Venting what is it called when you're bad at everything

[TheAngelBornInHell]

not even exaggerated or atleast i wish it was.. im so bad at eeverything, even my own hobbies or favorite games. i literally cant do anything without feeling so upset and annoyed. it makes me feel so useless that i genuinely have no .. like.. use. at all??????its one of the factors that makes me feel suicidal. why does everything i learn or do at all makes me feel irritated in the slightest that it ruins my entire day. i have no use in this world, idk if ill even pass my years or do anything useful in my life. i want to just end it and get over with it. even though i have no use, the world is still better off without me somehow.

 

[Phhi49]

Keep in mind im very direct and not to bright or whatever. Generally what you're describing is called being clumsy i'm fairly sure. But one thing i do know for sure, is, you/we do not exist to serve this world or to be of use to it in anyway. You exist because of randomness and are supposed to please yourself with what you do. Some people are pretty, some are musically smart, some are logically smart so on so on. And even for those that are less in all then others.... Doesn't make those skills less valuable to ones own life i'd say. Use to the fullest what one has is my goto. Hmm gotta run and bash my head against a door for a couple times now again.

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

what is it called when you're bad at everything.....

Me

 

[OptingOutSmiling]

It's just unlucky. Some of us of have to work harder to be good at anything. Some people are very good at something naturally. Some can easily become good at just about anything. And then people like me struggle to get anything right. It's frustrating I know, but you are not useless. It may sound stupid, but there are a lot of people in this world. Like in a race, there will always be a winner and a loser, it's about numbers. It doesn't make the last person in the race useless, only a small number of people entered that race to start off with. I've recently discovered that we are lifelong learners, and that is not a bad thing. Nobody is perfect, some may get very good at things, and others have a hard time in the process. And sometimes because we care about something, we are too hard on ourselves, thinking we suck, but actually we are okay. Sorry I can't help you more but know that you are not alone.

 

[shineboy2k15taliban]

You didn't ask to be born, and no one asked for your consent to bring you into this world. So if you don't feel like being "useful", that's perfectly okay, there's nothing wrong with that, and nothing to be sad about.

It's also almost impossible for someone to be bad at everything. Unless someone has severe physical or mental disabilities (and even then), most people are still good at something. It's probably just that you haven't discovered your talent yet. Also, nearly everything takes skill, you can't expect to try something new and instantly be great at it. That's not how it works.



Here's a tip: go into autopilot mode.

What I mean is, stop caring so much, just for a little while. Eat, sleep, watch random videos, be lazy, do nothing "productive" for now. Eventually, a moment will come when things shift for the better. The hardest part is building that IDGAF mindset. But once you accept that the world doesn't owe you anything, and you don't owe it anything either, things start to feel lighter.

Subliminals work for me, and I like using them, but that's your choice. Right now, you're just stuck in this anxious panic mode because you think it's game over. But it's not. You just need more time.


If you don't already, have a reliable method on standby aswell. It will help you a lot mentally.

 

[Linda]

Maybe you are setting your standards too high. If the required standard was perfection, I would be bad at everything too.

 

[IFrequentSaSu]

A failure?

 

[3ngel]

It's fine to feel that way, I personally already felt like shit and that I lost ability in everything I used to do. I just feel like you're just mentally exhausted and you need a break from these things. Life your life easily and dont rely on being "too perfect" on everything u do ^_^