Story Warning. Don’t get fooled here

[Sherri]

So one day, out of the blue someone said, thank you for your kind words, started like that. After many pages of PM I decided to give him my mobile phone. All was well , we would talk for hours. Expect when I was at work. I trusted him with my deepest secrets and past, and we used to spend an average of 5 hours a day On WhatsApp. This is a very short version , cause I don't wanna bother anyone with long vents, today we were talking normally, after the blue, oh you know what I'm gonna disappear for a while , need to work on myself, all good by me, but I said don't you want a friend while you do that. Apparently not. He seduced me to a point I send him pictures of myself. I have one of him. we just had the deepest convo and sorry we can't be friends for a while. I'm not the clingy type, but I like fairness. So i can't name him, wish I could. Girls and Bous be careful if someone PMs you with sweet words and things like that, and boys too, he swings both ways. I'm just trying to protect you from falling into the same trap I found myself. He finds pleasure in chatting up girls , send them poems and hearts and all those sappy things. I've had a boyfriend for a year and a half, I cheated on him and it's the only thing he knows about me. But you all know me. I'm caring , gentle and like all of you my fellow SS. Just don't get fooled like me. Even when I said I was gonna block him he thought it was a funny thing and he was having a blast like are you gonna block me to unblock me like last night Don't you have a heart I said. Even told me he loved me ,like you can see above. Which I found awkward. Don't use a heart as a emoji if you dint know what is love. He's just a lonely boy having a blast On hurting girls and possible boys, wish I could write much more but it would be against forum rules. Girls and boys be careful. Love you all, Sherri. J, karma will get you, and I wish I was there to clap in the first row after what you did to me.
Lies and lies. All to deceive someone who's going through a hard time. You have cause me enough pain. I'll move on and stay strong, I always do.

 

[cambrai33]

I really don't know you @Sherri but I do enjoy reading what you post and I find you very emphatic towards others. Sorry this has happened but I hope it doesn't change you too much and it can't have been easy putting yourself out there like this

Thoughts

 

[Sherri]

I really don't know you @Sherri but I do enjoy reading what you post and I find you very emphatic towards others. Sorry this has happened but I hope it doesn't change you too much and it can't have been easy putting yourself out there like this

Thoughts

Thank you sweetie, one day my big heart will be the end of me. A big hug hun.

 

[Worndown]

There are terrible people in this world. A few of them find this site. Block him and be a little more cautious in the future. The strength of this site is the ability to share. Don't let him ruin that for you.

 

[Sherri]

I blocked him everywhere but on my iPad the messages were coming till he stop. Thank you sweetie. One of this days I won't trust anyone, and I'm known to always have a caring word for everyone.

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I'm so, so, sorry this happened to you, from the beginning to the end. Love is important to all of us, some of us have more of it in our lives, some of us have less of it. Everybody does better and feels better with more love. Reading between the lines, you are correct. When you say they don't know what love is, it means, that if someone loves another, they will never abandon. Never cut off contact exactly like that. If people love each other, they support each other. What they did would be extremely painful to anyone. It's even worse when it's between members here, people that are feeling at their lowest.

He should never have done any of that too, make you fall for him, when he knew himself that he was not commited and really, that it was just a predatory game. To make you fall, and then to hurt you in the worst ways possible, gaslight you. What you asked was really reasonable, why couldn't you still be friends? Everyone needs to be careful here, I was worried about you when you posted in the partners megathread a while back. I'm sorry I didn't inquire more at the time, I tend to pick up on the signals for others and not act on them because of my own CPTSD symptoms. I apologise about that, for never asking if you were ok back then. You might not have been able to talk about it, men like these have a way of making it so that you feel unable to talk, that everything is fine, before they bring everything crashing down on you. People like that shouldn't be allowed on the site, I think it's one of the worst abuses of trust there can be.

I'm glad that you maintain the bravery to post this and the inner strength to see some of your own value. That you are gentle, caring, like the rest of us suffering here. I feel that strongly. You are a caring person and you don't deserve to be treated like this, nobody here does. You're actually trying so hard to live, and it's an understatement to say that something like can happen, from another member here, and bring you down. You're in a battle everyday like all of us, everyday feels stretched out to us. The future seems uncertain. I'm sorry you went through this. It's heart-breaking to read, knowing this could happen to anyone, another person here, boy or girl. I don't want to use triggering words, but being used and abandoned by someone who tried their hardest to make you fall for them, just for their own benefit, and not caring about what it would do to you. We care about you though.

 

[Sherri]

I'm so, so, sorry this happened to you, from the beginning to the end. Love is important to all of us, some of us have more of it in our lives, some of us have less of it. Everybody does better and feels better with more love. Reading between the lines, you are correct. When you say they don't know what love is, it means, that if someone loves another, they will never abandon. Never cut off contact exactly like that. If people love each other, they support each other. What they did would be extremely painful to anyone. It's even worse when it's between members here, people that are feeling at their lowest.

He should never have done any of that too, make you fall for him, when he knew himself that he was not commited and really, that it was just a predatory game. To make you fall, and then to hurt you in the worst ways possible, gaslight you. What you asked was really reasonable, why couldn't you still be friends? Everyone needs to be careful here, I was worried about you when you posted in the partners megathread a while back. I'm sorry I didn't inquire more at the time, I tend to pick up on the signals for others and not act on them because of my own CPTSD symptoms. I apologise about that, for never asking if you were ok back then. You might not have been able to talk about it, men like these have a way of making it so that you feel unable to talk, that everything is fine, before they bring everything crashing down on you. People like that shouldn't be allowed on the site, I think it's one of the worst abuses of trust there can be.

I'm glad that you maintain the bravery to post this and the inner strength to see some of your own value. That you are gentle, caring, like the rest of us suffering here. I feel that strongly. You are a caring person and you don't deserve to be treated like this, nobody here does. You're actually trying so hard to live, and it's an understatement to say that something like can happen, from another member here, and bring you down. You're in a battle everyday like all of us, everyday feels stretched out to us. The future seems uncertain. I'm sorry you went through this. It's heart-breaking to read, knowing this could happen to anyone, another person here, boy or girl. I don't want to use triggering words, but being used and abandoned by someone who tried their hardest to make you fall for them, just for their own benefit, and not caring about what it would do to you. We care about you though.

Thank you girl, your words healed me. A big hug and thanks for being there.

 

[Pen>Sword]

There's a special place in hell for people exploiting the vulnerable. Thanks for the tip. Every newcomer should read this and be aware of this predatory behavior.

 

[Sherri]

Thank you all for the support hearts to all.

 

[Snake of Eden]

We decided to lock this thread to prevent further escalation of this matter after discussion it with other mods as details of your interactions happened mostly outside of the website. Please refrain from making more threads about this private matter.