" so I come back downstairs and I'm like ?!? what is going on lol. she starts taking a video of me and… things just get out of control. She asks my mom to kick me out of the house and next thing you know her and I don't talk for the next 2 years! Not a single word. Sometimes she'd see mail come for me and she'd say stuff like "Ohhh hahah I remember only the sped kids would get mail from these people ahahahah" or just weird sneak disses but eventually she just kinda started talking to me again. We've been talking again for like the last year and a half or two years but during that period we weren't talking i genuinely hated my sister. there was a lot more… like i got her a christmas gift (even though she made a rule that she never buys me a christmas gift because one time in first grade she got me a present and I peeked in the bag) and it was in my opinion very thoughtful. she collected kid story books… like the thick cardboard kind and when I went to tj maxx to buy her stuff I saw a mini version of Goodnight Moon or whatever that book is called and i was like !!!!! omg she's going to love this!! it's perfect!!! I get her a whole bunch of other stuff and I leave it under the tree. She opens her presents, "hehe thnx……." she says. I'm elated because I just finally was able to give a gift!!! (i'm 14 at the time so i was using all my paychecks to buy christmas gifts for everybody)… that is until I go upstairs and my mom comes in the room and she's telling me "Your sister is PISSED!! LIVID!!! She's going on and on about, 'Why the fuck did she get me a fucking kids book?? She spent more money on her friends than she did on me!! What am I supposed to do with this?? Tell her to return this I don't want it at all!!!!" Safe to say after that I never bought her a present haha.

 

[livershapedbox]

I have been kind of distant with my sister since some things happened but we still care for each other. I kinda miss when we were closer

 

[lovedread]

My sister tried to kill me in my sleep twice. My brother is a POS. I unironically prefer my sister who would probably be glad if I died