Discussion User Discussion Megathread

[Chinaski]

But he has not posted something for a long time. And his last post was concerning SN. I just like him.

DM him then?

 

[noname223]

DM him then?

Yeah you are probably right. Though personally I am not that much into DMs. I rather avoid them. But you are probably right.

 

[Nzbus]

@Weebster is banned? I'll miss his retarded question threads. Always good for a laugh.

 

[noname223]

@Weebster is banned? I'll miss his retarded question threads. Always good for a laugh.

I am not sure whether he was banned by mods or by himself.
Usually I try not to comment negatively about members.

But I had the feeling some of his threads should foster arguments. Like his thread where he called all vaccinated people guinea pigs.

I really disliked his "Will you masturbate before ctb" thread. Maybe you could argue for free speech. And I did not report it or anything. But I think this question is kind of tasteless.

I think he once wrote he does not really care about other people. (concerning their suffering) For me he acted like that tbh. He was not really that empathetic. And I think being that is very important in a forum full of very vulnerable people.

 

[Chinaski]

He was not really that empathetic. And I think being that is very important in a forum full of very vulnerable people.

Very few people here have genuine empathy, much of the empathy on display is self-serving, phoney froth, copypaste crap, empty platitudes. People ritually demand empathy on here without exhibiting it themselves.

That being said, this character was a troll from the off and I'm surprised he got to rack up 1500 posts of that shit, he'd clearly been here before and probably will be again.

 

[noname223]

Very few people here have genuine empathy, much of the empathy on display is self-serving, phoney froth, copypaste crap, empty platitudes. People ritually demand empathy on here without exhibiting it themselves.

That being said, this character was a troll from the off and I'm surprised he got to rack up 1500 posts of that shit, he'd clearly been here before and probably will be again.

I think superficial empathy is still better than to say I don't care, why should I care.

It is difficult to develop real deep empathy to someone if you barely know anything about the other person. Moreover if one is too empathetic in a suicide forum it is really difficult to maintain a certain distance that protects you getting desperate about the whole suffering there happens in the world.

Still I am obviously a supporter of being empathetic. Though I can understand if someone suffers extremely due to his or her current situation the person cannot spend much energy in caring deeply about other people. But for me it is still a difference between being very concentrated on yourself or just saying (openly) I don't care about what other people go through.

 

[rationaltake]

That being said, this character was a troll from the off and I'm surprised he got to rack up 1500 posts of that shit, he'd clearly been here before and probably will be again.

Reincarnation then?

 

[FuneralCry]

To me it is a good thing for that attention seeking troll type content to be removed from the forum. The last thing that suicidal people need is to be made to feel worse by insensitive people on here. The whole purpose of this forum is to have a place for suicidal people to vent and discuss methods and is supposed to be a safe space and that kind of content as well as the pro life type stuff that was here in the past just makes the forum look bad and would make people not want to post.

It is sad how people have came on here just to troll and to try to make others feel worse. It just shows how cruel people can be. It is always best to try and be empathetic as we do not know what others are going through and if comments come off as 'platitudes' there is nothing actually wrong with that. It is better than being invalidated and insulted. I think that people being kind to others should not be criticised.

 

[whatevs]

Reincarnation then?

Weebster had a very idiosyncratic way of writing and will have a hard time coming back under a new skin.

 

[Lost in a Dream]

Weebster had a very idiosyncratic way of writing and will have a hard time coming back under a new skin.

He also had some banger titles for some of his threads too (and I mean that in a good way - he was creative). I'm sure those will be a dead giveaway if he comes back.

 

[Nzbus]

He also had some banger titles for some of his threads too

The gas station thread

 

[Alex6216]

Weebster had a very idiosyncratic way of writing and will have a hard time coming back under a new skin.

Doubt it, making an account requires you to give your real IP address to the admin team which means he cant make a bunch of new accounts since the admins will know its all coming from the same person.

 

[1up]

Do you guys know if DeutscheKartoffel is okay?

 

[waitingforrest]

Do you guys know if DeutscheKartoffel is okay?

I think they got banned. But I'm not sure :(

 

[noname223]

Does anyone have an update on @LastLoveLetter ?
Honestly I expect the worst. If she was dead this would make me very sad. I really like her a lot. She is such an amazing person and I think many people on here appreciate her lovely friendliness.

 

[Foresight]

@LastLoveLetter is okay!

 

[Chinaski]

What happened to Al Cappella?

Any advance on this?

 

[Callie Arcale]

@LastLoveLetter is okay!

Thank you for the update. If you are in touch with her, please send her my best and tell her I hope the LDN is going well.

 

[Rapière]

Does anyone know what happened to @Nessie? She was the Ukranian member who made a thread on here when the russian invasion started.

 

[waitingforrest]

Does anyone know what happened to @Nessie? She was the Ukranian member who made a thread on here when the russian invasion started.

That's worrying to hear.

 

[castler]

@Weebster is banned? I'll miss his retarded question threads. Always good for a laugh.

I'll take over

 

[Cathy Ames]

I'm seeing the @MicropBaldCurrycel user name crossed out. Does anyone know if he self-banned?

 

[Inteoop]

Has anyone heard of @botanormal?

 

[Suicidebydeath]

Did anyone ever talk to @CTBgenuine and know whether they're ok now?

 

[Enigmatic Sailor]

I have to say this... I miss @Ame ...

 

[TheSoulless]

Is @Angel Goddess alright?

 

[Dysgenic Pup]

People sure do come and go...

Two damn years on this site.

 

[Inteoop]

Did @Crazy4u self-ban?? I know they were doing better after being absent for some time.

 

[Dysgenic Pup]

@UberYeets, @NeuroDamaged3, @Outcryofcrows, I'm sorry. If we meet again, that will be a good day. If not...

 

[Suicidebydeath]

Someone asking what happened with @mittensxx? I'm assuming ctb. Names crossed out.