Discussion Would you contact a loved one before ctb?

[Manfrotto99]

My loved ones are all gone so hopefully I will contact them after I cbt

 

[etherealspring]

no. i dont want to get caught

 

[samdocheon]

No.
I'm with them right now and if I call them when I left to my spot, it can be compromised.
The only one I would call last time is an ex but last week I cut communication telling her I dont want to block her like a kid but communications are ended.

So I will be alone for my last day. No car si I need to walk a bit to my spot. Time to think about what I left I guess. Already did but lasts moments maybe will be hard especially during summer walks.

Idk maybe I'll call a stranger on telegram to speak about motivations and feelings. But it not ez to talk in english with a perfect speaker. I'm french btw

 

[emma99]

not a hope,

it will only set off alarm bells although i did phone my farther and just said nothing.
We haven't spoke in a very long time as i am estranged from my family because they are all so abusive.

When i was 18, i got a compo claim from an accident i was in as a child. My farther stole the money, and then blackmailed me into earning it back from him. god what an asshole.
And the only reason i phoned the number. was because I needed to make sure that the number i thought was his, as really his as i need to leave a note with the details of my next of kin.

I did this a few weeks ago. i wouldn't recommend it on the day of the suicide because it can be quite emotionally difficult.

 

[SoulWhisperer]

I would probably call one last person and check up on them. Then go through with it.

 

[attheend13]

I will ctb if my husband dies before me. I would head off into the wilderness, in cold weather, and fade away from hypothermia. Even in Italy that would be an option, certainly in the Alps, and probably in parts of the Apennines too, at the coldest times of year.

This is a good plan but I am afraid of the pain of cold before the hypothermia sets in. Though it's silly I guess I don't want my last thoughts to be suffering. I want peace in the end.

 

[uk_buscatcher_522]

I'm thinking something like a scheduled email that I'll end up cancelling if I fail. Of course if I'm stuck in a hospital that might be difficult, though. And seems a little weird, IDK if a paper note makes more sense.