Unpopular opinion thread

[Symbiote]

In a domestic abuse situation, a man has to record and have evidence to document abuse with his wife, and even then he'll be the one that is escorted to jail. Women can just rely on words alone and a man is already in cuffs before he can offer his side of the story. Men have to go through extra steps to be heard in a domestic abuse situation and still get jail time for shit they didn't cause. Men who are educated and treat women respectfully their entire lives being castigated upon society for the misgivings of past men who were abusive jackasses.

 

[Futile]

I miss the days when this site tried to keep their connection to incels under wraps. There now seems to be a direct line between incels.is and ss. It's changed the site for the worse. Thread after thread about being a virgin, hating women, blaming looks for every damn thing, complaining about parents, hateful and violent threads passed off as humor, and more immature, shallow bullshit around every turn.

Do you know who made this site?

And to answer the discussion in general: ugly men are people like everyone else, full stop.

 

[motel rooms]

MGTOW aren't the same as incels, MGTOW chooses not to get involved with women because of whatever moral values they have with women, most specifically with how US laws are in favor of females.

I worry for those men. When they run out of money for hookers, they might end up getting used by someone like me

 

[Meditation guide]

I have been told to block anyone who I want to in chat. One problem: you cannot block people in chat. In the message section you can, but not in the ongoing live chat.

I hope mods realize that. Telling people to block a bully in chat is not going to work. Unless it's just me it happens to. Even if I block someone, I can still see what they write in chat.

 

[BottomlessPit]

Anyone notice how few actual members are active these days?

The more probable explanation for that is the fact that it is summer, and that corona lockdowns were lifted in many places.

Top posting stats also reflect a dramatic difference between old school members versus more recent members.

If you take a look at older threads from way back you will always see different users. This place is constantly changing every few months, it's always been like that.

due to the heavy incel bias.

You are the only one here equating sexlessness with misogynistic inceldom.

 

[SleepDealer]

My unpopular opinion is that everyone irl should completely ignore my presence unless I like them they're willing to cuddle. I can't think of anything else, I'm incapable of being serious and genuine right now.

 

[death137]

I miss the days when this site tried to keep their connection to incels under wraps. There now seems to be a direct line between incels.is and ss. It's changed the site for the worse. Thread after thread about being a virgin, hating women, blaming looks for every damn thing, complaining about parents, hateful and violent threads passed off as humor, and more immature, shallow bullshit around every turn.

Not all incels hate women. Looks is very important. It affects almost every area of your life. People are very shallow but I blame nature for this.

 

[MartyByrde]

Not all incels hate women. Looks is very important. It affects almost every area of your life. People are very shallow but I blame nature for this.

So men like Bezos, Buffet and Musk are physically ideal? The majority of exceptionally successful men are not ridiculously good looking. It's the incels, who hold immature notions like looks determine your life, that seem to be the problem. They create their own problems with their own rhetoric.

 

[Sans]

The US and Canada should pay reparations to their own people they fucked over, as well as the people of the nations they've started wars with for no reason.

Also, incels and those who are undesirable in other ways should be able to apply for some sort of welfare/other monetary compensation.

 

[death137]

So men like Bezos, Buffet and Musk are physically ideal? The majority of exceptionally successful men are not ridiculously good looking. It's the incels, who hold immature notions like looks determine your life, that seem to be the problem. They create their own problems with their own rhetoric.

There are exceptions but most ugly ppl greatly struggle in life because of their looks. Even successful ugly ppl struggle because of their looks but it's just that their struggle from it is relatively less than the majority ugly ppl.

Looks isn't 100% everything but it's still a very important factor in determining your life especially when it comes to love. There are exceptions but you need to see it in general.

 

[MartyByrde]

There are exceptions but most ugly ppl greatly struggle in life because of their looks. Even successful ugly ppl struggle because of their looks but it's just that their struggle from it is relatively less than the majority ugly ppl.

Looks isn't 100% everything but it's still a very important factor in determining your life especially when it comes to love. There are exceptions but you need to see it in general.

That's saying most people are highly attractive and that's simply not the case. Life is a struggle for everyone! It sucks, it's unfair, horrible shit happens, and it happens to everyone.

 

[death137]

That's saying most people are highly attractive and that's simply not the case. Life is a struggle for everyone! It sucks, it's unfair, horrible shit happens, and it happens to everyone.

Nothing I said suggest what you said in your first statement. But yeah life is a struggle for everyone but let's not dismiss or diminish the pain ppl go through because of their looks. Some ppl are going to die alone because of their looks. They are going to be seen as inferior by friends (that's if they even have) and society in general. But you know it's pointless to argue with some ppl about this because they either don't understand because they aren't in our situation or they know the truth but just don't care.

 

[Makko]

Also, incels and those who are undesirable in other ways should be able to apply for some sort of welfare/other monetary compensation.

I demand heavy reparations for not having the amazing love life everyone thinks I have. My parents worked hard to give me all these genes but I don't get the promised benefits, while everyone acts like I do. This is a breach of contract, a violation of my rights and downright fraudulent conduct. I require immediate satisfaction or I shall take uncompromising measures.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Autism or anything that makes you not have a social life is the true cause of inceldom.

 

[motel rooms]

Women are uglier than men.

 

[Makko]

Women are uglier than men.

Haven't you heard? Beauty is on the inside

 

[motel rooms]

Haven't you heard? Beauty is on the inside

Beauty is on the inside of the backside

 

[Mr2005]

I don't like antinatalists

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Women are uglier than men.

Without the fake-up, I have to agree with this. Still not gay tho.

 

[motel rooms]

Still not gay tho.

 

[Makko]

Without the fake-up, I have to agree with this. Still not gay tho.

This ought to be a bigger relationship obstacle than any kind of autism.

 

[motel rooms]

This ought to be a bigger relationship obstacle than any kind of autism.

You might be on to something. After all, world-class experts say that people with high-functioning/mild autism are "lovely and unstoppable when they make an effort". How could a guy like @GenesAndEnvironment , who has trouble initiating & maintaining social interactions, not sweep some sexy thing off their feet if he memorizes this -


1 is a really bad idea, but 6 & 7 are incredibly consoling!


Here's how I'm gonna change my life -



I'm definitely gonna join a choir. I just know that all the guys in it are gonna be super str8, so I'm not gonna be able to fuck 'em. I'm gonna have to drastically change what I usually write about, draw & sculpt... Suggesting that a man addicted to wood take up woodworking is beyond inhumane, but going parachuting is an awesome idea - I've always loved that method!

 

[Makko]

You might be on to something.

Speaking from my own experience. If you're not even attracted to people, being good at relationship management doesn't help. You're going to daydream about imaginary partners that you actually are attracted to while being totally unmotivated to make or accept any moves with the real-life hobgoblins that surround you. Getting together with the hobgoblins won't fulfill your needs, just like eating rocks off the ground won't help if you're starving.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Love it when my cyber-rapists discuss how I'll never get a gf.

You might be on to something. After all, world-class experts say that people with high-functioning/mild autism are "lovely and unstoppable when they make an effort". How could a guy like @GenesAndEnvironment , who has trouble initiating & maintaining social interactions, not sweep some sexy thing off their feet if he memorizes this -

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Me after five consecutive years of not smiling once, getting ready to woo the wamens:

 

[clown_17]

Kayaking isn't fun. Any water sports are a lot of hassle and the lakes and beaches are always crowded

 

[motel rooms]

Me after five consecutive years of not smiling once, getting ready to woo the wamens:

Me fighting my sex addiction at choir practice:

 

[Alwaysbadtime]

So men like Bezos, Buffet and Musk are physically ideal? The majority of exceptionally successful men are not ridiculously good looking. It's the incels, who hold immature notions like looks determine your life, that seem to be the problem. They create their own problems with their own rhetoric.

You really use the word incel a lot. I admit I am not the hippest person but 'incel' seems pretty new and I see it as a huge put down...for folks who are hugely isolated. I can sorta relate to what you are saying however I think the term has become a put down...for unfortunate dudes...and I really don't see a lot of 'incels' posting/commenting their 'incel' rants on SS.

Qanon, antifa...this is shit that is really dark...at least in my opinion. Occassionally I want to call a dickhead on Reddit an 'incel'....it's like the worst put down currently. Just gross. It's a horrible term.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

The best porn is audio-only.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

I miss the days when this site tried to keep their connection to incels under wraps. There now seems to be a direct line between incels.is and ss. It's changed the site for the worse. Thread after thread about being a virgin, hating women, blaming looks for every damn thing, complaining about parents, hateful and violent threads passed off as humor, and more immature, shallow bullshit around every turn.

If a person is unhappy about being a virgin, or is unsatisfied with their physical appearance that does not make them an incel. Their thoughts could be due to past abuse, low self-esteem or a number of other problems besides taking on a hateful ideology. I understand the point that you have made; though I also think we must be careful not to throw around this word, because it is starting to lose its meaning.

 

[Makko]

The best porn is audio-only.

Vaporwave counts as porn.