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rainwillneverstop

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Thread is written by @Dot, I am just the messenger due to their typing style.


Sleep is something that is a common issue for many so some information and tips have been researched online in hopes of helping some users.

According to the National Sleep Foundation, the average recommended amount of sleep needed is approx 7-9 hours.

"Studies show that a good night's sleep improves learning and problem-solving skills. Sleep also helps you pay attention, make decisions, and be creative.

Studies also show that sleep deficiency changes activity in some parts of the brain. If you're sleep deficient, you may have trouble making decisions, solving problems, controlling your emotions and behavior, and coping with change. Sleep deficiency has also been linked to depression, suicide, and risk-taking behavior"


According to further research, good amounts of sleep also have a positive physical health benefit, such as aiding systematic healing and repair, hormonal regulation, insulin and appetite regulation and general growth and development.


Sleep hygiene

Sleep hygiene is another term for healthy habits & routines which help to facilitate restful sleep.

Having a good bedtime routine both calms your mind and body in readiness for sleep and also trains/conditions your mind and body so it will automatically know to 'shut down' for sleep in future.

Such sleep hygiene tips are below - full info on each of them can be found by clicking on the link at:
https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-hygiene/healthy-sleep-tips

General Tips & Bedroom Environment
  • Invest in a Better Mattress and Bedding​
  • Reserve Your Bed for Sleep and Sex Only
  • Block Out Light / Invest in an Eye-Mask​
  • Minimize Noise​
  • Set the Thermostat to 65-68F/18-20C; higher temperatures can cause nightmares for some people & too low can cause your body to shiver while sleeping​
  • Talk With a Doctor to Check for Underlying Issues​

Daytime behaviours
  • Keep Daytime Naps Around 20 Minutes
  • Get 30 Minutes of Natural Light Exposure Per Day
  • Exercise for at Least 20 Minutes Each Day
  • Limit Caffeine After 2 p.m
  • Limit Nicotine Use and Smoke Exposure
  • Manage Stress and Organise Life Admin Where Possible

Sleep routine
  • Set Your Alarm for the Same Time Each Day
  • Allow at Least Seven Hours of Sleep Into Your Schedule
  • Eat Dinner a Few Hours Before Bed
  • Be Mindful of Alcohol in the Hour Before Bedtime
  • Disconnect Devices in the Hour Before Bed​
  • Relax for 30 Minutes Before Bed​
  • Get Out of Bed After 20 Minutes if Unable to Sleep
  • Keep a Sleep Diary to Track What Helps and What Doesn't​
  • Consider Using Sleep Aids and/or Bedtime Supplements Such as Melatonin Valerian or Chamomile​

Sleep Relaxation Techniques

Some suggestions for sleep relaxation are as follows and are taken from here:

There are also apps on the market which help wth sleep by offering sleep meditations/white noise or sleep tracking or a combination of both.

Also worth considering are sleep products including but not limited to weighted blankets, eye masks, earplugs, pillow speakers for soothing noises, scented relaxation sprays and wake up lights.


Stress and sleep

Stress is also a recognised factor which impacts sleep and there is research to suggest that some people are more biologically predisposed than others to be sensitive to stress-related sleep issues.

Waking stress is often carried over into sleep so it is beneficial to manage daily stress where possible - there is related info in the Mental Health Worksheets resources thread but also a general self-kindness guide here which covers stress-mangement basics and techniques like finding emotional support and journaling before bed and eating a healthy diet.


More tailored help and support with sleep issues

For some people general sleep difficulties could be a sign of something deeper - information about symptoms, causes, and treatments of insomnia and other sleep disorders can be found here.

For emotional issues which affect sleep, therapy could be an option. There's info about different psychological therapy types on the Therapy Methods Explained thread.

There are also therapies designed to help sleep disorders such as CBTi.


CBTi

Information about CBTi can be found here but here is a basic summary taken from the Stanford Overview:

Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTI) guides patients through a series of changes in sleep-related behaviors. The focus is on addressing the three factors that contribute to the persistence of insomnia:
  1. Conditioned arousal i.e environmental factors, thoughts and behaviours which have trained your mind and body to be aroused, stimulated or stressed, preventing quality sleep.
  2. Identifying and eliminating habits that were developed in an effort to improve sleep but have become ineffective.
  3. Reducing sleep-related worry and other sources of heightened arousal.
The therapist identifies the most relevant targets for behavior changes, and helps patients overcome obstacles to making the necessary and often difficult changes in sleep-related behaviors.

As with most therapies, it is generally better to work with a therapist where possible. If that option is not available there are free online CBTi courses which could give some assistance.​
 
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Thank you Dot, and rain! My sleep has been awful. Hoping to improve it...
Of course disconnect devices 1hr before is a troublesome recurring issue...
 
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Thank you so much for this thread. My boyfriend and I have trouble with sleep and I didn't know about CBTi nor some of the tips mentioned.

This is a very caring resource and I appreciate you and Dot's dedication towards the community ❤
 
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Hopng ths info = usefl

Am opn t/ feedbck or addng/changng info whch mght imprve wht hs bn providd alrdy
 
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Dot

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Thank you so much for this thread. My boyfriend and I have trouble with sleep and I didn't know about CBTi nor some of the tips mentioned.

This is a very caring resource and I appreciate you and Dot's dedication towards the community ❤

Np - slf wll try 2 re-structre th/ lst of 20 s/ = mre digestble bt own concntratn = nt gr8 atm
 
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Mirrory Me

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Or what if you take a teddy bear next to you to sleep... :D

Ps: I call my childhood teddy bear friend Mr. Dreamybear.
 
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vak

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Oh wooow, thank you so much! I'm trying to get my sleep schedule in order, this is super informative ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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I don't know how to reserve my bed for sex, but I will try 🤔
 
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Thank you so much for this thread. My boyfriend and I have trouble with sleep and I didn't know about CBTi nor some of the tips mentioned.

This is a very caring resource and I appreciate you and Dot's dedication towards the community ❤
OoooOOOoo this seems so good and like it might actually help me keep my sleep schedule in order :D
 
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I would add that meditation before bed, if done right, can be very helpful. Body scans always seem to make me drowsy (although melatonin usually does the trick for me). Also don't drink too much of anything too close to bedtime.
 
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I would add that meditation before bed, if done right, can be very helpful. Body scans always seem to make me drowsy (although melatonin usually does the trick for me). Also don't drink too much of anything too close to bedtime.

Apprci8 - alchol hs bn covrd bt slf wll add medtatns & slp relaxatn tchnques 2dy
 
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I would add that meditation before bed, if done right, can be very helpful. Body scans always seem to make me drowsy (although melatonin usually does the trick for me). Also don't drink too much of anything too close to bedtime.

Medtatns + specfc slp rlaxatn tch-nques addd
 
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Seele

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  • White Noise - can come from an in-home fan or YouTube videos or apps
    This one has worked a lot for me, it really helps me relax and sleep
 
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justpeachyyyy

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I will say be careful with full blackout curtains. I got those a while back when I was sleeping partially during the daytime and I would sleep for 10+ hours and still be tired.
 
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deadleaf

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Thanks, I need some tips.
I can't sleep since months and it'a pain because I always had this weird condition as if I'm always without energy. I feel the need to lay on the bed all the time, even if I obviously don't.
Without sleep I can't recover myself from the stress of my daily life, so everything is becoming a nightmare recently. Since many months I'm waking up very early in the morning, sometimes at 4:00 at night, because my back kills me. I feel so weak.. And I can't buy a new bed. I don't have enough money right now. Also now the temperature is high and I can't suffer it at night. I just want to sleep at least 6 hours at night... :/ My depression is growing again and I think it could be because I sleep bad at night. I'll try some of these tips. Thank you for your work!
 
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I usually turn off my screen before I go to sleep since I heard that it can interrupt your circadian rhythm.
 
Demi-Fiend

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As per request, I've had several nights of despair from chronic insomnia. The only supplement that actually helped me with sleeping is Glycine.

Mechanisms of Glycine for sleep:

Inhibitory neurotransmitter: Glycine acts as an inhibitory neurotransmitter, slowing down activity between neurons, reducing anxiety, and preventing overstimulation in the brain, creating a calming environment for sleep.
Orexin regulation: Glycine prevents orexin neurons from firing, blocking wake-promoting activity in the brain and promoting sleep.
Body temperature regulation: Glycine helps regulate body temperature, contributing to the natural decline in core temperature during the night, which is essential for sleep.

Here is the one I specifically recommended: Glycine Forte
 
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I always dismissed melatonin because it didn't work for me but I'm trying out a "Melatonin reset"suggested by chat gpt and, coupled with some tweaks to sleep hygiene specific to me, 4 days in I'm getting 5-6 hours sleep instead of 2. Interestingly chatgpt said high levels of melatonin medication can be counter productive which may be where I was going wrong before.
 
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I always dismissed melatonin because it didn't work for me but I'm trying out a "Melatonin reset"suggested by chat gpt and, coupled with some tweaks to sleep hygiene specific to me, 4 days in I'm getting 5-6 hours sleep instead of 2. Interestingly chatgpt said high levels of melatonin medication can be counter productive which may be where I was going wrong before.
It's recommended to take 1 mg Melatonin, at best. Anything over 5 mg has been advised for being too much.
 
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