Society has conditioned women that such things are dirty...unless you're married and are trying to have children. I guess it's the same for men but like a lesser extent or something idk sexism is weird. It is kinda sad though cause there's not much info on female sexual health as it's considered taboo...
Yeah, true. It's kind of weird because I received a very prudish upbringing on sex itself. That, outside of marriage it was wrong, dirty and sinful. Luckily, my education didn't include the one player version. Lol. I think you're right though. We're taught that it's something we should feel embarassed of.
I don't know really. I think a lot of people do it- of both genders. Just that we may not want to admit to it. But yeah- it seems almost expected with men. My Dad even defended it once- saying it was necessary to 'clear the pipes'.
I think with my friend, it was maybe more that they didn't like the idea of their partner jerking off alone- possibly thinking about other women than them.
Attitudes towards sex are interesting. I guess largely based perhaps on how we were raised to view it although, we could also act out of rebellion/ independence I suppose.
Open relationships kind of baffle me. I suppose even casual sex does. But then, maybe the real thing is so much better. I guess some people do just do it for the pleasure without involving emotions so much. It just seems so risky though- with the risk of STD's and pregnancy for women. I think even certain cancers are more likely with frequent intercourse.
Plus, I don't understand how people can keep emotions out of it. That would be my greatest 'problem' I think. Sex has become marriage in my mind. It would seem weird to do such a profound act casually. Again though- that's my specific upbringing affecting things. I guess that's another reason people use porn though- to sate that need in their life. If they are either choosing not to have real sex or, feel as if they can't get it.
Sometimes, I wonder if it's different between the genders. Although, I tend to think an orgasm probably feels similar. I think men have more of a reputation for having higher sex drives but, I wonder if that's accurate. Again, I think it's like you suggest- women aren't so encouraged to admit to it.
Granted a lot of men won't be good at bringing a woman to orgasm or maybe not care to try very hard...
Don't you find that weird biologically? I would have thought we'd (women would) be better designed so that we orgasm every time too. Maybe our long lost female ancestors who didn't orgasm so easily should have refused to reproduce. Try to ensure we were better aligned. Lol.
Seems a bit like the flatfish with its eye that moves around. Why move the g spots away from where they're guaranteed stimulation in intercourse? I suppose baby making doesn't require women to orgasm though.
It's kind that you tried to make sure your escorts had a good time too. I agree though- I think it probably has to be up to the person to create the right conditions too. Mentally, a lot of the time I think. I'm assuming that's the same for men really. But, I don't know. Will stimulation produce the same result, no matter what you're thinking about? Can't believe I'm asking this but, I guess I'm curious.
