StruggleWithin
Gnothi Seauton
- Aug 8, 2022
- 40
1-what's your sexual orientation?
-Pansexual/Questioning and going through a period in my life where I feel asexual and aromantic most of the time.
2-do you care about physical appearance when it comes to an intimate partner?
-A level of physical attraction needs to be there in the beginning; along with good hygiene but other than that, not really.
3-are you okay with open relationship concept?
-when the relationship is in its infancy, pre-defined, seeing (multiple) someone(s) else is okay; but post-defined, no I would not enter a non-monogamous relationship.
4-Would you forgive your partner for an affair?
-I did, but she still divorced me. I never thought I could forgive that but I surprised myself when she told me that she "f***'d two guys in the first month we decided to separate emotionally but still be together. Full disclosure, I was infatuated with someone else for awhile but eventually I got past it, an emotional affair, not physical. My ex was unable to forgive me.
5-do you accept incest as a personal freedom?
-my therapist said that children experiment with "exploration" with whoever is their age around them and that it's natural and an expected part of development. So if it's incest, I was guilty of it into my mid-teenage years. Explorations but not sexual intercourse fyi. Now as adults, I feel that it should be a freedom, as a personal choice, to be with the one you love.
6-Would you sleep with your friends out of curiosity and fun?
-I have and I would do it again if the opportunity presented itself.
-Pansexual/Questioning and going through a period in my life where I feel asexual and aromantic most of the time.
2-do you care about physical appearance when it comes to an intimate partner?
-A level of physical attraction needs to be there in the beginning; along with good hygiene but other than that, not really.
3-are you okay with open relationship concept?
-when the relationship is in its infancy, pre-defined, seeing (multiple) someone(s) else is okay; but post-defined, no I would not enter a non-monogamous relationship.
4-Would you forgive your partner for an affair?
-I did, but she still divorced me. I never thought I could forgive that but I surprised myself when she told me that she "f***'d two guys in the first month we decided to separate emotionally but still be together. Full disclosure, I was infatuated with someone else for awhile but eventually I got past it, an emotional affair, not physical. My ex was unable to forgive me.
5-do you accept incest as a personal freedom?
-my therapist said that children experiment with "exploration" with whoever is their age around them and that it's natural and an expected part of development. So if it's incest, I was guilty of it into my mid-teenage years. Explorations but not sexual intercourse fyi. Now as adults, I feel that it should be a freedom, as a personal choice, to be with the one you love.
6-Would you sleep with your friends out of curiosity and fun?
-I have and I would do it again if the opportunity presented itself.