Vent/life update

[Someplace_nice]

I am optimistic, I might pry to my goddess and I'll have to make another offering, that's not hard tho and I love making offering to her. I hope we get the loan we close on Friday and if we don't get the loan than idk what we're gonna do. I have also drank some coffee so my tummy hurts and I can't sleep bc of it, I'm just in constant thoughts rn. I was finally able to enable notifications so hopefully now I can get notified when people interact with my postes. I can't wait to move into an actual house and have free roam of things, sadly that means that we'll need to keep up with more bills and we won't be able to spend money willy nilly. I estimated us spending $85 if not a little more for groceries, where I live its a bit cheaper and we go to Dollar tree for most things, like my hubby found his favorite shaving cream there and we found these smoothie pouches that are 2 servings and really good for you. I found snakes that I can have there and won't spike my blood sugar, (I'm insulin resistant), it's nice having little things like that, it makes me feel normal, especially when my family says that I can't have candy bc I'm, "diabetic" when I'm not. Even then diabetics can have candy they just can't have a lot. My mom keeps telling me that she can help us shop cheaper but she can't even stay on her own budget, we have an actual book for our budget unlike her, not to mention that we don't use other people's money to buy things like she does. She went into early retirement when everything skyrocketed in price and when she started remodeling her house, she ran out in of money to pay people and her "friend" fucked her over with their business bc the friend is running it and she sits on her ass doing nothing excepting money to just roll in. I have taken enough of peoples time with this vent/life update, thank you for coming to my Ted talk.

 

[EmptyBottle]

oh. For the coffee, if drinking it towards the evening, consider decaf. (also, eating before sleep has sometimes kept me awake a bit, having some time between eating and sleeping helps)

I've enabled notifications on laptop, they indeed are useful.

Mmm, I also avoid shopping with other spenders (it takes up time too, not just money).

Don't worry, you haven't wasted time, I literally use the forum to spend time, vs watch some meh YT video (yes, there are interesting ones, but the meh ones are unfortunately mixed in)

 

[Someplace_nice]

oh. For the coffee, if drinking it towards the evening, consider decaf. (also, eating before sleep has sometimes kept me awake a bit, having some time between eating and sleeping helps)

I've enabled notifications on laptop, they indeed are useful.

Mmm, I also avoid shopping with other spenders (it takes up time too, not just money).

Don't worry, you haven't wasted time, I literally use the forum to spend time, vs watch some meh YT video (yes, there are interesting ones, but the meh ones are unfortunately mixed in)

I need the coffee for the natural laxative part and I have two sleeps, one at night and one in the morning after my hubby goes to work, that's the one I was having trouble with so it's not like it's the end of the world. And thank you for sharing this advice! It makes me happy someone is willing to take time for me!

 

[EmptyBottle]

I need the coffee for the natural laxative part and I have two sleeps, one at night and one in the morning after my hubby goes to work, that's the one I was having trouble with so it's not like it's the end of the world. And thank you for sharing this advice! It makes me happy someone is willing to take time for me!

No worries, and if u feel u need coffee, go for it, maybe drink it a bit earlier if practical.