NSFW To people who've been SAed, did anyone believe you when you told them?

[CHOSEVIOLENCE]

I guess no one really believed me.

My older sister (she's ten years older than me) repeatedly SAed me when I was a kid 8-11 year old. She would wait for our caretaker to leave and then she'd SA me.

The first person I told was my mom and she told me "Not to make a fuss," so I just dropped it with her. When I told my friends (without saying it was my sister), they said I was lucky and they wish I was in my place, so I figured that I must've just upset for no reason. The last person I told was the social worker when they asked me who introduced me to porn cause I got caught watching it, and I told them the situation with my sister and then she grilled me on it, "Why didn't you say this sooner?" "Do you know how serious of an accusation that is?" And things like that which made me feel really bad, so I backtracked and said I was just lying. That experience scared me so much that I didn't tell anyone about my SA, not even when the court ordered that I had therapy because I was "clearly mentally disturbed."

 

[AmericanMary]

People believed me. But they cared about the man's reputation more than my assault. Several times.

 

[RejectMetamorphosis]

I guess no one really believed me.

My older sister (she's ten years older than me) repeatedly SAed me when I was a kid 8-11 year old. She would wait for our caretaker to leave and then she'd SA me.

The first person I told was my mom and she told me "Not to make a fuss," so I just dropped it with her. When I told my friends (without saying it was my sister), they said I was lucky and they wish I was in my place, so I figured that I must've just upset for no reason. The last person I told was the social worker when they asked me who introduced me to porn cause I got caught watching it, and I told them the situation with my sister and then she grilled me on it, "Why didn't you say this sooner?" "Do you know how serious of an accusation that is?" And things like that which made me feel really bad, so I backtracked and said I was just lying. That experience scared me so much that I didn't tell anyone about my SA, not even when the court ordered that I had therapy because I was "clearly mentally disturbed.

I guess no one really believed me.

My older sister (she's ten years older than me) repeatedly SAed me when I was a kid 8-11 year old. She would wait for our caretaker to leave and then she'd SA me.

The first person I told was my mom and she told me "Not to make a fuss," so I just dropped it with her. When I told my friends (without saying it was my sister), they said I was lucky and they wish I was in my place, so I figured that I must've just upset for no reason. The last person I told was the social worker when they asked me who introduced me to porn cause I got caught watching it, and I told them the situation with my sister and then she grilled me on it, "Why didn't you say this sooner?" "Do you know how serious of an accusation that is?" And things like that which made me feel really bad, so I backtracked and said I was just lying. That experience scared me so much that I didn't tell anyone about my SA, not even when the court ordered that I had therapy because I was "clearly mentally disturbed."

Oh they believed me. They told me why I didn't do anything when it occurred and that kinda stuff "just happens" to people sometimes lmfaoo

 

[SleepingBliss]

They believed me but nothing came of it, it was when I was a child and he threatened to kill my entire family if I ever told anyone so it took me 7 years to tell anyone and by that point it was too late for them to do anything

 

[juxta errata]

I didnt tell anyone about it, ever. Thankfully, the next time I met him, he was there for 3 days only and didn't make a move. Some months later he died

 

[CatLvr]

People believed me. But they cared about the man's reputation more than my assault. Several times.

And this is why I never said a thing. I just made sure that as soon as I could I left that environment and never looked back.

 

[AmericanMary]

And this is why I never said a thing. I just made sure that as soon as I could I left that environment and never looked back.

Thats so valid.

I wish I never said anything ever. Once when I was underage a teacher asked me if I flirted with him.

Once in college I was told it's better not to ruin the reputation of Greek life over a mistake a boy made.

People suck bruh.

 

[CatLvr]

Thats so valid.

I wish I never said anything ever. Once when I was underage a teacher asked me if I flirted with him.

Once in college I was told it's better not to ruin the reputation of Greek life over a mistake a boy made.

People suck bruh.

Boy, don't they? Definitely not a fan of people. I've always thought that was such a WEIRD thing to say to a person. Lol Like you aren't "people" but I already know you get it. I much prefer online relationships. Much much safer that way. I often wonder what my life would have been like if I had had the internet when I was growing up. Probably would have still wound up here because of my relatives but maybe it would have saved me at least a little grief?? Who knows??

 

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[__dystop1a__]

They believed me but at the same time they told me that that's impossible because "women can't SA". I was a little girl, 5 years old.