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mirror_mercury

mirror_mercury

Member
Aug 25, 2025
31
i mean

it's good practice for when you actually have sex?

i mean, you don't need a girlfriend to have sex

simply save up enough money and.........
 
starboy2k

starboy2k

the only thing I can do right….is be a burden
May 21, 2025
202
i like watching porn (gay porn)
i like wonking my splonk to it
but what I really like is watching myself get plowed six ways to sunday by dudes that agreed to record me lol (bottom type shi)

but hey different strokes for different folks (no pun intended)
 
MourningFlower

MourningFlower

Optimistic Nihilist
Jan 8, 2025
46
I've always found porn to be incredibly vulgar, and although this seems to be an unpopular opinion, I think that people who use porn when they're in a relationship are borderline cheating. If you're seeking out and sexually satisfying yourself to images and videos of other people, to me that is being somewhat unfaithful to your partner.

You're right in saying it's voyeuristic, and I despise how normalised it is in todays society. It warps peoples perception of sex, women and much of it is just disgusting. I'm probably biased as I am demisexual, but I really dislike porn.
 
GhostInTheMachine

GhostInTheMachine

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Nov 5, 2023
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I've always found porn to be incredibly vulgar, and although this seems to be an unpopular opinion, I think that people who use porn when they're in a relationship are borderline cheating. If you're seeking out and sexually satisfying yourself to images and videos of other people, to me that is being somewhat unfaithful to your partner.

You're right in saying it's voyeuristic, and I despise how normalised it is in todays society. It warps peoples perception of sex, women and much of it is just disgusting. I'm probably biased as I am demisexual, but I really dislike porn.
My boyfriend and I both watch porn together and on our own. It's a mutual agreement because we have our urges and understand that it doesn't replace our love for each other. It's not really "cheating" if there's a candid agreement between both parties as to how it's consumed.
 
S

Santana Idaho

Member
Dec 16, 2024
31
Hey, guys! How about some sex education?

"The Truth About
Pornography: A Pornography-Literacy Curriculum for High School Students
Designed to Reduce Sexual and Dating Violence

Jessica Alder, MPA
Nicole Daley, MPH
Emily F. Rothman, ScD, MS"


"Justine Ang Fonte, an award-winning educator on Sexual Education and Antioch University faculty member, appeared as an expert in the hit TV docuseries Planet Sex with Cara Delevigne. In the episode titled "Pornucopia," she discusses the importance of Sex Education and Porn Literacy—topics she teaches about in Antioch's Sex Therapy and Sexuality Education programs.

Fonte is deeply passionate about helping individuals understand that Sexuality Education, commonly known as Sex Ed, should go far beyond discussions of anatomy. She says that Sex Ed is not just intercourse education but so many topics surrounding sexuality in today's society."


"Do we have an idea of the extent to which excessive pornography use actually causes a significant and troubling impact in people's lives?"

 
F

Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
12,716
Society has conditioned women that such things are dirty...unless you're married and are trying to have children. I guess it's the same for men but like a lesser extent or something idk sexism is weird. It is kinda sad though cause there's not much info on female sexual health as it's considered taboo...

Yeah, true. It's kind of weird because I received a very prudish upbringing on sex itself. That, outside of marriage it was wrong, dirty and sinful. Luckily, my education didn't include the one player version. Lol. I think you're right though. We're taught that it's something we should feel embarassed of.

I don't know really. I think a lot of people do it- of both genders. Just that we may not want to admit to it. But yeah- it seems almost expected with men. My Dad even defended it once- saying it was necessary to 'clear the pipes'.

I think with my friend, it was maybe more that they didn't like the idea of their partner jerking off alone- possibly thinking about other women than them.

Attitudes towards sex are interesting. I guess largely based perhaps on how we were raised to view it although, we could also act out of rebellion/ independence I suppose.

Open relationships kind of baffle me. I suppose even casual sex does. But then, maybe the real thing is so much better. I guess some people do just do it for the pleasure without involving emotions so much. It just seems so risky though- with the risk of STD's and pregnancy for women. I think even certain cancers are more likely with frequent intercourse.

Plus, I don't understand how people can keep emotions out of it. That would be my greatest 'problem' I think. Sex has become marriage in my mind. It would seem weird to do such a profound act casually. Again though- that's my specific upbringing affecting things. I guess that's another reason people use porn though- to sate that need in their life. If they are either choosing not to have real sex or, feel as if they can't get it.

Sometimes, I wonder if it's different between the genders. Although, I tend to think an orgasm probably feels similar. I think men have more of a reputation for having higher sex drives but, I wonder if that's accurate. Again, I think it's like you suggest- women aren't so encouraged to admit to it.
Granted a lot of men won't be good at bringing a woman to orgasm or maybe not care to try very hard...

Don't you find that weird biologically? I would have thought we'd (women would) be better designed so that we orgasm every time too. Maybe our long lost female ancestors who didn't orgasm so easily should have refused to reproduce. Try to ensure we were better aligned. Lol.

Seems a bit like the flatfish with its eye that moves around. Why move the g spots away from where they're guaranteed stimulation in intercourse? I suppose baby making doesn't require women to orgasm though.

It's kind that you tried to make sure your escorts had a good time too. I agree though- I think it probably has to be up to the person to create the right conditions too. Mentally, a lot of the time I think. I'm assuming that's the same for men really. But, I don't know. Will stimulation produce the same result, no matter what you're thinking about? Can't believe I'm asking this but, I guess I'm curious.
 
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cowboypants

cowboypants

From milkyway
May 7, 2024
524
Ever since I got into jois normal porn doesn't hit like it used to, and it opened more doors for me. I can't go to sleep on most days if i can't get off, that's been my routine for most of my life. I started off with getting off to pics in newspapers, we didn't have internet then at home, then porn, now I'm back again to pics now.

Relationships are off the charts for me, no exp, since I'm neurodiverse and as a shut in.

I have been gravitating towards stuff that's more personal and prolly what i like IRL. It still feels bad as i approach my 30s i cant see myself coping like this it's sad and lonely. But it is what it is, I don't have the social skills to survive in this world
 
rainwillneverstop

rainwillneverstop

Global Mod | Serious Health Hazard
Jul 12, 2022
730
some people like sugar in their tea, others don't.
 
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