FireFox
Enlightened
- Apr 8, 2020
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I have already shared on here how I having been struggling to get over a guy I really liked i known him throughout this year and over the summer we began to bond more til it feel apart. Ever since starting university I miss even more as the months go by. He is such a cool guy and he had things I want in a man ie travels a lot, funny, intelligent and I can have long and interesting conversations about politics and all kinds of things and we bonded over our love of CBD products. The guy is in his 30s. More and more I feel like I am never going to click with another man. I really wanted him so much. The guy has a lot of issues and insecurities, and have toxic behaviours ie Slient treatment, poor communication skills, over analysing my actions and words, I felt like I was being profiled at times. It wasn't healthy at times
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...nt-win-anymore-with-guys.183907/#post-2722555
Summer with him was really great until it all went wrong ( Long story). We parted ways amicably and I decided to stop visiting the CBD store he works in and area he lives because that's were we met and had our fun over the summer. I have been going to university events, talking to guys at the university law postgradute school but still I can't click with anyone the way I clicked with him and guys at university don't click with me either. Evenings have been hard because I missed all our evening conversations we had with him.
I have been off university for this week due to university half term break and these feelings intensified even more yesterday Tuesday I left my house and decided to the CBD shop to see him. He looked so happy to see me and I thanked him because meeting him helped me get over the 55 year old man I was in love with and back to my old self which is true.
I did a stupid thing. I took a random picture of him, he saw and I denied it. I ended it up deleting the picture as I regretted taking it. He messages me later that evening asking why I took it. I just said it was a random thing i wasn't thinking properly and told him I deleted it because I regretted taking it.
We spoke about why things went wrong. The man said my religious beliefs where the reason I am not compatible with him. He is Anti Thiest whereas I am practicing Catholic but I am very respectful of people's beliefs. The man told me he finds me attractive and doesn't want me to "feel bad". I asked him does he feel bad for rejecting me he answered
" feel a bit bad because I don't want you to think I rejected you ." I told him he did reject me because I wanted to take things further but he didn't want too. I learnt the man insecure all the times I told him I found him attractive he didn't believe me because he doesn't see himself as attractive.
I then fucked up telling him the truth the next day. I said I took tne random photo for 2 reasons. My grandmother always wondered what he looked like and couldn't understand why I am struggling to get over him and part of me is afraid of forgetting him so when I was in the shop I just took picture really without thinking,
I told him what my grandmother thinks of him. My grandmother thinks "he needs to shave and doesn't wash himself " and can't understand why I am upset over a man who "sells CBD, doesn't like people going to church and doesn't shave"
He loses his temper with me and accuses me of "insulting his appearance" and "trying to score brownie points". I told him I love his appearance my family don't and I defended him to my family. He just lost his temperature even I told him I just showec my grandmother in person the picture and deleted it minutes later.
He now fucking hates me. Had I stuck to my non contact rules none of this would have happened. I know i have fucked up major time, its all my fault and I am stupid
I have really fucked up I just can't stop crying. I hate having anxiety I feel like it's the end of world . I am the worst person ever.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...nt-win-anymore-with-guys.183907/#post-2722555
Summer with him was really great until it all went wrong ( Long story). We parted ways amicably and I decided to stop visiting the CBD store he works in and area he lives because that's were we met and had our fun over the summer. I have been going to university events, talking to guys at the university law postgradute school but still I can't click with anyone the way I clicked with him and guys at university don't click with me either. Evenings have been hard because I missed all our evening conversations we had with him.
I have been off university for this week due to university half term break and these feelings intensified even more yesterday Tuesday I left my house and decided to the CBD shop to see him. He looked so happy to see me and I thanked him because meeting him helped me get over the 55 year old man I was in love with and back to my old self which is true.
I did a stupid thing. I took a random picture of him, he saw and I denied it. I ended it up deleting the picture as I regretted taking it. He messages me later that evening asking why I took it. I just said it was a random thing i wasn't thinking properly and told him I deleted it because I regretted taking it.
We spoke about why things went wrong. The man said my religious beliefs where the reason I am not compatible with him. He is Anti Thiest whereas I am practicing Catholic but I am very respectful of people's beliefs. The man told me he finds me attractive and doesn't want me to "feel bad". I asked him does he feel bad for rejecting me he answered
" feel a bit bad because I don't want you to think I rejected you ." I told him he did reject me because I wanted to take things further but he didn't want too. I learnt the man insecure all the times I told him I found him attractive he didn't believe me because he doesn't see himself as attractive.
I then fucked up telling him the truth the next day. I said I took tne random photo for 2 reasons. My grandmother always wondered what he looked like and couldn't understand why I am struggling to get over him and part of me is afraid of forgetting him so when I was in the shop I just took picture really without thinking,
I told him what my grandmother thinks of him. My grandmother thinks "he needs to shave and doesn't wash himself " and can't understand why I am upset over a man who "sells CBD, doesn't like people going to church and doesn't shave"
He loses his temper with me and accuses me of "insulting his appearance" and "trying to score brownie points". I told him I love his appearance my family don't and I defended him to my family. He just lost his temperature even I told him I just showec my grandmother in person the picture and deleted it minutes later.
He now fucking hates me. Had I stuck to my non contact rules none of this would have happened. I know i have fucked up major time, its all my fault and I am stupid
I have really fucked up I just can't stop crying. I hate having anxiety I feel like it's the end of world . I am the worst person ever.
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