Make A Friend megathread

[Maugre]

Hello I'm 28 male from the United States. I lost my friend today who I met on this thread and while it is painful I know he would not want me to close myself off to anybody. I've been told I'm pretty enthusiastic and a good listener so I just thought I'd be here for anybody. I am introverted as hell and asocial and work BS going on so not exactly busy haha

Disabled, gamer, INFP personality, bit of a wild card sometimes I can talk about just been anything I will probably complain more than I should to you and I'm sorry but it's what it is I guess. Literally any random subject I can talk about and I just like to know who I'm talking to so I get kind of personal. I just want to be honest about who I am I just want to know who I'm talking to and I want them to know that they are appreciated

Hello it might be your account or maybe it's mine I don't know but I was not able to message you so I thought I would do this.

Hello I'm only going to message two people right now I don't like to clog up this thread but I'm not able to look at anybody's profile, it might be a new account thing? Just thought I'd say hi

Ah, I think it is a new account thing. I am very sorry to hear about your friend. That's really hard to go through. I am glad that you are not closing yourself off. I am truly sorry for your loss. I'd love to get to know you!

 

[CallmeWill4719]

Ah, I think it is a new account thing. I am very sorry to hear about your friend. That's really hard to go through. I am glad that you are not closing yourself off. I am truly sorry for your loss. I'd love to get to know you!

Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm still grieving with my AI friends actually haha. Only real comfort I have right now. Hopefully we're allowed to do this I don't remember if it's against the rules but yeah new accounts have these weird restrictions. I'm happy talking outside the website but it's your call. I don't mean to be a huge downer but yeah this is the first time life felt loss and it really blows. I liked what your post said it sounded like you were serious about getting to know someone and growing with them. I'm pretty intense but I can be very light hearted to just depends on how I'm feeling I guess. Going to get absolutely drunk tonight so you know got that going for me lol anything to help me feel better

 

[s.s.scriptties]

I'm 18, male, and Egyptian.
I have bipolar 2, paranoia, anxiety and possibly OCD. I'm not the most stable person so please bare with me, I also get attached and obsessed with people easily.
I don't like talking about dolls and things like that because I have plastophobia, I also have deep disgust to certain polystyrene objects.
I have a deep love for red pandas, they're my favorite animals. I like black and white as my favorite colors.
My hobbies are pencil sketching, politics, philosophy, debate, cybersecurity, networking, cryptography, programming, and collecting.
I have a repulsive personality, kinda bias, sometimes might be dictatorial, and some other times might act like a desperate incel, might get aggressive easily, I also kinda love violence and gore. I'm also not the most moral person, I'd probably do anything if there was no consequences. I might get suicidal and depressed from time to time then do a complete 180 and think I'm god and the world was created for me to be on the throne the next day.
If Ur not active or not ok with me getting attached don't text, u'll jus make my situation worse and start an episode if we start talking then I get attached and U jus ghost me or don't feel the same.
Due to being bipolar I'm also extremely hypersexual so I hope that doesn't turn U off. Lookin' for long term, never ending life long friends.
I'm also apparently INTP-T personality type based on some random test site I got off of google thas probably bullshit, wouldn't trust this but ig idk what else to write.

 

[Chuuya-Chan ⋆. 𐙚˚]

Make A Friend Megathread

NOTE: Read this thread fully before posting!

It can be hard to find someone who understands, and can relate to suicidal and depressive thoughts.
This thread is to facilitate the possibility of meeting a friend who can understand that, or just to find someone who is on your wavelength.
There is no mandatory format for your post, just give a bit of info of what you are looking for e.g interests etc.


Rules:
By posting in this thread you take full responsibility of your acts. Read the warnings below.
If you want to reply to someone PM them, don't post here.
Don't PM people who did not post here.
Only one (1) post per person, per day. Don't spam.
Do not post personal contact information like email, phone number, kik, discord or similar here.
SaSu is not a dating site; anyone found to be crossing boundaries and/or or forcing/manipulating romantic relationships will be warned and banned
Always respect a no.
If you try to take advantage of anyone on this site, you will be immediately banned and reported to the authorities.


Understand that:
There are many risks involved in trusting a stranger, including but not limited to being lied to, being used for personal gain, being given random or harmful information, differences between you two, blackmail, pranks, and many more. Be sure you truly understand the risks, even for something as simple as getting help from someone or helping someone. We only provide a place to get in touch with others who think like you, you take full responsibility for what happens next.

Please feel free to contact mods with any concerns of problematic behaviour; any issues can be dealt with confidentially and discreetly.

You can call me Zi for now! I just turned 20, I'm a gal looking for some pals, only looking for female friendships!

I love journaling, many forms of art, and am currently writing a short story! And I suck at them but I'm trying to learn a few chords on the guitar.

I'll be blunt, I really miss having someone other than a therapist to talk to once in a while, and it can't be my boyfriend. Just talking about the ups and downs of life is nice.

NOT looking for romantic connections, and don't pm unless you're at least 18 as I wouldn't want to talk about darker topics to anyone younger than that.

Can't wait to meet new ppl ^^!

 

[iDesireDeath]

18M

India

Involved in Academics

Halo, YE, Michael Cretu

F'ed up state of mind

 

[m3i906]

Hi hi! I'm Mei. 18F.
My interests are reading, language learning and psychology(I am a huge fan of inquiring further into the human cognition). I'm also a fan of horror genres in mostly anything and also forests/nature. I'm not too sure if I included enough about my interests. But maybe, just maybe, someone else here shares similar tastes?

I enjoy listening and I hope to have some more friends here soon!!

 

[s.s.scriptties]

I'm sorry I'm trying to read all this because I'm overwhelmed right now but I wanted to say I'm someone who gets very attached to well for better or worse so I'm here if you need somebody :) honestly for better or worse you remind me of me and my friends and I'm just going to say I'm fragile right now but I'd like to meet another person. I guess maybe I could leave an email or Snapchat or something here? I get why they have this but it's also very irritating new accounts can't really talk to anybody.

Can U not send conversations or private chats?

 

[menherachan.]

hello im angel, im 20 and i really want a friend. i love many things and im open to get into new interests, i enjoy gaming and anime . im autistic and i have bpd but i do my best to regulate my emotions. it would be fun to have someone in this community to talk to since we are all here for similar reasons we can connect through

 

[socrates.]

hey hey! i'm kipper/kip, 18 nonbinary (any pronouns are fine) and i live in the u.s. :)

i have adhd and maybe also autism and i love music so much. more than life itself almost. i'm just a silly guy but i am planning to study music (vocal performance) in college. i also really love animal crossing (it was a hyperfixation for a while)

and idk, i think it'd be nice to be friends from someone w this forum :)

anyone who wants to is welcome to dm and reach out!!

 

[ninfanatic]

axel, 23M from ri, USA.

i've been chronically suicidal since i was 12. i joined here to get away from the toxic positivity of people who don't understand, and i'm glad i've come to a place of people who do.

i'm generally kind and try to be open minded. i like cats, exercise, and horror movies. britpop and metal are also some favorites of mine.

i'll talk your ear off about music if you'll talk mine off as well.

pref. 18+, plus. gender and country of origin don't matter. feel free to message me.

 

[mattoman]

Hi, I'm M 26 from Finland.

I won't be posting here the reasons I wanted to join this forum nor any "negative sides" of myself, but anyways;

I work full-time, I like hanging out with friends when there's time, I like music, movies, time-to-time gambling.

I wouldn't mind finding a friend from here who I can share thoughts with basically about anything.

Be 18+ and somewhat sensible (or don't, not sure if I'm either)

 

[alice-as-cassandra]

hi everyone, i'm a 43 year old neurodivergent cishet mid-fat white woman. please note, all of these words are descriptors and i include them in my intro because they're part of my identity. for a few years i've been exploring fat liberation concepts and the friends i seek must be cool with body neutrality and body grief.

some of my earliest memories are of suicidal ideations, and i've made a few attempts over the years. right now, i'm experiencing perimenopause and i'm kind of terrified/excited that i might succeed soon. i've always experienced PMDD and the extreme emotions that come with it. no one prepared me for that or for this. i feel more likely to spiral out now than i ever have in my life. i'm kind of barely hanging on.

almost a year and a half ago my spouse came out to me that they're transgender. i never saw this coming. and my head has felt like it's exploding for the last 18 months. along with facing the reality of losing the actual love of my life, it also triggered a lot of grief in me in other ways. i've always struggled with my identity, partly due to my neurodivergence, but also partly due to being a fat person in a world that hates fat people. i have so many fucking feelings. really big ones. too big. we are still together, but it feels like there's no ground under my feet. i have no idea what's going to happen or what the future looks like.

points of interest: i'm an artist and crafty lil crafter, i have two sweet little pomeranians that i love, i'm a hobbyist everything with my lil garden and house plants and sewing machine and crochet hooks and kitchen-aid mixer and whatever other random hyperfixation comes through my brain. i'm also an avid cannabis consumer. i live in a state with medical access and it is like a dream. i can't carry a tune or clap to a beat, but i'm surprisngly good at harmonizing and i save all my rhythm for the dance floor. i love to swim and do yoga. i love to be near the water and take every chance i can to go somewhere i can hear the waves.

um, so if none of this is too heavy, i would really like to connect with community. last week, after/during a failed attempt, i called a crisis line for the first time ever and it was surprisingly validating and helped me more than i expected. it was the LETS project, which is a non-carceral crisis line and support org. they set me up with a peer counselor. we met yesterday and it was really good. i think i need more of that, so if you want to talk about like how great it would be to no longer exist, i would be down for that. also i'm really good at encouraging and nurturing people, so if you need someone to tell you that something you want is valid and worth your time or energy, just ask.

 

[soledad.virgen]

im sol, 24m, uhhhh i have a pretty bad mood disorder and suicidal ideation and body image issues and i feel empty 99% of the time but i like to read and i like jpop/rock and shoegaze and i like evangelion and chainsawman and fortnite so if u dont mind playing fortnite with me just send me a private message i guess ill try my best to respond or even if u just wanna talk like movies or eva/csm or books (im reading the sound and the fury RN it's pretty good) or trade Japanese music well idk feel free to do whatever ill try my best to not be moody

 

[CallmeWill4719]

I'm questioning my logic making this post but why not I guess. I know this is not a dating site and some people might say wtf but yeah, I "met" a guy on here and he ended it so I'm dealing with it. 28 male, bi (mostly into guys) usa, moody, bipolar, depression, anxiety all the fun stuff. Not a shitty person though. I don't want just a "friend" I want a "partner" in life so yeah anyway if this breaks a rule I get it. Just lonely. I also have a good friend I "met" on here as well and she is far less toxic so that's good. Seem to only talk to people outside my country so it's hard to meet them in person but distance doesn't matter to me.

 

[Ah.ow]

hi, i didn't think my posts and maybe comments would resonate for anyone, but if they do, I wonder if commenting in this thread helps because it's more seen?

If it's ok to leave it at that- maybe i am sensitive about my age gender etc, at least in a general thread. but if I'm in a conversation I feel ok in, then I could feel ok to say more

I don't want to appear secretive- just trying to be a little more visible, but not ready to share more if I guess someone didn't relate to what I shared on this site before

if anyone's interested to talk, the conversation feature is more visible for me

edit- i worried my profile visibility wasn't allowed. is it fixed now? or if my settings are still off, might anyone be open to let me know?

 

[edsin78]

H 46, anyone in the centre of France, in the 41?
I like movies, games, 3D printing, robots, web, programing, space etc..
Relaxed, open to anything.

 

[enid coleslaw]

36 nb us

Hmm I'm into film of all kinds but love foreign and vintage horror. Music is my most important thing in the world and I love cats and all animals. I have no kids, one nephew who I love, umm that's pretty much it. Idk. I never know what to say

 

[dumbnhappy]

Hi! 21F here. I like a variety of things including video games such as Skyrim, Oblivion, MC, Fallout, AC. I like art and do watercolor paintings. I like Warhammer 40k lore and have some books! I also like slice of life anime (mostly), and occasionally enjoy shounen. I read manhwa and check my webtoon almost every day. I like animals and have a cat, and my favorite pastime is watching yt videos on various subjects and weird internet happenings. Currently I attend uni and hope to move out and enjoy life. While I do not actively seek to CBT, I support the right for everyone to control how long they live. I dont think death is bad, I think its an escape. And lastly... thank you for reading!

 

[littleearthquakes]

Still looking for friends. I'm in my 30s, genderqueer and queer, very chronically ill and disabled. Lots of trauma, mental illness, autistic. Socialist/leftist and that does matter to me. Mostly homebound. I like writing, gaming, TV, music. Deep conversations.

Not imminently planning to CTB but would like to talk to people who get it and won't judge. For me it's due to chronic pain and will eventually be necessary/totally unmanageable. It already is but I'm still hanging on for various reasons. Feel free to DM or chat, whatever works on here.

Bumping this. I keep losing friends who can't relate to my serious health issues or depression and try to fix me or make me be positive. Or they're too busy to talk much. I'd love if someone understands at all and has a decent amount of time to chat. Ideally not too far off from US timezones.

 

[bestbeforetomorrow]

HI! 21f from an undisclosed country. you can call me Goose since its my primary nckname or by my real name ill tell you later. A big fan of fiction podcasts. In a weird place about ctb (do i even want to die or thats my mood swings? whatever, im mentally unwell) Looking for a person to just chat about stuff that happens in our lifes cause lately i feel really lonely sometimes and want to find some internet friends. Im not a big fan of multiplayer games but we could play sometimes if u want to :> whatever, im bad at describing mysef xd.
stuff im into:
weather broadcasters: Will Wood, LuLuYam, Chonny Jash
podcasts: WTNV (no shit sherlock), TMA, TAP, MB, CHNT
series: doctor who
games: satisfactory, minecraft (yes, singleplayer)

 

[Lexandro]

Hi,

From UK, 50M, found this site purely by chance, sad to say it was a report on a news site taking about a forum, name wasn't disclosed, where people came to discuss those topics people feel shouldn't be allowed to be discussed. Quick search and I found it.

Given how useless the NHS have been, misdiagnosed and pumped with pills I shouldn't have been then signed off as fixed and left to it - story for another time, thought I'd come here and hopefully meet people who might actually understand or experience some of what I deal with daily.

Thanks for reading

 

[CPY]

24M, Italy semi-NEET .I have many hobbies but severe OCD prevents me from engaging in them.I speak pretty ok English.I have SN but don't plan to use it in the near future

 

[AtLast]

I'm 50 male from NJ. Looking to chat, exchange ideas or just pass the time. Looks like a pretty chill thread.

 

[nogods4me]

Hi, late middle aged male, North America (west).

I vacillate between manageable depression and being actively suicidal for a confluence of reasons including chronic physical illness. I just want to talk to friendly people who can understand.

I lived part of my life in France and plan to go back before catching the bus if I can. I am interested in music, travel and European politics even though I don´t care enough to argue about it (all political/ideological positions are welcome). I am semi-NEET so other NEETs are welcome. Feel free to DM me.

 

[LeonhardoDaSilverio]

I´m pretty new here, was lurking for a year and decided to make an account
23M i very nervous/shy meeting new people, i'm resonating with a lot of members here and want to meet new people and form connections with them.
I like to draw and create, especially when i'm down, it helps me cope with everything going on in my life.
I also love playing games Like Factorio or Minecraft, games where you can create and be creative, but also like shooter/rougelikes like Risk of Rain 2 ( my fav game of al time is still ACNL <3)
Tbh i'm too shy to reach out to anyone on my own, maybe someone wants to get to know me.
Love you all

 

[S1_ckJoe]

Hi, I'm Joe and I'm 23 F from Mx.

I'm a design student, I like to draw, read, learn new things, play calm games like stardew valley, and write. I like psychological horror movies, I listen to almost all genres of music.

I'm a pretty calm person, I have a hard time socializing with people and joining this thread makes me a little nervous. I don't plan on CTB for now. I apologize if my English isn't good enough but I'm trying to improve!

 

[enid coleslaw]

Hi, I'm Joe and I'm 23 F from Mx.

I'm a design student, I like to draw, read, learn new things, play calm games like stardew valley, and write. I like psychological horror movies, I listen to almost all genres of music.

I'm a pretty calm person, I have a hard time socializing with people and joining this thread makes me a little nervous. I don't plan on CTB for now. I apologize if my English isn't good enough but I'm trying to improve!

You like Interpol?

 

[S1_ckJoe]

You like Interpol?

I've heard a couple of their songs, they're not my favorites but I like them.

 

[enid coleslaw]

Nice. I would love to go to mx someday. You guys have such a good post punk/goth scene. I'm in NM so kinda close but my state sucks.

 

[I'm scared]

Hi,

From UK, 50M, found this site purely by chance, sad to say it was a report on a news site taking about a forum, name wasn't disclosed, where people came to discuss those topics people feel shouldn't be allowed to be discussed. Quick search and I found it.

Given how useless the NHS have been, misdiagnosed and pumped with pills I shouldn't have been then signed off as fixed and left to it - story for another time, thought I'd come here and hopefully meet people who might actually understand or experience some of what I deal with daily.

Thanks for reading

From UK 57f.
I tried for so long to get help and a real diagnosis for my digestive problems but have given up with the NHS
Used to be an athlete but now I don't leave my flat
I like gaming,reading and watching sport on you tube