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[TheLastK]

Is @jossstick still around? I made them uncomfortable by accident and I want to apologize but I don't know if they ctb, if they see this I hope they understand and I'm sorry, and I really hope they haven't ctb.

 

[http-410]

Is @Flippy still around? They last posted in February.

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

Has anyone heard from @Wrennie at all? Still nothing??

 

[DunnoWhyButYeah]

Can anyone confirm what happened to @TheNorthernSilence ? He was my good friend since we both landed here in 2018, the last contact I had was 8 weeks ago, around the same time of his last activity here. It would help me know if he's gone and at peace. If you have any info please reply or dm. Thanks

He died. I send message for you

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

I don't know if this has been asked before.... maybe.
Can banned members still see their pm's?

 

[Smart No More]

I don't know if this has been asked before.... maybe.
Can banned members still see their pm's?

No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.

 

[Life_and_Death]

No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.

could be wrong or maybe it was circumstances. i think youre right about the not logging on part but i think i remember someone whos name was crossed out that could, but like i said it could have been circumstances. it was a couple years ago and im not even sure how i got that info.

 

[Dead Meat]

Has anyone heard from @Wrennie at all?

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

No, I wouldn't think so. I don't think they're able to log in at all.

could be wrong or maybe it was circumstances. i think youre right about the not logging on part but i think i remember someone whos name was crossed out that could, but like i said it could have been circumstances. it was a couple years ago and im not even sure how i got that info.

Thanks for the info.
I know I've seen members with names crossed out still on here before, maybe that was family logging in after a member has passed.

 

[Smart No More]

Thanks for the info.
I know I've seen members with names crossed out still on here before, maybe that was family logging in after a member has passed.

I think that's usually people who close their accounts/put them on private and log out. You can do it in the settings but it still allows you to log back into your account. People can put themselves on a kind of time out.

 

[Lost in a Dream]

I think that's usually people who close their accounts/put them on private and log out. You can do it in the settings but it still allows you to log back into your account. People can put themselves on a kind of time out.

So that's how it works. I've always wondered about that, but it's been a while since I've seen someone with a crossed out name come back.

 

[Smart No More]

So that's how it works. I've always wondered about that, but it's been a while since I've seen someone with a crossed out name come back.

That's one way but obviously some people don't come back and if they're banned by admin then they definitely wont. People often do it before they CTB for security reasons.

 

[Cathy Ames]

Is there anyone who has been in contact with @Pokèmon (aka Gabby or CTBus) outside of this forum?

 

[waitingforrest]

Is @Bootleg Astolfo okay? It's been a month :(

 

[GentleJerk]

Has anyone heard from @Wrennie at all? Still nothing??

No, last time we were chatting in messenger was around the last time I saw her online too. Things had been tough to say the least. Really hope they're okay.

What about Judah / JustJudah?

 

[Myforevercharlie]

No, last time we were chatting in messenger was around the last time I saw her online too. Things had been tough to say the least. Really hope they're okay.

What about Judah / JustJudah?

He changed his name
Bread with milk

 

[DunnoWhyButYeah]

@Manaaja ?

 

[Molded foundation]

What happened to @Mendex ?

 

[Trilucid]

Not really here to look or ask for others at the moment.
But it does hurt like hell knowing how many have gone and passed.
Losing their battle once and for all on this cold as ice rock.
It's like that one lame joke nobody forgets...

 

[Inteoop]

Has anyone heard from @dreadpirateroberts69?

 

[Disappointered]

Does anyone know what happened to Meditation Guide?

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Does anyone know what happened to Meditation Guide?

Last seen yesterday it says

 

[Molded foundation]

Too many people I wonder about. Been here since May 2020, feels like I'm just watching a time lapse of people in a city. People just come and go.

Spoiler

Yes, I've been feeling this more intensely lately. There's always some old users who've stuck around, but new users check-in and check-out like crazy.

 

[chocolatebar]

Do any of you know about @onlyanimalsaregood? She told me she was going to be away for a while, but it has been quite some time...

And about @PrincessInWhite? She disappeared all of a sudden and has been some time too.

 

[rationaltake]

Lots of coming and going atm. @StarryStarry was briefly back and has gone again. @catflowers has gone.

 

[Inteoop]

And about @PrincessInWhite? She disappeared all of a sudden and has been some time too.

I wouldn't call it sudden, her condition worsens over time and there's only so much being here can do for her. She is in a lot of our thoughts but yeah.

I'm so desperate for mercy, hugs and being sad for me wont help me.

Lots of coming and going atm. @StarryStarry was briefly back and has gone again. @catflowers has gone.

@starry starry was just @StarryStarry and she had an argument with rain so she was probably banned. (sorry I just saw you did indeed tag her first account)

 

[chocolatebar]

I wouldn't call it sudden, her condition worsens over time and there's only so much being here can do for her. She is in a lot of our thoughts but yeah.




@starry starry was just @StarryStarry and she had an argument with rain so she was probably banned.

Sorry for my choice of words. I don't know what she endures and how difficult it is to pass by and talk to so many users

 

[whatevs]

Too many people I wonder about. Been here since May 2020, feels like I'm just watching a time lapse of people in a city. People just come and go.

Spoiler

Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.

 

[Julgran]

Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.

Some of those people may have decided to end their life already, but I believe that you are correct.

However, I also see a stay within this community as beneficial from an easy exit standpoint - meaning that it's beneficial just to have gone through the steps that may be necessary if push comes to shove, and have an easy step-by-step instruction for oneself if life gets too tough - much like preppers who buy a lot of food and other necessities in order to stay alive for long periods if a disaster strikes, but the other way around.

For example, one may not want to buy N or SN, but it's beneficial to know how to tie a proper hanging rope, in case life takes a turn for the worse. You could call it "suicide prepping".

 

[Inteoop]

Tbf why would you extend you stay more than the bare minimum necessary. It makes sense that people leave, or leave here. If you get into the habit of checking out the forum daily like me it just means you're stuck in a personal hell that's not painful enough to push you to suicide but neither to stop thinking about It altogether.

I also don't think it's unlikely that there have been people who "left" but came back under a different account. Maybe that's just me omega-coping though. But I'd put money on it having happened at least once.